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Okay I'm 5'1 and my weight is 117!!!! Im not really sure if I'm fat. In my clothes I dont look fat n in my bikini I guess i dont either..I mean I dont look super skinny though either. I think I'm fat but my sister and bff say its mostly all muscle which may be true bc i am a dancer (Tap Jazz and Ballet) n I have been dancing for about 5 years. I dont think its muscle though...I really wish i was skinnier but my sister says it would look dumb bc i have a "BIG ASS!!!!" which guys like so its nice but i am REALLLLY insecure about my thighs and stomach..my bff says they look fine n they are all muscle but i still feel REALLLLLY fat...About a month ago i starved myself for 3 1/2 days n i lost 5 1/2 pounds! I would have kept going except my bff basically made me eat..I know that starving myself probably isnt tha best thing to do but its sooo easy and pretty fast. Im not sure what to do at all!! PlZzZ help!! Thanx xo0ox!!
i'm a dancer too and it sounds like it's muscle!!! starving yourself is definitely not the way to go. and if you're dancing while you starve yourself, you are going to have no energy and you will hurt yourself. just eat healthy foods and exercise (go on walks, run) and please don't get obsessed with losing weight. that spells trouble.
I screwed up majorly...I had a boyfriend and had sex with him. I regret it majorly and I wish I could take it back, but I know I can't and I keep putting myself down about it b/c I know all my friends arn't like that. Then I drank the other night...did some stupid stuff that I regret....theres more stuff that gets me upset but thats what really gets to me...I'm going to talk to one of my friends tonight about it though...I'm kind of nervous about what he's going to say.
thats perfectly understandable. it's good that your talking to your friends and i hope they really understand. i wish you the best of luck, and if you need or want to, you can tell me what happened.
if you feel bad, talk to someone. maybe a friend, a counselor, a parent, an adult you trust. with help, you can put everything behind you. just think of an eraser in your mind. you can erase all of those bad memories and start fresh with good times and good memories. please, if you need help, i'm here to talk. just send me a message in my inbox.
lots of love --> K
^^^ you said that on my question...thanks...I need people to talk too...I know I do I just don't have anyone. I don't want to talk to my friends about it b/c they'll all think differently about me. My parents...well this stuff isn't things I want to be telling them, and I don't know our school counselor and the one adult I do trust I recently found out all the things I have told her in the past she told my mom...so I'm lost and I don't know who to turn too...
i'm here to talk whenever you need it. is there anything in particular thats bothering you???
I've messed up a lot...and I'm only 15. I'm not going to go into detail about all the mistakes I've made, I just need a way to deal with them. It's like their haunting my mind. I don't know how to deal with it, and I'm always putting myself down about them too. I'm only 15 what do I do? I know its in the past and I can't do anything about it....
if you feel bad, talk to someone. maybe a friend, a counselor, a parent, an adult you trust. with help, you can put everything behind you. just think of an eraser in your mind. you can erase all of those bad memories and start fresh with good times and good memories. please, if you need help, i'm here to talk. just send me a message in my inbox.
lots of love --> K
my friend always lies to me and im so sick of it! what should i do?
confront her and tell her that she's always lying to you and you're sick of it. if she's a real friend, she'll really listen and stop lying. if she doesn't stop, it might be time to find a new friend because you don't want a friend who lies.
okay so ive liked this boy for the longest time and now he told me that he likes me back and he says that he wants to have sex with me but im scared cuz it will b my very first time and i don't knoe if i want to loose that respect for myself this early in my life im only 13. and this boy is kinda a player but ive liked him for a long time and now that i knoe he likes me back i don't want to do n e thing that will ruin this. please help me
if you feel like your having doubts, then you probably aren't ready. if he a player and you have sex with him, he could move onto another girl and you'll regret it. think it through carefully. you could go out with him, ut tell him that you're not comfortable with the physical aspect.
wut does love really mean?!?!?!?!
i think it's just a special feeling that you have. like, you don't want to be away from that person, and you don't want anyone else but him. it's hard to describe.
Is there any way to get ride of a pimple FAST???
HURRY I NEED TO GET RIDE OF IT BEFORE FRIDAY!!!
DONT pop it. Try Clearasil or another good acne treatment. Get a face wash and just take care of your face.
iight well i lOve bOyz but wen i say i love them my friends tell them or i do over the computer but i cant talk to them face to face cuz i think they will b like eww u like me or somethin gay ?is that nOrmal
help me please ..
hey!!! u just need confidence. you have to be brave and talk to them. even if they say that they don't like you, you can always be friends. you never know, a boy might start to like you if you get to know each other.
feel free to send me a message whenever!! i'm here to help!!
i like this boy a lot i mean iv liked him for like 2 years how do i make him fall in love with me.? ps he kinda likes me but i want him to like me more
ps.... what questions are good to ask a 14 year old boy?
it's hard to make someone fall in love with you. you have to just hang out with him more, be yourself, and get to know each other better. if you're lucky, something will happen
well i like this kid nd he likes me nd wen i talk to him he sometimes tells me to tell people im his cuzin nd shit - he dose have a girl but i dont no her ?! y u think he sayin to tell people that ?! PLEASE HELP !!
hey!! um.. i think he wants you to tell people that because he has a girlfriend. he doesn't want people to think that you two are an item. i'd talk to him and get to the bottom of this.
send me a message whenever you need help!!!!
i'm adddicted to Pickels!! i love them and i dont eat anything else because i dont like any other foods without pickels..=/ how can i stop
i hate pickels every since i was 5
just slowly back away from them. tell your mom to hide them someone in the fridge. i'm sure you'd like other food without pickles, but u just have to try and get used to it.
there is this girl whos is really really really nice but some of my friends make fun of her b/c she can't afford new clothes i want to make her have really cool clothes but the problem is i don't have any money to get her new clothes how can i make her look stylish w/ out usin alot of money??
well, first off, tell your friends to stop because it isn't cool that they're making fun of someone less fortunate than them. second of all, make sure she WANTS you to do this for her. she'd probably get offended if you just bought her new clothes without consulting her. maybe get a job babysitting or something together and use the funds to buy clothes.
rate me please --K
I'm a 15 yr old gurl and i'm in love with the show Lizzie McGuire. Its a disney show... made for like little kids. Am I totally retarded for liking this show? I dont know why I like it SO much but i realllllly do! I watch it everyday... twice a day! and I have a tape of all the recorded episodes which I watch a lot too. And of course the Lizzie McGuire movie too!!!!! I just cant get enough. I even cut my hair like hers (of course it looks better on her but whatev) please help i dont know what to do
Signed,
Confused Gurl
i think it's OK. There's stuff you can relate to. You do seem a little bit obsessed though, but I think it's OK
I just moved into my new house and I want my room to be really cute! Do you have any ideas on decorating it? ThAnKs!
make it your own. paint the walls your favorite color and decorate it with your interests and celebrities you might like. have fun with it, because it's yours!!!
Choose one or the other 4 each question!!
Chad Michael Murray or Johnny Depp??
Ruben or Clay??
Bush or Kerry??
Hilary Duff or Lindsay Lohan??
Apple or Banana??
Ben Affleck or Matt Damon??
Paris Hilton or Jessica Simpson??
Chicken or Tuna??
Johnny Depp
Clay
Kerry
Lindsay Lohan
Apple
neither
Jessica Simpson
chicken
my best friend really likes this guy, and she never told me that she liked him, so i had no idea! And now she like hates me because, i started liking him. She thinks that i started liking him just to piss her off, and that's not true! How am i supposed to convince her that i had no idea she liked him?
talk to her. tell her you had no idea that she liked him too. you guys have to come to an agreement: who is more important, a boy and your friendship???
okay i was thinking about getting a tattoo( a little one somewhere) and i wanted to know the best place to put it other than lower back for girls. i know someday i want to have a baby, so i dont want to put it where it's going to get all stretched out. also, what should i get and do guys think its attractive for a girl to have tattoos?
hm. i'm not sure but remember this: make sure it's not a place right out in the open because job people look for this stuff (my teacher gave us a lectur one time)
does anyone kno any good shampoo that makes highlights look better and/or healthy? i just got highlights and just wondered if u need any special kind of shampoo or anything. thx, erin
if you look on the bottle, it says "safe for color treated hair." but i'd suggest something like tresemme
okay...me n my friend are making these shirts with iron on thingys...but we don't know what to put on them..we can put anything we want because we just need to find a picture on the internet...any ideas of what to put on our shirts?
thanks
umm.... hot celebrities, favorite sayings, cool pictures, your hobby, a song lyric, anything!