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Another bf question...yeah
OK, so my bf and I have been going out for about 5-6 months. This has been, by far, my longest relationship (i'm 13, so yeah...). Me and him always talk on myspace and at school and stuff, but lately, he's just WAY too predictible :/. I hate it but on myspace, we always joke around about how long we will go out and stuff, and say stuff like "well, I'm not going to break up with you so, if we do break up, you'll be the one doing it". Yeah, I know, it was stupid to say that stuff. Anyway, everyone thinks we're the "perfect couple" and part of me wants to see how long our relationship will last, because I have been known for having very short relationships. There are also some things about him that I DO love, but I want to break up with him, yet I don't. Also, there's this other guy. He's really the whole pack, funny, sweet, and everything. I like him a lot (yeah, I know it's bad) but next year, he's going to a different highschool than me so I only have this year with him. I know that if I could hit it off with him, we'd stay in touch :]. I just don't know what to do now. I have problems in relationships because eventually, I just get bored of the guy. It's more fun to chase the guy than to have them (It sounds shallow doesn't it?). I just don't know what to do, and I can't talk to anyone because all of my friends are the gossip-type. Even if they say they won't tell, they will. I'm so confused :( help?
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okay, well the whole predictable thing happens with almost everyone (family, teacers, friends) you just need to learn that in order for things to be unpredictable you need to be unpredictable. but for your boyfriend, i think that if you have any doubt in staying with him that you shouldn't stay with him.. dont listen to everyone else telling you that its the perfect relationship because well, they're not in it are they?
i go to an all girl high school so trust me, its much better to not have to worry about yourself around the guy you like. the weekend is really good to hang out with guys so even if you are going to different schools it shouldnt really matter.
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well......the WHOLE package comes out of the guy once you are dating, as you should know from the first guy. but you're only 13 so you have all the time to date boys...and since you like that other guy, maybe it will work! and the two different high schools is no big deal at all... me and my boyfriend met during the summer and started dating a month into school but he goes to a completely different high school...we've been together for a year and 3 months! if you really hit it off with the other guy it should work! there are ups and downs but it's actually really good to give each other space at different schools...and even if it doesn't work out for you two....you are going to meet so many boys in high school!
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Thats EXACTLY how my friends are.
I guess they try I'll never know.
Anyways, there will never be any easy way around itto the guy you like just talking.If you hiy it off then tell your boyfriend your better off as freinds or tell your boyfriend you need a break NOTHING serious. See how it goes and if he's not the one then I figure your boyfriend will be right there still =]
I hope it works out!!
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trust me on this. if you dont like him break it off. it will make it easier on him. at 13 its normal for girls to want to be single cause you want to be open to every opportunity possible. dont wait to see how long it can last. it destroyss all chances of ever getting with the guy you really like. by the way i know exactly how you feel about the friends thing because me and my boyfriend of 5 months broke up a week ago and i was really upset. they talked about me behind my back the next day about how annoying i was being. so if youu want you can talk to me ! :]. well just pick the guy you like more. itll work out better if you do.
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