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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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i'm a 15/f and i am trying to update my itunes...what are some really good songs?

Zebrahead - Everything Falls Apart.
The Presidents Of The USA - Lump.
The Postal Service - Nothing Better.
The Verve Pipe - The Freshman Eagle.
Eye Cherry - Save Tonight.
Bowling For Soup - The Bitch Song.
Taking Back Sunday - You're So Last Summer.
The Postal Service - Such Great Heights.
The Vanished - Favorite Scar.
Unwritten Law - Save Me.
Shinedown - Burning Bright.
Live - Lightning Crashes.
Relient K - Be My Escape.
Bowling For Soup - Always.
The Spill Canvas - The Tide.
Ingram Hill - Almost Perfect.
JTExperience - Party Like A Rockstar.
Social Code - Beautiful.
Sugarcult - Back To California.
Fall Out Boy - Sugar We're Going Down.
311 - Amber.
Offspring - Can't Get My Head Around You.
Bowling For Soup - 1985.
Fenix TX - All My Fault.
The Used - Blue And Yellow.
Social Code - Cats And Dogs.
Everlast - Only Love Can Break Your Heart.
Coldplay - Fix You.
Ben Harper - Walk Away.
Fuel - Falls On Me.
Smile Empty Soul - Finding Myself.
Akon - Mr Lonely.
Everlast - So Long.
My Chemical Romance - The Ghost Of You.
The Verve - Freshmen.
Eagle Eye Cherry - Falling In Love Again.
Nickelback - Photograph.
Dead Poetic - Bliss Tearing Eyes.
Daniel Powter - Had A Bad Day.
Theory Of A Deadman - Santa Monica.
Lyfe Jennings - Must Be Nice.
Live - I Alone.
Criss Angel - Die For Me.
3 Doors Down - Going Down In Flames.
Hinder - Get Stoned.
Carl Henry - Perfect.
Massari - Real Love.
2Pac - Ghetto Gospel.
Thornley - Come Again.
Staind - Right Here.
Chevelle - Panic Prone.
Matt Mays - On The Hood.
Breaking Benjamin - Rain.
Dead Cab For Cutie - When Soul Meets Body.
Dopamine - This January.
The Spill Canvas - Stapplegunned.
Jack's Mannequin - The Mixed Tape.
Breaking Benjamin - Next To Nothing.
Candle Box - Far Behind.
Sweatshop Union - Try.
Classified - No Mistakes.
Nickelback - Far Away.
Twista & Trey Songs - Gotta Make It.
Simple Plan - Crazy.
The Pussycat Dolls - Stickwitu.
Matthew Barber - Soft One.
Sevendust - Beautiful.
The Click Five - Just The Girl.
311 - Don't Tread On Me.
Matthew Barber - Soft One.
The Dandy Warhols - We Used To Be Friends.
Rex Goudie - Run.
Dallas Goudie - Caseys Song.
Hedley - 'A' Song.
Blink 182 - Not Now.
The Rolling Stones - Rain Fall Down.
Hedley - Trip.
Mary J Blige - Be Without You.
Nick Connon - Are You A Dime Piece.
Ashley Parker Angel - Let You Go.
50 Cent - Best Friend.
Bif Naked - I Love Myself Today.
New Ridaz - Special Girl.
Damian Marley - Beautiful.
Panic! At The Disco - It's Time To Dance.
Bif Naked - Let Down.
Teddy Geiger - For You I Will.
Angels And Airwaves - The Adventure.
Mobile - Out Of My Head.
Red Hot Chili Peppers - Dani Californa.
Panic! At The Disco - I Write Sins Not Tragedies.
The All American Rejects - Move Along.
Yeah Yeah Yeahs - Gold Lian.
Incubus, The Perfect Circle & Finger 11 - Falling Behind.
The Dandy Warhols - Sleep.
The Wallflowers & Counting Crows - Heartache.
The Spill Canvas - All Hail The Heartbreak.
Joe Budden & Busta Ryhmes - Fire.
Gorillaz - Dare.
Shaggy & Oliva - Wild 2Night.
Madonna - Hung Up.
Chris Brown - Run It.
Sean Paul - Keeping You Warm.
Chingy - We Clubbin'.
Beenie Man - Kind Of The Dancehall.
Lil Jon, Trick Daddy & Twista - Crazy Train.
D.H.T. - Listen To Your Heart.
Gwen Stefani - What Are You Waiting For.
Joe Budden - Pump It Up.
Pitbull & Lil Jon - Culo.
Sean Paul - Shake That Thing.
Jermaine Dupri - Gotta Getcha.
Royal Gigolos - California Dreamin'.
Lil Jon, Busta Ryhmes & Elephant Man - Get Low.
Mobb Deep, 50 Cent & Nate Dogg - Have A Party.
Daddy Yankee - Rompe.
A Perfect Circle - Thinking Of You.
Aqualung - Strange And Beautiful.
3 Doors Down - Landing In London.
Seether - The Gift.
Breaking Benjamin - So Cold.
Default - All She Wrote.
Fort Minor - Where'd You Go.
Rancid - Fall Back Down.
Wallflowers - One Headlight.
Stone Sour - Through The Glass.
Rise Against - Ready To Fall.
The All American Rejects - It Ends Tonight.
Him - Right Here In My Arms.
Coheed & Cambria - Wake Up.
Hinder - Lips Of An Angel.
Billy Talent - Red Flag.
Audioslave - Orginal Fire.


Hopefully this helps you out some. ♥

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13/F/MD. Do these questions go to a magazine too, or just the site?

- Confused in Maryland

They just go on this site. ♥

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i need to know who sings this song- im havin a brain freeze and cant think i know a guy sings it its hiphop and the line that i can remember is cath em ridin dirty, muy musics so loud theyre hatin help please+

The song is called 'Ridin Dirty' and it is by Chamillionaire. ♥

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is it normal for people to shave there feet?

If you don't like hair on your feet, I don't see any problem with shaving it off. ♥

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hey. i am a guy.. && 15 right now and i am getting a 2001 Black Accord LX 4 Door. I was curious if this is too much of a "girly" car..

Naw, I don't find that to be a 'girly' car or color. It is going to be black and that is a pretty 'manly' color so I'm sure you will be fine. ♥

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Can dogs be allergic to other dogs? Is that possible?

I don't know if that would be possible. It might be, but I'm not too sure about it. My sister has a cat and the vet said he is 'kind of' allergic to himself. (It's actually kind of sad, though. He always breaks out in red puffy dots on his lips!) It could be possible for dogs to be allergic to other dogs, though. You never know. ♥

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whats up with people saying that theyre not in love with you they just love you

Because there is a difference. You aren't IN love with everything, you just love them. For example, you love your parents, other family members and friends. You also love your pets (if you have some), your clothes, your favorite singer/band, your favorite song, etc. But you aren't IN love with them.


BEING IN love is a whole different ball game. Being in love is finding your bestfriend in that one person. Someone you would die for, or do anything for. Someone you know in and out. Someone who is your other haft. Your boyfriend, or girlfriend. ♥

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17 female I didn't brush my teeth alot when I was little like I was suppose to and now that iam older i've been brushing my teeth 3 times a day and they are like really yellow and there is a big brown stain on my teeth how do I get my teeth whiter besides brushing them?

I suggest going to a dentist. They'll be able to clean your teeth for you. I'm sure they'll be able to get the yellow and brown stain(s) out.


Also, you know what does wonders? Banking soda and salt! All you do is you get a little bottle and fill it with 1/2 banking soda and 1/2 salt. Then, shake it so everything is mixed together. After you're done brushing your teeth (with regular toothpaste), just put a little of banking soda/salt on your tooth brush and finish up with that. It works great and it REALLY does make your teeth whiter. You should see a difference. ♥

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What are the signs of pregnancy?

All of them would really help. Even the less common ones.

Pregnancy symptoms differ from woman to woman and pregnancy to pregnancy; however, one of the most significant pregnancy symptoms is a delayed or missed menstrual cycle. Understanding pregnancy symptoms is important because each symptom may be related to something other than pregnancy. Some women experience pregnancy symptoms within a week of conception. For other women, symptoms may develop over a few weeks or may not be present at all.


Here are some signs:

-- Implantation Bleeding.
-- Delay/Difference in Menstruation.
-- Swollen/Tender Breasts.
-- Fatigue/Tiredness.
-- Nausea/Morning Sickness.
-- Backaches.
-- Headaches.
-- Frequent Urination.
-- Darkening of Areolas.
-- Food Cravings.


If you need anymore information, I suggest checking out the following site: http://www.americanpregnancy.org ♥



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How long after conception does pregnancy begin to show?

i mean like the bump...

You usually start to show after 3 weeks. ♥

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heyy... you know how in some people's profiles they have like sayings or quotes or part of a song that's like decorated or whatever... so like one word is like big or underlined or a different color or whatever?? well i need some ideas... like what sayings or quotes or parts of songs or whatever that's good for my profile??

You can find a lot of good quotes at this site, http://www.holliesquotes.com ♥

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I had sex with this guy. We used a condom and he didn't come inside me. He also smokes a lot of pot. What are the chances that I am pregnant? I haven't missed my period yet, but I am really scared. I am only sixteen. Please write back ASAP!!

First of all, pot has NOTHING to do with getting pregnant. I don't know why you would even metion that.


Secondly, you used a condom and you said he didn't come inside of you. Chances of you being pregnant is very slim. So don't be worried about it. ♥

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Where can I get some jeans without pockets on the butt? haha.

I love those but I dont know where to go to get them.

You can get those kind of jeans at Eclips. However, I don't know if you have that store where you live. ♥

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I was just wondering after you have sex and the guy finishes in you do you have to take a shower?

If you feel like you need a shower after having sex, then go for it and take a shower. You don't have to take a shower after sex. But if you really want to then that is up to you. It doesn't matter. ♥

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i was looking through questions on here..and someone said you can get a yeast infection from wearing colored underwear...it sounds completely untrue to me because what does color have to do with anything? so if anyone knows for sure can you set the record straight?

I think that is completely untrue, too. I don't think colored underwear would give you a yeast infection. I always wear colored underwear and I haven't had a yeast infection in my life. So, I don't think that is true. ♥

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hey
my name is justin, iam almost 18, actually iam 17 years old plus 7 month.
i live in new york.
i was woundering wats the legal age in the us to have sex, and am i free to buy condoms?
tanx for help, and i really appreciate.
reply soon.
Justin

I've haven't heard tell of a law for having sex or buying condoms - you can buy condoms at any age. Having sex with someone that is 18 or older is against the law though, if you're younger than 18. But other then that you're fine. ♥

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we got our school pictures back today. and i have no idea what to write on the back. what are some cute things to write. by the way im a girl and in 10th grade.

When I had to write on pictures, I usually just put funny moments me and that person had or inside jokes we shared. Then near the end you could write a little something about how much of a good friend they are. How they're there for you whenever you need them. How understanding and kind they are towards you and other people. Just write down what you like about that person and the fun times you guys had with one another. ♥

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what are some depressing love songs? thanks.

Stone Sour - Through The Glass.
3 Doors Down - Landing In London.
Aqualung - Strange And Beautiful.
Ben Harper - Walk Away.
Breaking Benjamin - Rain.
Coldplay - Fix You.
Crossfade - Cold (Acoustic.)
Death Cab For Cutie - Passenger Seat.
Default - All She Wrote.
Hedley - A Song.
Oasis - Stop Crying Your Heart Out.
Pearl Jam & Alice In Chains - Alone (Acoustic.)
Social Code - Perfect Grave.
The Dandy Warhols - Sleep.
The Spill Canvas - So Much.
Story Of The Year - Sidewalks (Acoustic.)


Hopefully you like some of these. ♥

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I have natrally wavey hair and when i straighten it sometimes it will stay but i have to ride the bus in the morning and the mostness in the air makes it flip out anyways to make it stay straight ??

You can do one of many things. You could simply put your hair up in a loose ponytail until you get to school. Or, you could put your hoodie up to cover your hair. Also, you could just use some styling products. Before you go out the door, put some hairspray in your hair. (Not a lot to make it hard, just enough to keep it in place.) ♥

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I'm only 2weeks pregnant. I'm a young expecting mom, But I have a great way to work this out.
I'm living with my boyfriend (He has a job & goes to college) and getting help from my parents and my boyfriends parents. Its all working out pretty good.
I clean houses as a little job, right now. My boyfriend doesn't want me to have a real job.
I'm already picking out names, and going to baby stores looking clothes, you know. Its early but its fun to hangout with my friends.
But I'm afraid of being a bad mom to this child.
What will this child think when it may find out I didn't want the them at first, That i needed help to raise them from my parents?
I should be able to raise a baby, I took the chances of getting pregnant by having sex.
its my fault.

It doesn't sound like you are going to be a bad mom at all. You're out there picking out names for the baby and buying clothes for it. That right there shows that you have a good head on your shoulders and you want what is best for this baby. You're only 2 weeks pregnant and you're already going out of your way for this child. I think you're going to be an excellent mother and your boyfriend sounds like he's going to be a great father. That baby is going to have an amazing family to grow up with.


This child isn't going to get mad because your parents helped raised it. When this child gets older he/she will understand why you needed help and support from other family members. They'll realize you were so young and it was a hard job to do. Your child isn't going to hate you because of it, sweetie. You're going to be a great mom. So don't think differently. ♥

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