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Q: I'm a good singer and its my passion. How can i get even better at it besides practice?
http://www.ehow.com/tips_7124.html

I think this will really help. There's also other related ads.

*Tips are at the bottom, you'll see when you scroll down*
Good luck ♥

Jessx3

Q: anyone have any makeup tips??
Try this site:
(I think it'll really help)
http://www.ehow.com/how_11271_apply-makeup-10.html

Everything you need to know!
Good luck ♥

Jessx3

Q: I need some really cute quotes.. like :: love, friendship, heart-break, stuff like that.

I need some good sites (specific sites) with some of these quotes.. if anyone could help me.. id greatly appreciate it
http://community.livejournal.com/__quotexwhore/

although you have to be a member to see recent posts, on the top bar of the page, search memories. You can do that freely.
Good luck ♥

Jessx3

Q: Does anyone know where i can get a chanel handbag? i live in st.louis missouri and i went to south county mall and they dont have any there! i already have a dooney&& bourke and i want something diffrent? any suggestions? or mabe a website? i cant buy one online because i dont have credit card and neither do my parents.

i rate fives for good answers

KAYLA
I would try chanel.com and see if they have what you're looking for. Or, try a google search. Also, if you want it cheap, try amazon or eBay.
Good Luck ♥

Jessx3

Q: Do you believe in Palmistry?
No, I personally think that it is the wrong thing to do.

Q: i have blonde hair blue eyes skinny tall smart popular and cute . i also play a ton of sports so why cant i get a good boyfriend like my last boyfriennd dumped me in one day.if you know why tell me i need to know
You sound a bit conceited, and maybe if you weren't as much, guys would start to see you made a change and would [most likely] think that that's cool. Sure, you can be into yourself, but you sound like you're overdoing it. ♥


Jessx3

Q: okay so when ever i use tampons they make me feelreally sick. im putting them in right because i cant feel anything but they make me feel really ill! and my period is quite heavy so its always annoying to have to go to the toilet all the time.

why do they make me feel sooo ill? ive tried different makes and absorbancies of them etc so i dont think its anything to do with that.
If they're making you ill, I wouldn't use them. I would see your family doctor for this. You may have a serious problem if you keep using them. Good luck and feel better! ♥

Jessx3


Q: how do i get lime wire and how much does it cost i really want it so i can listen to some good music. thanx
Just link to limewire.com

Unless you want the turbo pay or something, it's free. Have fun!! &hearts'


Jessx3

Q: My mom has been smoking for a long time now. She smokes a pack a day and i want her to stop so she wont get cancer or anything. She says its really hard to stop and she already tried one of those stop smoking programs. How do i make her stop?
There is really no way to make her quit, but you can for sure try to encourage it. I understand. My dad smokes quite a bit, and my mom used to smoke. She used Nicorette and that helped. But, just tell your mom how much she means to you. She should get the message you're sending.
Good Luck, hun! ♥

Jessx3

Q: 16 female
My guy friend wants to have sex with me and vice versa but the only thing thats stopping us(well me)is that im a little overweight and i have stretchmarks. they're really embarasing and i dont want him to see them
is their anyway to get rid of them almost completely? will he be turned off and disgusted at the sight of seeing them? and also will it hurt reallly bad my first time?(im virgin hes not)
Pleeeze help i rate 5s! thanx
I think personally that if he really likes you, and not just for the enjoyment, he won't care. I'm pretty sure there's nothing (that i know of) out there that can get rid of stretchmarks except for pills. But seriously, if he really wants you, for you, he won't care. But if he does care, that means that he's just going for sex. And that's really not what you want, do you? I think you should wait, but it's really entirely up to you. If you want, go ahead. Usually if you already haven't torn your hymen, it may hurt, but it's different for all girls.

*Make sure (even you) are both tested. Just a health risk/reason.*

Good luck!! ♥

Jessx3

Q: 15/f

What does it mean if a guy wants to "holla at you?"
thanks
He'll wanna talk to you. Especially if he wants to go out with you. ♥

Jessx3

P.S. Ratings? They're fabulous.

Q: i am a girl about 5'3. I weigh approx 135 pounds. i dont think i look fat, but i can say it wouldn't hurt to loose some pounds around my legs. am i over weight? any excercise tips? x0x0x0
please be honest
You're just perfect for your height. You're not under, nor over weight at all. Exercising tips:
toneteen.com
about.com
google.com
also, walk on the treadmill, leg lifts, jumping jacks, etc.
you can also pick up cosmo!girl or Seventeen, and there's some workouts in there too.
Good Luck ♥

Jessx3

Q: ok see this is my first time..IM SO TERRIFIED..of using a tampon..i mean whats gona happen? is it gona hurt...is it gona feeel like pressure...please help me
Everything you need to know, tutorials and all, will be at tampax.com. Even if you don't use tampax, it will give you all the info you need to know. Also, beinggirl.com. It really is not that bad. Since it's different for every girl, it may hurt just a little, but most of all, it will just feel wierd. Not really will you feel pressure. I highly doubt it. Just don't forget to take it out at the right time, and you will be good to go. Good luck and enjoy! ♥

Jessx3

Q: Hii! WeLl i just got my period like yesterday afternoon..and i was just wondering is it normal to feel like really fat? i mean like i know its called feeling bloaded but its not that i feel bloaded its that i feel fatter than usual and like im always hungry! but i like try and hold back because i feel so fat..and like i shouldnt eat! sorry if this is a stupid question..
Oh, don't worry. It's definitely normal. I feel the same way, before, and during. I hate the feeling, but I get it and its normal. ♥

Jessx3

Q: I got sick yesterday morning, and i stayed home from school today because of it. I have a really bad scratchy sore throat. Like those ones where you constantly have to cough and your throat feels dry and scratchy. Thats' what I have and I want to know how i can get rid of it asap because I have a dance to go to tomorrow night. Anyway have any home remedies I can try? Thank-you..
You can try gargling with salt water, drinking tea, or eating soup. Also, make sure you *drink fluids!* (try drinking pepsi or coke warm, its carbonated) Good luck and feel better! ♥

Jessx3

Q: ok well tonight I went to this party type thing not a big one but big enough...well there was this guy there and we started talking and he was helping me play pool and stuff and i dont know i thought we clicked...and i sorta started to like him but the problem is hes 19 and im 14 is that bad? Should I just stop before I get myself into trouble? Thanks
Well, you're not exactly very close in age, are you? It is kinda "bad" because he's over 18 and is considered an adult. If you two were to ever hook up, and you got pregnant, well...woo thats a doozy. So, sure you can talk with him, I guess you could hang out, but don't set yourself up. And, are your parents protective of you at all? Think about things like this, before you even make a decision about what you want. I hope you make the right choice and good luck! ♥

Jessx3

Q: okay well.. i was gonna tell this guy how i feel about him, but i got nervous. could you help me think of a way to tell him?
~ASHLEY~
Well, me and my brilliant ideas. ;) Try writing a note. I know it sounds stupid, but try it. If you know him, even if you don't, put out why you're writing and drop your name and number. I did that with a guy and he called me right away!
Good luck ♥

Jessx3

Q: I have never before used tampons and I want to start trying them but I am like so terrified that I am going to put it the wrong place or it will hurt to bad does anyone have any ideas?
You can see tutorials at tampax.com and beinggirl.com. The first time you insert the tampon, I'm not so sure to say it will hurt, but then again, it's different for everyone. All the other info you will need are on these websites. Good brands and websites related:
Playtex
Tampax
Always
Kotex

Good luck ♥

Jessx3

Q: i have the flu, or at least thats what i think i have. the worst pain i am feeling right now is my sore throat. dose anyone know anything that can stop it? i can have losenges or tyleol-like medicene, for some reason they dont help me. what do you recomend and what do you use when you are sick? thanks so much!
~Ank
I'm not in expertise in medical, but you may have strep, also. Try gargling with [warm] salt water, and/or drinking tea. *Drink fluids! [i recommend warm pop, because its carbonated]*
Feel better and good luck, hun. &hearts'

Jessx3

Q: ALright well im a girl and im 15 and im about 5'4" and i weigh 90 pounds. i dont have an eating problem or disorder. do i seem underweight? thanks
Totally underweight. If at possible, do try to gain weight, but I understand it's hard when you have a problem/disorder. Good luck honey ♥


Jessx3

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xcheerbabex108
Heyyyy, I'm jess. I love to help other people, no matter what. I've been through enough bs to know when to just stop and walk away. I don't judge; feel free to ask me anything. I have quite the temper. But, what makes me a good advice-giver is that for the most part, I'm genuinely empathetic and willing to help.
(:

I've had a lot of experiences with piercings, bullying, family problems, and even sexual issues (no std's)- but with the emotional part of it. I love music, so I give good, basic advice about that, too. Also, I deal with severe anxiety and depression, and have been in treatment numerous times. On top of that, I have OCD (Obsessive Complulsive Disorder), and because I've been around people addicted to drugs, or cutting, I can help! Just give me the chance.

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