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He likes me more than i like him
I like this guy... and he likes me. yeah. makes sense. were like... together- but I just like.. LIKE LIKE him, but he's obsessed with me. He likes me more than i like him. is that bad? or.. well. he kinda just wants to get more involved right now more than i do. like... well. im just fine being simply 'together'. he wants to get into all of the LOVE life kind of deal. how do i deal with it?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
ask him to marry you and...
if he says yes~ run far far away
if he says no~ talk to him about why you asked and your concern about him liking you too much
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Take it slow. and if he's a fast one, say you're not ready for it. because if you go for it and its really not what you want, you'll just end up in a bigger mess and hurt his feelings more by letting him find out LATER that you didnt have as much feelings as he had for you. 'love' takes time to grow. if u get into one fast, it`ll end sooner. <3
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Well, you cant force yourself to love someone especially when thats not what you want right now and im sure he'll understand that. One person in the relationship is always going to feel a little more than the other person, thats natural. But I think if you really do like him and your just not ready for love right now then maybe you will later. You have to grow to love someone not just do it because they do. I think eventually your feelings will change, and if he loves you like he says he does then he'll wait for you.
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gosh i so know how you feel i was in the same thing about a week ago. so im tell you how i dealed with it.well first i started to slowly distance myself but it felt like he was just getting clingier so i asked one of my friends to not make it obivious say something like shes not into clingness or right now she doesnt want a serious relationship just for future reference. . mayb this will help but if it doesnt i dont know what else to say .good luck.
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You have to tell him how you feel because if you dont say anything it is just going to get worse. You should tell him how you want to be. If he truly cares about you then he will understand and follow how you want the rlationship. It is ok for someone to liek someone more than they liek them. Sometimes people do that. I like my best friend and he only likes me as a friend and he told me he didnt wnat to ruin the relationship and i completely understood that because i really care about him. So if you are honst it will happen according to plan.
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Sounds like he is looking for the more serious type of relationship and you are not, and you NEED to tell him that. Because if he is starting to like you that much, then it will completely break his heart if he finds out that is not what you are looking for in a relationship. So I think you either need to talk to him a bit, and tell him to slow down, or just take a break if you are not wanting a serious relationship.
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He's probably just happy that he found a girl like you. But, sit him down, and let him know that you like him, but you want to take the relationship a wee bit slower. Good Luck.
-Brina
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i PERSONALLY DONT THiNK iTS
BAD THAT HE LiKES YOU MORE
THAN YOU LiKE HiM..
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BUT iF HE WANTS TO TAKE
THiNGS MORE SERiOUS THAN
YOU DO..JUST TELL HiM
THAT THiNGS NEED TO SLOW
DOWN..& iF HE LiKES YOU AS
MUCH AS iT SEEMS EVERYTHiNG WiLL
BE OKAY
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iF iTS SO BAD TO WHERE iTS UNCOMFORTABLE
THEN TELL HiM YOU THiNK YOU GUYS
SHOULD BE FRiENDS FOR NOW UNTiL
YOUR READY
HOPE i HELPED
<3
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