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Stupid Best friend i keep wasting my time on
ok well my ex boyfriend and i have been best friends for a while then dated and just broke up like a week ago because he doesnt have time for a girlfriend. also because im moving in a month and a half. well the thing that practically kills me how can a person not have time to just call their 'best friend'?? like can't they just make some time?? it is so frusterating because we never talk anymore and im LEAVING FOR GOOD SOON so HOW can he not want to talk to me and realize its important? i know he might be trying to deal with me moving but anyone with a brain should know to spend time with someone whos leaving-at least TALK to them!!! please dont tell me hes hurting or something because what the hell im the one leaving my whole life!! should i just stop even wanting to talk and being good friends with him because it really upsets me that he never has tme for me because everyone in the whole frickin world has time to call one person every couple days. i dont care how frickin hard high school is hes only a freshman and there is no way he has too much hw to even call me every other day or something. i know he just isnt making time because im sure he could call when hes watching tv when he gets home from school. thanks
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maybe he thinks you dont want to talk to him. after the whole "breakup" deal, he might think you're pretty pissed off.
here's an idea:
why dont YOU call HIM???
if its that important, you can call him. ask him what his problem is, and tell him that you're moving and you really wanted to talk to him. if he says hes doing something important, just say that he can sacrifice a few minutes for you. and if he still doesnt wanna talk, well then he doesnt wanna talk.
im sorry, but boys are stupid and thats just the way they are.
i hope it works out for you. :)
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Have you tried calling him instead? Just a thought.Sometimes we have to make an attempt to do something first sometimes.
I'll be straight up with you.If he dont want to talk then. I would just leave him alone. I wouldn't force him to do anything. Have you thought about how he might feel about you? There might be some reason as to why he aint talking to you.
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