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Hi my name is Lee Ann. I am 29 years old and Graduated from Bethany college obtaining a bachelors of music. I am a happily married woman with two kids, ages3 and 2. I currently have six books out on the market, all of which can be found on amazon. The first is called The Leaf: One fallen heart and a burning desire, my second is called Avengement of Glory, my third is called Spiral of Enlightenment, fourth one is called Prodigy of the Immortal, fifth one is called Augment in the Realm of Darkness, and my sixth novel is called Bond in the Spiritual Heart. I started this advice column to see if I could give good advice. Turns out I am pretty good, better than I thought actually. I enjoy seeing people smile when I give them good advice and they use it. It makes me feel better as a person to help people. I want to make the world a better place and I think that starting an advice column is the right way to begin. Writing is a huge part of my life, without it, I wouldn't be able to function properly. After seven years, I think I have done pretty well as an advice columnist.

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okok, I told this guy I loved him!! And we used to be friends, and now he's avoiding me!! WHY? and what did I do wrong!? PEOPLE ALWAYS TELL ME NOT TO HIDE MY FEELINGS. How do i make this right?

I think he feels the same way but he is to afraid to tell you. I know i am afraid to tell people how i feel because i have to guard myself from that type of stuff. I think he is just guarding himself from getting hurt again. To make it rght is to just talk to him. I know it is hard to talk to people when their avoiding you so write him a note or call him send him an email. You wont feel better until you do it.

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Hello people!
Here it is, I like this guy named Max. He seems to like me too, he went to see my play, he went to school for me and we went to play pool. Sounds like your typical puppylove right? Wrong! Now he is neglecting me. He dissed me last monday to meet "his friend". Yeah I don't believe him...And now from being really sweet to like not talking to me anymore...
I haven't done anything to make him loose intrest..has he lost all fellings, is there no hope left? Help!

Thank you ♥

I dont think that he is neglecting you. but i do think that you will never truly feel better until you talk to him about it. Everything will be resolved when you taljk to this person

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My wife and I have been married for 7 years. When I met her she was very reserved and shy acting. Our sex life was good but she never wanted to deviate from normal foreplay and intercourse. I had told her that I had 5 sexual partners before I met her (including an ex wife). She never said anything about her past other than having sex at 17 and then having not dated for 3 years prior to when I met her. After we were married she told my brother at a party that during 1 year at college she had sex with 27 guys and that she was proud of it as she had used them for sex. When he told me I was shocked. I married a slut as far as I was concerned. She is very religious and plays the good Baptist part well. I have told her that I am having a hard time dealing with the fact that she had so many partners in such a short time, the average total partners for a wome of 39 is 7. She has had sex with over 35 total partners. I told her that I need some details about why she had sex with so many guys and the details of what happened. She says it is none of my business, but I now just think about all of these guys fucking my wife every which way. We have not had sex for 4 months now and it is driving me nuts. I just can't get excited about her. I wonder were these guys great at sex, did they have bigs dicks did she do things with them that she will not do with me.
What should I do? Am I wrong to have an open conversation about the details of her sex capades? She also says she does not remember any details, yeah right?
She seems happy to not have sex now. Now that she does not have to work and I earn over $300,000 a year. I ask her how she could fuck all those guys who gave her nothing and not me the guy who has given her everything?

Please help.

Jimbojoe

Ok first off you are talking about guys form her past. Girls that have been broken in the past so bad that they just use guys to get over what they are feeling depressed about. A women doesnt like a who pushes for answers. I am a woman and i can tell that something serious hapened in her life that she is afraid to tell you about. I know that it must be frustrating to think about all those guys and what they did to your wife. If you dont let things go you will never truy be able to move on. Maybe she is getting upset because you keep bringing the subject up. If she was really proud of what she did do you think she would have bragged t you and not your brother.

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I'm 20 years old, and my boyfriend is 23 and we've been in a serious relationship for almost 6 years now! Unfortunately, i don't trust certain things about him! For Example, it seems like his head is elsewhere all the time. We live together, but he says he wants to be around me all the time. What is weird for me though, is that, he's coming home later than usual and leaving earlier then usual. But i can't see any signs of change other than that, besides are sex life, which we are currently changing, after i talked to him about that for 1 year and a half! I don't know what's happening to us, something seems wrong and i don't know what it is! We go clubbing every Saturday and all he does is sit there to stare at other women. I think he's no longer attracted, but he tells me he is. After 6 years we've went through every problem a million times. I'm not scared to talk to him about anything, so i always ask! He says one thing, but does the opposite of what he says, this leaves me so confused! HELP SAVOUR THE RELATIONSHIP!!! PLEASE!! (we have plans to get married and everything)

Some guys if they are going to ask a serious question like will you marry me they kind of act weird. They will leave early because they are afraid they might blurt it out and so he stays out longer to think about what the perfect moment would be. When you go clubbing and notices other women he probably thinking that what i am doing is worth it. He look like he is scoping out other women but he is probably just finding a reason why you are better. I knwo that smetimes it may seem like you cant trust them about cerain issues but i think that you dont have anything to worry about.

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is it wrong to want to have sex at the age of 13?

Well it isnt wrong to think about it because that is normal. I think it is a little young of an age to do that sort of thing i mean protection doesnt always work, do you want to be pregnant at your age right now? i mean there is a chance that it will work but are willing to take the chance? but it is perfectly normal for your age to think about it and want to do it.

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I'm 17/F
I have had a boyfriend for 2 steady months
and I used to like this guy and he saw me kissing
my boyfriend. He gave me a rather hurt look. Does he finally like me? I'm so confused what should i do?

I think he has liked you all this time but seeing you kiss another guy made him relize that he does. Sometimes it may seem like a person doesnt like you but that person really does. He didnt relize what he had until you relized he had lost it so he does like you finally. If you are only with this b/f b/c you liked someone else and needed to get over that person then thats the wrong reason to be with the guy.

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Okay so i've got a BIGGG habit of biting my nails! what can i do to stop? and don't tell me to put my hand in dog poo or anything like that because thats gross lol!

thankyou sweeties xo

alot of people get their nails professionally done so they can avoid that habit. And people also just paint their nails so they pick the paint off instead of the nail. it is a hard habit to get rid of if you continue to try and not do it each day just take it one day at a time and eventually you will think that it is gross to do that.

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Okay, so I'm on birth control pills and my periods are always evenly spaced apart, but this month I got my period like a week early. A day and a half before I got it though my boyfriend and I had sex a few times. Could that have made it come early or is there something wrong with me that I started so early?

It is completely common to have a period that comes early or late. Soemtimes that means you are irregular. alot of women are. Sometimes women are sometimes irregular and some months they are right o time. Sex doesnt have anythign to do with it it has to do with women.

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what does birth control mean?

It is something that you take to help you control certain sexual urges. and it also helps to prevent pregancy and if you are on birth control the guy doesnt need to wear a condom. It helps you from getting pregnant basicly

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for alomost a year & a half. We are (were) supposed to get married next month. Last night we were talking and he told me something that he had been holding in since last summer that he wanted to get off his chest. I was pregnant last summer and miscarried, he told me he doesnt believe I was ever pregnant. This has hurt me so much, we are not little kids, in fact I am older than him (21 & 23) I would not make up such a horrible story, I was crushed when it happened and still cry at night sometimes when I think about it. He says he cant marry me till he has proof. Getting "proof" isnt a problem, but i feel now as though I cant marry him becuase he doesnt trust me and Ive always been told if you dont have trrust you dont have nothin. I Love him more than I could ever say and the thought of losing him upsets me to no end, but at that same time i feel so betrayed by him like im some kind of monster that would make up a story like that. What should I do? please help Ill rate!!

I think that you should do what you think is right. A person who truly loves you would do anything or belive anything you say and he is obviously not that person. You will find someone that will believe you and you sound like you would find that person fast. I think that he doesnt deserve you and you deserve better, My dvice is to show him the proof and ten tell him we wouldnt have had to o this if you woul d have believed me from the start and then tell him that you cant marry someone who think sof you as a dishonest person when you are not. You may be in pain for awile but then you will meet someone that will take it all away. Trust me you dont want to marry someone and then have regrets about it. If you feel guilty about the choice you made chances are it isnt the right one. I hope you that you find the answers you are looking for and have a feeling everyting will turn out just fine and to make things a little easier pick up a hobby that you enjoy and do it so you can keep your mind off the bad things. Do what you think is right.

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Me and mum used to get along really well. Now i am getting moody i suppose and i am always fighting with her. I hate it because we always got along so well. But i am not just saying it is me, mum seems to be a bit rude to me sometimes and i get really upset. I want to talk to her about it but every time i try she tells me to stop being so sensitive and silly. please help i am not sure what to do and it is really getting to me.
Thanks in advance

I think that every mother and daughter have their moments. I fight with my mom alot to and we get along to. Sometimes i get really moody and cant control my emotions. The best thing to do is to try and act postive. You could write in a journal and write how you are feeling and stuff. It helps get some anger out. Also you could find something that you love t do that will help get soe of your anger out. Your mother loves and sometimes they get moddy and they dont want to admit it. I have learned that their lives are more stressful than we think they are but if you try and take it one day at a time it will help you alot. Try and be nice to your mother one day and then gradually increase until it is a process for you.

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I need some help deciding what classes i should take my junior year (next year).

i know no one here knows all the courses i have at my school but most schools ussually have very similar classes!

I want to be a kindergarden teacher when i grow up and ive already taken all the classes that are like child care based or whatever so there is nothing about kids left for me to take but i dont know whats next.


i was thinking like taking something like socialogy but i dont know what kind of classes will help me most!

Sociology helps you understand people better and a good source for wanting to be a school teacher so is psychology it helps you know what people are feeling and can interpret their feelings well. You want to be able to do that when you are teaching children no matter what age. There are s many different types of psychology. any of them would help you in that field.

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i have a bunch of friends. i guess. i only hang out with a select few of them outside of school and most of my friends from soccer arent my friends anymore. i dont know why and it kinda hurts because i was extremley close with one girl on my team. then to add to that almost all my friends at my school are twofaced. the one that i noticed isnt, her mom HATES me for no reason. she doesnt let her daughter do anything. even if its for school. im sorry this is so long but i hate high school and i dont know what to do about my friends. i try to talk to my guy friends about it because they such better friends. i just if i hang out with them outside of school they think im flirting or its a date ; and if i tell them its not it gets weird and sometimes they dont take it the right way. im in such a rut and i have no one to talk to ( dont refer lifeline..not happening ) what do i do?

I know what it is lie to have a mom the absolutely doesnt like you and wont let her hang out with me. Your friends are probably about something not worth hating for. The ebst thing is to write them a note or call them and invite them out to do something. Everyone has friends and if they dont like who you hang out then they are not truly your friends and you would be better off not to hang out with them. I think you sound like a nice person who doesnt deserve this. As for the mom maybe you shuld just tell you dont care that she doesnt like you are hanging out with her daughter whether she likes it or not. If you dont care then you have the upper hand. it drives people crazy when they now you dont care

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My friend collects model horses (like the plastic ones, etc). I'm fine with it, but I'm just curious to know what people think about it. What are your opinions?

Everyone has a passion about something they like. I collect porceline dolls. Their collection of things tells a person about who they are. The horse is a beatiful animal who is gentle and cares. Sometimes this person gets a little scared. Thats my opinion that the things we are interested defines us a person.

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I like this guy... and he likes me. yeah. makes sense. were like... together- but I just like.. LIKE LIKE him, but he's obsessed with me. He likes me more than i like him. is that bad? or.. well. he kinda just wants to get more involved right now more than i do. like... well. im just fine being simply 'together'. he wants to get into all of the LOVE life kind of deal. how do i deal with it?

You have to tell him how you feel because if you dont say anything it is just going to get worse. You should tell him how you want to be. If he truly cares about you then he will understand and follow how you want the rlationship. It is ok for someone to liek someone more than they liek them. Sometimes people do that. I like my best friend and he only likes me as a friend and he told me he didnt wnat to ruin the relationship and i completely understood that because i really care about him. So if you are honst it will happen according to plan.

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ok i am an athiest i have read many things supportin the exsitence nad nonexstence of god. I was just curious as to why people believe so strongly in a religion or a single god.

I am mormon and i guess the reason is because i believe only one person would have the power to put us here and one person to control it. I believe in him even though i have gone through so much. I just got a car and i have been in three accidents and i could have died but for reason i believed that someone was watching over me. I am not trying to change your mind or anything. There has to be someone that is controling when we die, it doesnt make any sense without it to me. I guess you could say that i have the worst luck in the world but i guess for some reason i know i am going to be ok. its hard to explain into words. My dad almost died and i prayed that if i would be the best person i could be the i want my dad to live. And turns out he has diabetes and he would have died but something told me not to worry.

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how do i loose weight fast?! what are some exersizes i can do, how can i eat, etc.? does anyone have any tips? please! ill rate 5s.

Usually drinking water and doing curnches. You dont want to do to many crunches becasue it can make your muscles really soar and you wont lose any weight that way. You have to bulid up. My frind just joined weight watchers and she has lost about 10 pounds and she just started not to long ago.

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whats it mean when you're ears itch on the inside and kinda hurt? i have a sore throat too and it feels like they are connected because when i swallow i can sorta feel it in my ears.

It is an infection inside you ear. Most people have to go to the doctor in order to get it treated. I suggest doing that and usually when you have an ear infection you have a soar thrat and when you swallow it effects both of them. Dont worry they usually give madication and it goes away between 4 to 7 days.

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ive thought about this for awhile...when guys like skaters and hardcore guys wear extremely tight girl pants. what do they do with thier thing? theres no space for it in the pants...
anyone know?

Actaully i have some friends that wear tight jeans. He said that they go where it usual is. He says it doesnt really make a difference.You would that because they are tighter then there would be no space but he says there is just enough space. I guess it would depend on the size lol.

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im 17 male 5'7" weight 130 lb.'s its it ok for my age cause i look realy skinny how can i gain weight i eat a lot fat foods but don't gain weight. can some one give tips.

Working out can help you build muscle and alot pople prefer guys to be skinny. I like guys either way but working out would be the best solution. They have bars that you can eat that helps you gain weight. You can find them anyway like walmart.

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