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i know 14-w/e yr old guys only think about sex (supposedly)

does a guy thats in 8th grade (13-14) only think aboout sex?? i think its kind of young (and disturbing) but idk.

lol I'm pretty sure of it. I was playing my Sims 2 game and my 11 year old cousin was watching me and was all like 'get them on the bed'. Even I was surprised! Haha, they develop dirty minds quite sooner than you think.

Hello, I have a Sidekick 3.

I have a Dell computer that uses Windows. I would like to know how to put music on my Sidekick. When I plug the USB cord in nothing happens, and in the directions it says to find the "mounted USB drive" and I dont know how to find that.

Please explain to me how I can do this, in as many ways as possible.

Please help me ! Thanks !

Go to My Computer, and look for it there.

im thinking of doing my school's talent show in spring. maybe solo, or with my friend. can you give me good ideas of songs i can sing solo, and songs i can sing with my friend? im in 8th grade and a girl (if its not obvious). and i sing... well its hard to describe, like i can be alto and then kinda soprano sometimes-ish. and please dont say songs like "Fallin" by alicia keys.. like not TOO mainstream but not TOO weird either.

thanks! :)

"No One" - Alicia Keys
"Hurt" - Christina Aguilera
"I Fall to Pieces" - Patsy Cline
"Blue" - Leann Rimes

That's really all that I could think of.. I hope thats what you were looking for.

hey! So I've been looking online for free downloads for my Sims 2 game. and I found this really cute bedroom set. But its a zipped file, and I don't know how to unzip it and put it into my game. I know you have to use WinZip or sumthing? but ANY ANY ANY help would be useful! Please help!

Go to Start > My Computer > My Documents. [wherever the zipped file is saved]. Find the zipped file [that looks like the folder], and click ONCE on it. Look to your left, in the small box titled 'File and Folder Tasks'. There should be an option to extract it. Click it. A window should come up, wait for about a minute, and your files should be 'unzipped'. THAT'S when you should copy it to your Sims 2 folder.

Hope that helped, if you still need further assistance, don't hesitate to drop by my inbox.

I'm 16 female. && I think I have a great body! That pine skinny look is out, and what I look like is in! Big boobs, nice stomach(a little baby fat) nice legs. But that thing is, I dont know how to really show it off. I'm 5'4, 5'5 with shoes, 148lbs, play sports, cheerleader, but I dont act like it. I wear hoodies, and jeans more then 95% of the time. Even tho I know my body looks good, I dont know how other people feel. My friends tell me all the time, that I have the best body they know, and they wish they had it. But whenever I wear like a hollister shirt(tight) I feel fat, bc when I sit I have that little baby fat. Im not sure what Im asking, but what do you guys think? && if you think I should start dressing up more, give me some ideas of what to wear?

Here are some messurements.
height-5'4-5'5
weight-145-150
pant size-6 or 7
shirts-M or L
bra-34-36D

&& if you want a picture of my body, Ill send one, only if you can really help me.. thanks! =D

I just wanted to point out to missbananafontana that the questioner did not ask what her BMI was. She was asking for suggestions on clothing.

Anyways, back to the question.

I started off the school year by wearing simple polos and jeans, or just a hoodie and jeans. I found this cute cheetah print dress in the back of my closet that I bought from Wet Seal last year. I put a black long sleeve shirt underneath it, black leggings, and black flats, and I got a ton of compliments on it. Even guys noticed (that rarely happens hah). The shirts that you should aim for should be the empire waist shirts, otherwise known as shirts that are more free flowing near the bottom. These shirts paired with skinny jeans and flats, or just regular jeans would look extremely cute.

http://www.wetseal.com/catalog/product.jsp?categoryId=111&subCategoryId=213&productId=7899
http://www.wetseal.com/catalog/product.jsp?categoryId=111&subCategoryId=213&productId=7872
http://www.wetseal.com/catalog/product.jsp?categoryId=101&subCategoryId=113&productId=7868
http://www.wetseal.com/catalog/product.jsp?categoryId=101&subCategoryId=113&productId=7561

Those are just a few examples, however you can find lots of other cute things at forever21.com and wetseal.com. I know what you mean about Hollister shirts being tight, and even their jeans seem like they were made for size 2's since they're so tight! I hope that helped. Stop by my inbox if you need any other information or links.

edit -- ideas for hair:
half up, half down
curled
straightened
low pony tail
that poofy thing that you pull back and its that thing on top of your head [hard to explain]
scrunched
braided low pigtails

there's a LOT you can do with your type of hair.

http://www.advicenators.com/qsearch.php

go there, and look for the last white box where it says 'keyword', type in 'hairstyle' and you can find tons of other questions where you can find similar answers about different hairstyles.

So you've probably all heard about jamie lynn spears being pregnant

But I'm curious to hear every ones opinion on this .

Good or bad what are your opinions on jamie lynn spears being pregnant at 16 do you all think its a bad influence on youngsters? What do you all think ?

Jessica Martinez, - Seventeen Magazine

Honestly, I was shocked to the extent where I called all of my friends and told the immediately. I mean this is JAMIE LYNN, sweet, all American, Christian, girl next door, from Zoey 101 [of all things]. First it's Vanessa Hudgen's pictures and now this. I was watching E! when they had a clip of Britney looking as shocked as ever when she found out that her little sis was pregnant. I can't even imagine the embarrassment that her mother has to go through. First, Mama Spears is dealing with Britney and her wild child behavior, but Jamie Lynn is merely 16, not even a legal adult yet. This has been poor for her reputation and her image as the better sister. Might I mention Ms. Lohan? Anyone remember the picture of the frazzled Lindsay sitting in the passenger seat with her mouth hanging open? She too was a Disney star. These girls need to get themselves in check before they completely lose it.

Can anybody help me with my problem? im 13 going on 14 and i need money but i dont know any places that hire at 14 can some one tell me where to start looking.

local churches.
go to your church and ask where the childrens nursery is located. speak to the head of the nursery or the secretary or whoever and ask for an application and the minimum hiring age. i've been working at my church since i was 13. you won't make MUCH. i still make about 80 dollars a MONTH. you have to start off small either way.

me and my boyfriend landon really like each other. we have those little fights about whos cuter or who loves each other more. and at school, WE ARE SERIOUSLY ALL OVER EACH OTHER! we tell each other that we love each other. hes all i can think about. and he tells his friends, that he loves me and that all he can think about is me. i really miss him alot, and im going to see him tomorrow. so, does it sound like were in love, or...are we just really close in our relationship?

-shelby/13/f

its puppy love hun. it's perfectly normal. enjoy it while you can.

I have a clear/whiteish discharge and it comes out in clumps and like wet...and I can feel it and idk if this is normal or not. I need as much advice on this a s possible...thanks in advance, this a touchy subject for me.

If it is in small, itty bitty chunks, then it is fine. It's also normal because it's still white (not like yellow, green, ect.) Take a look at the page below for more information regarding vaginal discharge. It provides in depth information, such as color, texture, density, ect.

http://www.pamf.org/teen/health/femalehealth/discharge.html

[it's a bit long, but read 'til the end because important information is provided throughout the article]

why was the commercial for the underwear friends (check it out on youtube) BANNED? whats wrong about it and did it EVERR air?

"takenusername2000 (2 months ago) Show Hide Marked as spam +3 Reply The video wasn't really banned. -- I remember seeing it on network TV in 1994 before the show went on the air. "

copy and pasted from the page where youtube video is located. some people said it aired, some people said that it didn't.

i'm looking for songs that are sad, about losing someone (a death), or about breaking up with someone, missing the relationship you had with someone, saying sorry, etc. slow songs would be best, preferably alternative music. thank you.

The Scientist by Coldplay
Romeo and Juliet (Mark Knopfler cover) by The Indigo Girls
Let's Trade Skins by the Great Lake Swimmers
Broken Telephone by the Be Good Tanyas
It's All About Us by the American Analog Set
To be alone with you-Sufjan Stevens
Four fingered fisherman-Sun Kill Moon
I will follow you into the dark-Death Cab for Cutie
Snow day-Matt Pond PA
Naked as we came-Iron & Wine
Hope there's someone-Anthony & the Johnsons
Magnificent talents-Illford
Radiohead - Let Down
Imogen Heap - Hide and Seek
Antony & The Johnsons - Bird Guhl
Antony & The Johnsons - Free at Last
British Sea Power - North Hanging Rock
I Miss You-Incubus
Run-Snow Patrol
Warning Sign-Coldplay
Almost any Death Cab song
REM- Nightswimming
Bloc Party- So Here We are
Air- Playground Love
Sunny Day Real Estate - Two Promises
Jimmy Eat World - Speed Read
Death In Vegas - Diving Horses
frozen-madonna
carasol man-cher
linger-cranberries
sometimes u can't make it on your own-u2
beauty and the beast~stevie nicks
power of good bye-madonna
sunday bloody sunday-u2
otherside-red hot chili peppers
please-u2
walk on-u2
iris - googoo dolls
Wild Horses/the Rolling Stones*
City Sickness/Tindersticks
Fake Plastic Trees/Radiohhead
Such Great Heights/Iron and Wine*
Bankrupt on Selling/Modest Mouse
- mad world/gary jules
- for real/okkervil river
- bumblebee/kelly de martino
- hallelujah/jeff buckley
- angeles/elliott smith
- lavinia/the veils
- are you happy now/sophia
- song to the siren/this mortal coil
- glorybox/portishead
Blue - A Perfect Circle
Everything off of a Denali album
Emily Haines' new album
Walking After You - Foo Fighters
The Grace - Neverending White Lights
Love Is Not Enough - Nine Inch Nails
Heart Attack in a Layby - Porcupine Tree
Pure Narcotic - Porcupine Tree
Let Down - Radiohead
Your Ex-Lover is Dead - Stars
Wings for Marie - Tool

sorry about the various formats.. these are copy and pasted from a forum.

which episode of friends is the one where joey kisses rachel in new years i think... i wanna know so bad!!!! its in here at the time of 00:11-12 (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ySCIUx43hwU)

I think this answer will actually help compared to the previous one..

http://www.tbs.com/stories/story/0,,69486,00.html

It's Episode 217 - The One After Joey and Rachel Kiss.

"Season 10: Episode 217: The One After Joey and Rachel Kiss

Chandler, Monica, and Phoebe listen through the thin walls as Ross makes out with Charlie and Joey makes out with Rachel. Before things go too far, Ross decides he better talk to Joey about Charlie. Joey decides he better talk with Ross about Rachel. Monica gets corn rows put in her hair to overcome the frizziness caused by the humidity. Ross talks with Joey about Charlie on the flight home, but Joey can't bring himself to talk about Rachel. Mike reveals that he has a girlfriend (named Precious), and tells Phoebe he'll break up with her at dinner. Pheobe waits for MIke at his apartment; Precious shows up there by mistake, so Phoebe breaks the news to her. Monica's hair causes her problems at home, so she agrees to get rid of the corn rows. "

is friends gonna have a movie coming up ? Thats what i heard b4.. its gonna be called "Friends In Money"

is itt rue?

Are you talking about Friends With Money?

http://imdb.com/title/tt0436331/

It came out last year. Jennifer Aniston is in it. However, it's not a movie based on the show.

http://telepixtvcgi.warnerbros.com/v2/news/0605/02/1/text.html

^^ Lisa Kudrow confirms that there is no movie in the works.

where can i find lyrics to the song dont go by Qwote and trina?

I couldn't find the lyrics.. at all. I've tried all of the lyric sites, but it doesn't come up.

I found the song on imeem.com

http://dabaddestbeyotch.imeem.com/music/jeX9Uhe9/trina_dont_go_ft_qwote/

You have to sign up for an imeem account [its free] to listen to the full song.

That's really all that I could find pertaining this song.. sorry. =/

My baby is having a problem with getting rid of a diaper rash.

I have tried the following:

-Diaper rash ointments such as, A+D, Desitin (Zinc Oxide), and pretty much any other diaper rash ointment I can get out of the store.

-Corn starch and baby powder with cornstarch.

-Gold Bond medicated powder.

-Gold Bond Cream.

-Using baby wipes only when wet washrags are unavailable.

-Of course, diaper changes more frequent than normal.

-Letting it air out. (Diaperless crawling baby doesn't work so hot.)

-Using a blow dryer to dry the area.

I have gotten rid of most of the rash, but there are places left on his bottom that is still red and sore.

It isn't severe enough for me to feel he needs to go to the doctor, or trust me, we would be there already.
He seldom gets rashes, and when he does, they are usually difficult to completely get rid of. This one is being especially stubborn.

I know the cause already.
He is eating solid foods for three meals a day now, at 30 ounces of milk a day, 6 ounces of 100% fruit juice a day, plus his favorite snack, shredded wheat, a couple of times a day. Which means, the more he eats, the more frequently he moves his bowels.
(In case you are wondering, his pediatrician is aware of how much he consumes in a day, and says he is right where he needs to be on that.)

He isn't consuming anything new for it to be caused by allergic reaction. He is prescribed Benedryl to take in the event that happens.

He isn't ever left wearing dirty diapers, it is just that the sensitive skin on his bottom isn't used to all that pooping, which is recently 1-2 times daily.

So that is all of the information I can think of that can be helpful for you to help me.

Any suggestions of other home remedies I can try to get rid of this rash?

Have you tried actually washing his bottom?

http://www.askdrsears.com/html/8/T081400.asp

My baby brother had a diaper rash last week and I washed his bottom, and put on cream ointment and it was gone. Also, trying different types of diapers could help since you already stated that his skin is sensitive. If the problem persists, you might just have to take him to the doctor just to make sure that he is OK.

I was wondering if you could have kids on the sims 2 for ps2?

No, I have the game and have tried several methods and I have looked at all of the Sims 2 guides online. It's not possible.

ok, so...
i was on my AIM like a couple of days ago, and some message popped up saying that there was some problem and my buddies aren't on. and i was just thinking oh it's nothing, it'll go away. and it hasen't. i dont know what to do.
i mean i have a linked screen name and it has all my buddies online on that one, but on my other on, it says they're all signed off.
how do i fix it?
please help!!

Have you tried reinstalling AIM?

My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now. Things were very well in the beginning of course, until up to 6 months ago. He's been acting really mean to me and always accusing me of cheating on him.

My boyfriend and I took some time apart in the month of November due to us constantly going at each other’s throats. I actually thought I was going to be alone for thanksgiving, since my family was not going to be in town. A good friend of mine invited me over to his family house for thanksgiving but I ended up canceling because my boyfriend called and asked if I would go spend time with him and his family. It was short notice but of course I'm going to drop everything to be with him, he's my man. Later that night, I guess my BF checked my phone because he started yelling at me about having a backup plan for thanksgiving. He read the text message I sent my friend thanking him for the invite but that I was going to cancel. I've known this friend for a long time and there's never been anything between us, so I saw nothing wrong with the picture.

Anyway, since thanksgiving things have not seem to change. Just a week ago I texted my BF in the morning asking if he was awake yet (my exact words: Are you awake baby?). Well I would guess that the text message never went through because the following day he ended receiving the text. He received it when I was at the house with him. And oh boy did he go off on me. He was constantly asking me whom I was supposed to be sending that text to?

Now the latest thing is Christmas day. I guess he was trying to test me, he called my phone restricted and said nothing to me. I answered it (I had no idea it was him) and said hello about 4 times until I went to hang the phone up, but right when I hung the phone up, you could hear a mans voice say hello. I figured if it was important they would call back. Well he yelled at me today for it. He told me that it was him that called my phone, and that it was so ironic that I would hang the phone up as soon as I heard a man's voice. He said that if I were not cheating on him, I would have spoke to that person.

I don't understand why he's playing these games with me, I've never cheated on him and I would never dream of cheating on him. I do everything for this man, and I love him unconditionally. Please I need some advice; I don't know what to do. I really don't want our relationship to end, but all this fighting that's going on is hurting me emotionally and physically; my body can't take this stress anymore. Please, fill me in with your thoughts.

Thank You =)

There is obviously an issue with trust here. I can already tell that your boyfriend is the envious type. You need to sit down and have a talk with him like grown people and tell him to LISTEN. Explain that you would never ever cheat on him and tell him that you truly care about him. Tell him what you are telling us. If he doesn't listen, he's not worth your time and trust me when I say this, but you need to find a boyfriend who trusts you and is able to confide in you, just as you can confide in him.

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ok well i have braces and i havnt kissed a guy yet but i really want to im just scared to because of the braces and its going to be different or those stupid stories about them...is there really any difference???

There isn't much of a difference, but be careful when you kiss because your braces might get hooked. [it happened to my best friend, not lying]

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