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Q: ok this might be stupid but im going to ask anyways..me and my boyfriend have only been together for 8 days..but i know its love..its hard to explain but we've known eachother for awhile and last night i relized i was in love with him.hes my entire world..could this be love?
Its crazy. I call that crazy love. Its possible but highly unlikely. You just really really like him. But like i said its possible. Because anything is possible-trix

Q: ok so i have this s.s. project and we have to be certain ppl and i am stuck w/ Vasco da Gama! I don't need to wear like an over the top costume just sumthin that shows a little bit of who he was. i know this is the gayest question but plz help!
I need help on what i should wear!
plus the kid i like is in this class
plz help me
thank you so much!
~*i rate*~
Type in his name on ask.com or go http://pictures.ask.com/pictures?q=Vasco%20da%20Gama&o=0&qsrc=1 I looked that up for you! Hope i helped-trix

Q: If given the choice between Italian and German...which one should I pick to learn?
I would totally go for german!!-trix

Q: Does any1 know how to get rid of some of the website listings under the URL place on your home page? This is kinda hard to explain but on your homepage there's the bar for typing in the webstite you want to go to, then there's an arrow on the right end, which u can click to show all the websties you've visited recently, well how do you get it to not show some of those? thanks for any help!
Oh like your history? If that is what you are talking about then go to TOOLS go to internet options and click clear history then hit yes and then hit okay. And there ya go!!-trix

Q: I want Dance Dance Revolution soooo much! Anyone know where DDR is sold for the cheapest prices? I checked out Best Buy & theirs was about $40 but so were the dance pads. Also, I don't have XBox or playstation or any kind of video game hookup thing, do I have to buy those to use DDR? any info will help! thanks!:)
Go to media play. they have really good prices on them!! And yes you need to buy one or the other-trix

Q: hey yea'll !!!

ok i love to write poams and quotes do you know any good websites where i can write them down and read others ... ive already tried firehotquotes and i found most of it is just quotes ive heard before and them poams didnt really make sence
any help would be great
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www.poetry.com or www.poetictimes.com i love those sites!!-trix

Q: I have like this guy since last year. We have flirted a little bit and stuff like that, but i cant tell if he likes me. He stares at me all the time during class. But when we talk on AIM, he will be really mean. Except, today, I randomly asked if he had seen "Coach cater" because i wanted to know if it was a good movie, and he said "no, but do u want to go?" I said i was already going witha friend, and he was like "fine ur loss". I dont know if this was some kind of joke, or if he really likes me! Please help me out!
Well i would get back to him and takl to him and ask if he wants to come and he can bring a buddy with to. Like a double date or just a fun outing with friends. You shouldnt have said it but its okay cuz we all do things like that. Just talk to him again-trix

Q: What do you do when a person wants to hang out with you all the time? thanks
All the time? Just be like im busy this weekend. Lets do something next weekend. Just say you need to hang out with other people because you feel you are distant from them. Or if you feel that might hurt them to much have other people come with you guys that way it isn't just you to. And there is a bigger group and more people to hang out with -trix

Q: Me and my boy friend have been going out for a long time he never does anything with me and I hate it y cant he be like other guys? is there a way i could get him to be like other guys?
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My boyfriend is a bit slow to. You just got to help him out a bit. Mine is kind of shy and respects me alot. He doesnt want to jinx what we have. That could be how your boyfriend is to. I mean if you havent kissed yet and you 2 are watchin a movie and cuddling... lean over and give him a kiss and smile. You just need to help him out. Chances are he is shy, nervous, and scared of how you might react to whatever you want him to do. I bet he thinks about it and the thought that comes across his mind is that you will get mad. So just hint him that you want to go further. Be greatful he isnt like all the other guys. Hes unique. Hes speacial. And he is just for you!-trix

Q: my gf is the best ever! but there r times at my house where she rushes things... i dont wanna b a daddy what do i do
Well im glad you think she is the best ever. Awfully sweet of yoU! Well if you think your pressured you need to talk to her i mean that is the best thing you can do and let her know you dont want to rush things you want this relationship to be slow and you'd like to be with her for a long time. I've never really heard of a girl that didnt respect that when her boyfriend told her that. I've heard a few guys say that to their gf's and they were just fine. That respected it. I would just let her know you dont wanna rush things and you dont wanna be a parent. Not now not yet. You'd like to wait for awhile to get older and enjoy life while you are still young and then when you get older go from there-trix

Q: how are you supposed to know what size condoms to buy?
The guy would know that. If you are a guy you have to go check them out and guestamate. You just got to take a guess. -trix

Q: I'm 13 years old, and I'm bleeding "down there". i'm afraid, and I live with foster parents I dont really know yet. What do I do?!! I don't know whats going on!
signed,
confused
Ask one of them to take you to a nearby store and give you 7 dollars and you run in and grab pads. This is a normal girl thing EVERY girl goes thru it. So its nothing to be ashamed of. Your just becoming a girl. So no need to worry. So just go grab some pads. You got your period-trixie

Q: ive never kissed b4 except when i was like 4. whats it like and how exactly do you do it??
What kind of kiss? Tounge? You just stick your tounge in and that comes naturally. I know you want how to do it but honestly it comes naturally some people say just make your tounge dance around. Others say jus do what he is doing. I've also heard massage his tounge.. persoanally thats to wierd. But anyways if its just a peck then just have your lips touch and pucker your lips out-trix

Q: i like this kid but the thing is that i have never talked to him and hes a year younger than me and i just think that he is nice and all that but i really like him..what should i do?please dont say go up to him and talk to him because im really shy around new people..
That is really the only thing you can do besides just sitting there and gaze at him. So you do need to go up to him. Not neccesarily alone but you need to do something. If you want to be his friend or more-trix

Q: when ever my freind comes around me she gives me this look like she like "likes" me or something and i dont know how to tell her about it but shes freakin me out! what do i do?
Ask some of your friends that might no. or ask them to find out and if you want to know so bad then ask yourself. That would take alot of guts to do saying hey do you like me? I know i dont got half the guts to do that. So i would just do it thru friends-trix

Q: I am the worst at reading guys. I probably couldn't detect when a guy was flirting with me if my life depended on it. Does anybody have some basics I should know about?
he plays with your hair, cuddles, compliments you, talks with you the most, "fights" with you-trix

Q: if i drink too much water what will happen and is it true that if i drink a lot of water ur face will become slimmer, if so how many glasses?
You are suppose to drink like 8 glasses a day. And it will clean up with no pimples to and it will slim down a bit-trix

Q: okay so im going out with this boy and im kinda the one givng all the giving...he is just taking! its driving me crazy but i really like him what should i do?
You need to talk to him because that is totally not fair. At all. I would just bring it up to him. I know i wouldnt find a way to bring it up to him so i would just keep it bottled up but that isnt the thing to do. So you need to talk to him or just break up with him. I would say talking would go over best and then if things dont change then you need to dump him-trix

Q: I have stretch marks on my boobs!!!!! Is this normal? Do most girls have this? What causes it, and can I get rid of them???
they are just growing so its normal. Its nothing to worry about. Just listen on commercials for stretch mark cremes because they're stretch mark stuff out there like some butter cocunut stuff. go to walgreens or walmart and ask-trix

Q: ok here is the thing i want to have a long relationship but then again i dont. if any one has been in this place b-4 plz help. i just dont kno wat to do thanks.
I was in that sit. I found out that that is the thing that is holding me back from being a teen. A teen goes out and explores dating, hanging out with friends. Your holding you and the other person back. Its hard. You miss the person alot to. Your hurting not only yourself but the other person because you both want to hold on to and it gets to be a big problem because you both want to see eachother and want to talk all the time and what not. But you cant see eachother because of the distance and cant talk forever because of the bill. I would just call it off and remain friends. Me and my x brandon are really good friends and we talk on occasion. He understands why i broke up with him.-trix

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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