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My name is Megan. Im pretty much your normal girly girl, my favorite color is pink, i love to shop & Abercrombie is my all time favorite store. I have an obsession with painting my nails & im extremely organized. I hate reading books. I don't really like boring people either, I live to have fun. I love guys who smell good. Even though I'm 16 I'm still afraid of the dark. Twiggy, Marilyn Monroe & Audrey Hepburn are my role models.


I am very good at smiling. I want to be a model & I love getting my picture taken. I really can't stand liars or commercials. Thunderstorms are amazing. I dont like when my routine gets messed up, I tend to worry about everything. I hate being late, but I always am. I go to the mall alot, & love designer things - Chanel, Coach, Juicy Couture, Dior, Louis Vuitton, Burberry, Tiffanys, Prada, DKNY, Kate Spade, Dooney & Bourke = ♥


I cant spell to save my life, yes i know. I am always hyper. I think it should be a law that you have to wear flip flops all year long. I love to laugh! I am extremly random, but it dosent bother me. Im addicted to texting, taking pictures, mascara, & shopping. Everyone gets along with me & I'm extremly nice, unless you give me a good reason not to be. I love giving advice, & helping people; Ive been through alot so I can help =]
anything else, just ask ♥ xoxo

advice

does any one know this song?


it has "cus shes bitter sweet shes the one that i need....." "she pushed me in the pool at our last school reunion......" lol i can't remember alot of it lol thnx :)

Just The Girl by The click Five
♥ xo

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16/f.
alright well ive liked this guy brad since my homecoming after party. well i wouldnt ever see him except at partys and he was always really nice to me. at the last hotel party in november he was all nice to me and we cuddled and made out. well me & him are friends kinda now. but he isnt as nice as i thought he was. he hooks up with all kinds of chicks in front of me but when i hook up with a guy he sits there and makes fun of me. he will repeat the name over and over and he always calls me names like a bitch and a whore and stuff. i know hes playing around it just bugs me because i like him. he will always say stuff like "i know your jealous you cant have my body" and he always winks at me and stuff from across the room. he will come up and poke me and turn the other way.. second grade stuff. when he hooks up with other chicks and makes out with them he is like all about sex and shit. before with me.. he was the nicest guy. i know he liked me before. there were all the signs like him staring at me all the time and flirting with me and he would call me for stupid stuff like asking if i wore contacts because he lost his. but now that i got to know him better i dont know if he still does. it was just that he acted different with me then i see him act with different girls. me and him constenantly fight. my friend keeps saying that she thinks he likes me but i just dont know. at a party the other night me and him were arguing and she was like "will you guys admit that you like each other" and i just stopped talking and brad was like "what'd you say? what are you talking about?" so do you think that he likes me back?

Well first off, he shouldent be calling you stupid if he likes you & making fun of you in front of other people. If it was just you and him and he was playing around & teasing you than that would be okay. If he does like you than he needs to be nicer to you, or maybe thats his way of flirting with you.
♥ xo

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I'm still not over my ex after seven months. It still gets me down. So does anyone have any sad/heartbreaking/makes you want to scream/that type of love songs? Anything EXCEPT rap and r&b. Thanks!

ugh, Sorry about your loss... Try thinking about happier things tho, dont let your life revolve around him still.
Heres a song though.. Call me when your Sober- Evenesance
♥ xo

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what are some good ways of getting over a guy u really liked and went out with but he broke up with you because he was just tired. and he has another gurlfriend?. and i really want to talk to him again but what can i say? its been a month and i cant get over him but i want to please help thanks.

That happened to me not too long ago, he broke up with me (we were going out for 5 months) and literally the next day he had another girlfriend & all over his myspace it said "I love you Ava" and in his profile on AIM too. It hurt ALOT. I cried for a long time, and it took me a while to get over it, but I had my best friend with me the entire time, I just tried to forget about it.. my friends all told me that he wasent worth it & he dident deserve me & I'd find someone better.. & honestly, they were right. I have a new boyfriend now & I could not be happier. He was there for me when I got dumpped & helped me, and now were going out.. Just let him go, honestly.

But if you do want to talk to him again, just keep it really general like "hey, whats up?, we havent talked in a while" and if he dosent respond in a nice way than I'd stop talking to him...

Talking about it, to your best friend, to anyone really, would help majorly.

Dont worry though, there really are nice guys out there, you just have to find one, and when you do.. you could not get any happier!!

I dont know if that helped, but if you dont have anyone to talk to, I'm here & ill listen..

♥ xo

you asked me what you should do if he says he wants you back...again, same thing happened to me with the same guy, I told him that if he still wanted me, he would have never dumped me in the 1st place, it was hard to say that to him because it was like a week and a half later and I still liked him & was still trying to get over him, honestly if he still wants you, he would have never broken up with you, probably the only reason he would say that is because him and his new girl dident work out. Dont get back into it with him, its just not worth it.
I didnt go back with him & now I have the most amazing boyfriend anyone could ask for.

♥ xo

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Okay.
15/f.
For the past year ive had thi s strange Obsession with weight.
I must weigh myself like 8 or more times a day.
And if i dont like what i see....
I wont eat for like the day or the next day sometimes.
Im not fat. At all.
Im pretty popualr.
I have a Gorgeous boyfriend!!!
And im not like stick skinny.
Im just not happy.
And I just hate this weight issue.
and i dont know what it is.
its not anorexia.
Or belemia.
I just have an issue.

what the hell do i do???

I do the same thing,
Im 16/f & i have a boyfreind who is amazingly gorgeou, im very popular too, people have told me before that I need to eat more, but i still see my self as 'fat'. I think its normal for a teenage girl, I also weigh my self about 4 times a day. The end of the day is when you will weigh the most, in the morning when you first wake up, thats how much you really weigh. I think its normal, but dont let it become a problem like anorexia, you are popular & have a gorgeous boyfriend, what more could you want?! =] !!
♥ xo

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I'm fourteen years old, but I'm small and I have a very young looking face. When people guess my age they think I'm twelve. I have brown hair, blue eyes, and very pale skin. If anyone had any suggestions on how to look a little bit older, they would be greatly appreciated =] I was also thinking that highlights might help, and if anyone knows about if that would help or not, I would love it. Thanks!

Yeah, Highlights might help, maybe get caramel highlights (not bleach blond, or they wont look natural). Maybe something like this http://i123.photobucket.com/albums/o291/loser-4-sho/hair002.jpg

If you dont already, you could try using make up - Bronzer, blush & mascara could help as well!!

Bronzer- http://www.sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?cm_re=S10854*Grid*P158509&id=P158509&categoryId=S10854&shouldPaginate=true

Blush-http://www.sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?id=P38468&categoryId=C12001 ( i have fairly light skin as well. I use the color Tipsy)

Mascara-
http://www.sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?id=P40404&categoryId=C10472


I have all 3 of those products and they are amazing!!! Hope i helped!!

♥ xo

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my mum keeps calling me names .and every time i try to do something she yells ar me help me plz

All you can really do is tell her you dont like it when she does that, you could also try to ignore it, i think all moms go through that with their kids..
♥ xo

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Why do guys lead girls on and then stop? Like just completely stop and act as if you guys were just friends and all that flirting never existed?

Because thats how guys are, they will flirt with you like they are obsessed with you, and drop you the second they think they see something hotter, thats how they are.
Maybe try hanging around with different guys!!
♥ xo

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Hi, I'm having troubles with my BFF. Every time I make plans with my other friends, and then she calls and asks me if I can play. Then I say I already made Plans with (Friend). She gets all mad. Sometimes I have to lie to her! What should I do!

P.S Write as soon as possible because I already made plans with one of my friends, and she might call me later!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:) :)

I use to have a friend who was EXACTLY like that, in fact she was my best friend, she would get mad at me when I would want to hang out wiht my other frineds or boyfriend, she would always tell me im dictching her all the time or that I dident care about her, even though it was so not true. Eventually I woke up and realized she wasent really my friend at all, if she was going to get mad at me for wanting to hang with my other frineds, than she had no consideration for me..
You should tell your bff that you do have other friends besides her and wanting to hang out with them sometimes too is okay. If she dosent accept that, shes not your real friend..
Dont worry though!! everything will work out! She will either accept it and you guys will be fine, or she wont and you'll make a new bff that wont treat you like that.
♥ xo

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is it okay for a girl to ask a boy for his cell number

Of course!!! go get him girl!!!
♥ xo

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well i like this boy in my class and he said he liked me so i told him that i like him too and then i was sick for a week and the day i go back to school all my friends run up to me and tell me that he told "B" he liked her so i asked him wat was up and he said he likes us BOTH so out of jealousy i've been rude to her and yesterday he asked if i still liked him (even though he still likes "B")and i blurted out NO!! PLEASE HELP AND THANX
love,
massie girl♥

You need to tell him the truth, he is trying to make you jealous. He might want you and "B" to fight over him. You should just go back and tell him how you really feel & let him do the rest, if he really likes you he will stick with you & everything will work out!!
♥ xo

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My boyfriend and I have been having a lot of relationship problems lately. All of his family doesn`t want him to be with me. Two days after Christmas he broke up with me, then he felt bad for breaking up with me, so then he got back with me. =]

We decided to start to take things slow, because we were so dependent on each other. Last night I got upset because he didn`t answer his phone and I was worried. I started crying and he broke up with me again, claiming that I made him feel guilty all the time.

So today, we saw each other. He felt bad so we made a pact. We`re dating, but we only see each other on weekends and only talk on the phone two times a day for ten minutes each.

Mutually, we both think that this will be good for our relationship because we`ll be able to spend more time alone. But, do you think it`ll really help? Thank you!

It could help, but becasue you are so dependent on eachother, you might worry about what hes doing & if he doesnt answer his phone it could simply be becasue hes eating or something but you might think hes ignoring you. (I know because ive done that before..)
Just try not to worry about it, if it was ment to be, everything will work out!!
♥ xo

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14/f
There's this guy and lets call him "Sean". Well sean and i have known eachother for 9 years now and he lives in a different state then me but we've always been close and we've always had feelings for eachother. I mean he's like everything i could possibly want in a guy and none of the guys i've gone out with can compare to him at all. [Sean is 16] He does currently have a girlfriend but he didnt want to tell me about her and i wasnt sure why but i didnt want to tell him about my current boyfriend at the time. It's weird. But im going away the 11th to spend the long weekend with him and his family because we are close. But im nervous because i want him to come out and tell me that he likes me but he wants me to do the same but ive been hurt so many times by guys that i hold back and dont open up easily anymore, because im so afraid of getting hurt again. But then again he lives far away so its like should i just move on? or could we work something out?

any advice is appreciated :] oxxx thanxxx

If he still has a girlfriend and/or if you have a boyfriend I would try to move on, he does live in a different state. But if you both are unattached you could try to make it work. My sister lives in FL and is dating someone she met in PA before she moved, they recently had their 1 year anniversary, so nothings impossible!!
♥ xo

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I like this guy and I've liked him for like 5 years! The feeling just won't go away! Ok, here's the deal, in 2nd and 3rd grade we were like imseperable friends, in 4th grade my friend told me that he liked me and I relized that I liked him, in 6th grade my other friend told him that I liked him and after that happened he wouldn't even say hi to me in the halls anymore (not that we saw each other much XP ).

Now i'm in 8th grade and don't know what to do! We have no classes together and are on other sides of the school! NEXT YEAR WE'LL NEVER SEE EACH OTHER AGAIN (probably)! I can't just let him go, and the only conections I have are to him two friends that have classes with him. I'm a wreck with myself, PLEASE HELP!

You should probably start talking to him, or at least try to. You never know, maybe he stopped talking to you in 6th grade becasue he liked you too, that was 2 years ago. I think you should at least try, and tell him how you feel, if he dosent feel the same, at least you know you tried & thats all you can really do. For all you know he could feel the exact way you do!!
Go for it girl!!!! ♥ xo

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