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hello world. i really want to help people. you can open up to me. i wont judge you. unless your really mean. it makes me feel good to help other people. its cliche to say music is my life so ill just say that it is really important to me. i really dont like where i live. i have some experiences that help me to make other's lives easier when they find that theyre going through them. if that makes any sense =P. i like making friends. uh well ask me whatever you want!

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thats it, i am always itchy.

like my back and stomach, and sometimes my arms.

Any ideas why?
or how to stop it.

its so horrible.

i can barely get to sleep at night because of it.

help, please.

you probably have dry skin. i have it really bad. eucerin helps =]. its worth a try and anyone can use it.

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Why does my mom want me to stop being a tomboy so much she is doing anything she can she is even buying me the fake football jerseys instead of the real ones she wants me to stop so much does anyone know why??

your mom is probably trying to look out for you because she thinks that you may be made fun of by others. im not sayingg you are, but your mom might think so. your mom is most likely only trying to give you a happier life (which in this case she thinks making you more mainstream will do so). make it clear to her that you are happy with how you are. shell get the point. dont yell at her because it wont help. tell her that you like who you are and it wont change. dont let anyone change youu!

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I am planning to have a bday in like, 2months or watever(Ps the bdays more like a goodby parrty:|)
Anyways, my parties really gonnabe kickin.
a few problems.
I NEed songs!
1) I am going 2 make the beggining of my party reeeaaaallly boring, then me and my bff are gonna jump on the table and sing to a song. heres da prob: I dont no any songs that will really be, like, loud, kool, ...like the song "Shut up",you know?
Then, I am going 2 have karaoke(sort of) with my moms Ipod. I need easy popular, good songs for every1 to sing with(no barney songs!LOL). anyways, I need kool songs. I already have a few like, Unfaithful,mabye some beatles songs...(im a weirdo of music i no LOLOL)...thats about it ROFL ...
Help me pick out songs thnxxxxx!!!!!!!!
PS my party is like on may 15, so... plenty of time 2 answer, thnx!!!
...seriously, THNXXX!!! i really need help because I want a super rockin party.
THNXXXXXXXX

hmmm. so some upbeat songs is what you need?
im thinking some cobra starship, like, guilty pleasure? or boys like girls the great escape? ill list the rest.

we the kings-secret valentine
fall out boy-thnks for the mmrs
nickelback-rockstar
boys like girls-five minutes to midnight
the jonas brothers-hold on
aly and aj-potential break up song
britney spears-piece of me
taylor swift-our song
paramore- crushcrushcrush
kanye west- stronger
the killers-when you were young
boys like girls- hero/heroine
sara bareilles-love song




i dont really know what genre of music your looking for so i gave you some top 40 songs and some that i like. if you want more message me =]

hope your partys fun

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i know i was being dumb. but i like this guy and i needed to get it off my chest. i knew i would stutter if i told him. so i left a note in his locker. that was last week. i now have NO clue if he even got it! (he doesn't use his locker very much) Should i just confront him about this, or wait?

have confidence
ask him if he got your letter
go for it!

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ok....i finally broke up with that guy that i was really unhappy with, but now i feel really extremely lonely. right now i don't know what to do about feeling lonely. i go out with friends and i am trying to enjoy the single life, but i'm not. i just want someone new to come around already but it seems like it won't ever happen.

i know the feeling
ive had that
i can promise you
that even when you least expect it
a guy that will make you happy will notice you
try and talk to people (boys especially)


my story:
after feeling like an antisocial loser after
breaking up with a guy i didnt like at all,
by having one short conversation with this guy
he liked me
we went out for 5 months

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ok

so my best friend K is going out with D
and D really likes me
but i dont like him
K is in love with D... and D likes her but he is in love with me
i dont like him
and even if i did
i would NEVER hurt K like that

what should i do...
and please dont say tell K because she already knows

thank you in advance

does D openly admit to loving you? if he does i would seriously tell him to leave you out of the whole thing. tell him you dont want to be involved. i would try to limit contact with himm.

goodluck

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14/f
i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half.
weve been fighting the past three days and we usually never fight. but we came into a discussion that really bothered me.
apparently he said he could do better then me. so then i asked, how? and he said "listen i love your personality, and how you make me feel, i seriously love you, the only way i could do better then you is in looks" he kinda then saw me tearing and he told me he wasn't calling me ugly. and then i told him to just drop the conversation and we did but the rest of our day was good. i just really never thought i was ugly.. but i didn't think i was gorgeous.. just average you know? i mean other guys have asked me out in the past but yeah. so i guess im ugly.. what do i do now? :(

get away from this kidd. you want a boy who appretiates you for who you are. i am sure your gorgeous. its the guy whos being an ass (as always). *no offense guys*. but seriouslyy, there are probably 10000 guys out there who wouldnt talk to you like that, because a good boyfriend would only want to make his girrlll feel like shes the best thing in the world. you could do better than him. dumppp :]


hope i helped

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Sorry it's so long...Okay, I'm not sure if I'm over-reacting but my boyfriend (age 20) is literally in love with his mommy. The birthday card he gave to her read this....
Mom,
May this Birthday be a special day for you, just as special as you are to me. First of all I want to thank you for raising me by yourself and doing a great job at it. I know it seems as I get older I need you less but that isn't true. I am still learning things from you every day.
Even though I am not into all of that religious stuff, I beleive you are an Angel. You were put on this earth to help and guide others. I want to thank you for all you have done for me, and guiding me on to the right path of life.
Mom, you have done so much for me and I can't even begin to tell you how much I appreciate it.
You will always be the best MOM in the world!!!
The older you get the wiser you get and you will always be beautiful.

He is 20 years old and his mom still cooks his dinner, washes his clothes, and tells him how to live his life! Not to mention he just forgot our THREE YEAR anniversary...he also went on vacation w/ his mom during my sweet sixteen (I got no card or call for that matter). I'm at a loss. We have been "dating" for three years but we have NEVER been out on a date together!!! Yet, he takes his mom out for dinner all the time! He is always rubbing her back or massaging her head but for me, it's like pulling teeth to get a massage!! AND I'M HIS GIRLFRIEND!!!! I would greatly appreciate any advice, because I've been trying different approaches for three years and no luck yet!! THANKS!!

you might not want to hear it, but you two shouldnt be together. eventually, maybe, one day hell grow up, but he obviously right now hes not too great of a boyfriend. it doesnt seem like he would change for you if it means "neglecting" his mom. it might feel tough getting out of a relationship after being together for 3 years, but i think you can do it. i mean hey, you weree dedicated to a guy who massages his mom more than you for three years, you can do anything :] good luck with this guy (boy)!

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im 14/f and my boyfriend is 13/f

do you think that if your really truly sure your in love, like you've had it proven to you,no doubt in your mind and he feels the same,
do you think that we can last throughout highschool?


we've had our problems, what true couple doesnt, but i dont want to lose him again :[ i want this to last forever, as crazy as that sounds.

do you think it can last?

if you are truely completely 100% sure you are both in love, then it could last a very long time. all couples have problems, so dont think youre alone in that. see what happens while your together. make sure youre with him for himself, not the idea of having him.

i hope i helped . good luck with this guy :]

warning:: do not put too much trust into a guy becasue it leads to getting hurt.

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i just got a new boyfriend (my first)..and we've been together for two days (lol) and i really really really like him. we were holding and caressing each other's hands today, and he told me "kiss meee"...and i was kinda shy...so i turned away and didnt kiss him....now im afraid he doesnt like me anymore :( even though i know he does..lol...since i'm new to having a boyfriend..these little things get to me easily :/ what can I do?

same thing happened to me basically. wait a little longer until you know what its really like to have a boyfriend. when your comfortable it will happen. good luckkkkk =]


ps. dont feel bad about turning away, which i did. youll be laughing about it soon. trust me haha

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what is global warming and who believes in it? just a question i'm curious for an answer. and is the world going to be destroyed by global warming? and if global warming isn't real than what is really causing it? god?

global warming is as real as anythingggg. the ice caps are melting and eventually the oceans will cause floods. another person said it but watch an inconvenient truth

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At school there is this boy I have never alked to, but like a lot. My friend told me that she saw him put a note in my locker on monday. We didn't have school on tue. or wed. Well I looked inmy locker and found a note saying "hey I think your really cute too, And i know it was you who called me. From, I think you know who." I feel sooo stupid for believing it. I was soo happy. My face got red and my stomach got that queasy feeling. Then like 2hrs. later my 4th locker neighbor down asked me If I got that note in my locker. I was like yeah, did you see who put it in, and she's like (friends name) did. I was so hurt. That note filled me with false hope. She asked me if I was mad at her and I said yes. Get this, s got mad at me 4 being mad at her. She's like y are you getting so mad it's stupid cuz I thought it would get you to talk to him. And I was like NO IT WOULD HAVE MADE ME LOOK LIKE AN IDIOT! And she was like "Whatever". When I got home all I didi was cry and I am crying right now. I feel like such an idiot for even believing it. What should I do, sorry it's so long.

you shouldnt feel stupid for thinking it was him. i DEFINATELY would have thought so too. today i thought you measure the diameter of the earth with a piece of string because someone told me so (yeah, im gullible). i know it hurts you that your friend did that to you, but it seems like she did it to help you. apparently she doesnt know much because what she did could have caused problems. shes also only thinking about herself. be glad that nothing happened. your friend probably didnt think about the consequences, which she should have. it was her fault, and she has no reason to be mad at you. believe me, no matter how hurt you may be, try not to hold grudges. yes, its hard not to when youre mad. holding grudges always turns out for the worse. TRUST ME. maybe just talk to her calmly and nicely about it and she may have a different reaction to the situation. tell her how it made you feel and all that stuffff. i really hope i helped =] . goood luck !

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OK, so my bf and I have been going out for about 5-6 months. This has been, by far, my longest relationship (i'm 13, so yeah...). Me and him always talk on myspace and at school and stuff, but lately, he's just WAY too predictible :/. I hate it but on myspace, we always joke around about how long we will go out and stuff, and say stuff like "well, I'm not going to break up with you so, if we do break up, you'll be the one doing it". Yeah, I know, it was stupid to say that stuff. Anyway, everyone thinks we're the "perfect couple" and part of me wants to see how long our relationship will last, because I have been known for having very short relationships. There are also some things about him that I DO love, but I want to break up with him, yet I don't. Also, there's this other guy. He's really the whole pack, funny, sweet, and everything. I like him a lot (yeah, I know it's bad) but next year, he's going to a different highschool than me so I only have this year with him. I know that if I could hit it off with him, we'd stay in touch :]. I just don't know what to do now. I have problems in relationships because eventually, I just get bored of the guy. It's more fun to chase the guy than to have them (It sounds shallow doesn't it?). I just don't know what to do, and I can't talk to anyone because all of my friends are the gossip-type. Even if they say they won't tell, they will. I'm so confused :( help?

trust me on this. if you dont like him break it off. it will make it easier on him. at 13 its normal for girls to want to be single cause you want to be open to every opportunity possible. dont wait to see how long it can last. it destroyss all chances of ever getting with the guy you really like. by the way i know exactly how you feel about the friends thing because me and my boyfriend of 5 months broke up a week ago and i was really upset. they talked about me behind my back the next day about how annoying i was being. so if youu want you can talk to me ! :]. well just pick the guy you like more. itll work out better if you do.

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Okay, well I am in a pychology class. And for our finals we have to do this project. Basically, you have to tell about you, your family, your past experiences, & what made you what you are. I'm doing a powerpoint. And I wanted to add like 1-3 songs on it. What song(s) are good for this project? I would prefer Acoustic music or something soft. No rock or screaming. Just something soft and easy to listen to.

Thanks in advance!

hm.. chasing cars by snow patrol. maybe some goo goo dolls ?

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I love Mayday Parade, Sherwood, October Fall, and Cute is what we aim for...does anybody know any other bands that have that type of music without any screaming and heavy meatal and song names would be fantabulouss :) thanks guyss.

wow you have the same exact taste in music as me. at least it seems like it :]. hm. lets see. i like relient k, mae (i went to their concert with sherwood and it was good), we the kings, cartel, really suggest boys like girls, taking back sunday, all time low is amazing, amber pacific, better than toast, hit the lights, plain white t's, powerspace, the academy is..., the starting line, yellowcard i have some more if you ask. hope i helped.



yeah i dont know how to answer a question twice so i guess ill just put some more bands here =]. im going down the list on my ipod and writing the ones i like. the afters, american hi-fi, between the trees, a change of pace (theyre reallllyyyyyy good), cobra starship, the dangerous summer, dashboard confessional, every avenue, farewell, the friday night boys, hawk nelson, hellogoodbye, the higher, jacks mannequin. if you want more after that tell me !

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so my boyfriend and i broke up (the reason why is WAY to long to explain) and i broke up with him, then we got back together, and the next day he broke up with me. anyway i was so mad at him for so many reasons, and i still get mad when i think about it, but at the same time i want him back. he broke my heart and i still want him back. whats wrong with me? how do i get over him?

thanks SO much for ur help

he either broke up with you again as revenge or because he just knew it wouldn't work. Thebes nothing wrong with you because you want him back. it might take time to get over him but it will happen . Good luckk !

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Ok so well i`m 13/f.
I'm a very family oriented girl, and my family is EVERYTHING to me. However, lately, I know that i've been acting bitchy to my parents, and giving them attitude/answers. I always apologize and say i`ll never do it again, but i keep doing the bad things [not doing what they tell me to].

But the thing is, i've been having so many problems at school & being pressured, that my mood is just CONSTANTLY bad. So now it's break, and I have two weeks. Also, in feb. is a trip [to a diff. city] that I REALLY want to go to. My dad's already paid the 1st deposit, but is now saying i won't go if i keep up my bad attitude. Can someone please tell me things that I can do to fix my relashionship with my parents?

Thanks so much!
xoxo!!!!!

I'm telling you. Its the age. I understand EXACTLY where you are. 13 is sadly to say, the beginning of family bitchiness. Try to control yourself as much as possible and release your emotions in other ways.be on your best behavior. Think before you speak( thats critical). It could just be PMS :P . Don't think your a bad person though cause lots of other teenagers have the same issue (me). Hope i helped :D

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I had had an eating disorder on and off for 7 years. Right now i am 5'6 and 105 and im 18 and i just turned 18. i really to lose weight.. maybe only like 5lbs. I know from my height and weight, i sound thin, but i do have a couple pounds i could lose. Im not one of those people who thinks theyre enormous when they aren't, but i really want to lose weight. What do you guys think?

lets just say you weigh less than me, im shorter, and younger. Im not overweight either.

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I really am convinced that my parents hate me.

My dad has said he'd rather pay for boarding school than have to see me everyday, and tonight he said that he doesn't have time for me anymore.

My mother doesn't listen to a word that comes out of my mouth. I've noticed that I talk louder around her than I do around anyone else.

I am such a good kid. I get good grades, my room is close to clean, the whole shebang.

Why don't my parents love me?

I truthfully feel really bad for you. This story went right to my heart. You seem like a strong person. Try to find comfort in friends. I just want to give you a hug. Even though i dont know you. Heres a virtual hug. I cant really answer your question because i think id have to know you and your parents. I'll finish offby telling you to just stay strong. You might also want to stay on your best behavior.

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So basically I am not one to curse. I've hardly ever done it and only a few people have ever heard me. Sometimes I get made fun of for it, good-natured fun though. I don't mind when other people cuss but I just don't like doing it myself. Well I have recently had to catch myself multiple times. It would be easy for me to let it out, but I'm afraid to because I think whoever it was directed towards would be extremely hurt because it is coming from me, who "never cusses" lol. Its confusing, but if you understand slightly what I mean, could you give me some advice here? thanks

i used to be "clean" till last year. Just gradually add it into conversation. Dont usd it as like f*** you. Use it as holy sh!+ when you drop something. Say things like that enough until people are used to it. Hope I helped!

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