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My parents hate me.
I really am convinced that my parents hate me.
My dad has said he'd rather pay for boarding school than have to see me everyday, and tonight he said that he doesn't have time for me anymore.
My mother doesn't listen to a word that comes out of my mouth. I've noticed that I talk louder around her than I do around anyone else.
I am such a good kid. I get good grades, my room is close to clean, the whole shebang.
Why don't my parents love me?
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I truthfully feel really bad for you. This story went right to my heart. You seem like a strong person. Try to find comfort in friends. I just want to give you a hug. Even though i dont know you. Heres a virtual hug. I cant really answer your question because i think id have to know you and your parents. I'll finish offby telling you to just stay strong. You might also want to stay on your best behavior.
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:| I'm really sorry to hear all that, you would think that there's no reason for them to treat you that way. I was going to say that maybe they're taking out their own life problems on you but your mom calling you a "mean nasty girl" when you're crying is so heartless. I think you should straight up ask your mom why she hates you and why she doesn't love you, and be serious about it. Hopefully that'll get her all emotional, maybe you'll see a side of her you don't usually see. If not, then there for real is a problem... I guess I would suggest to talk to your school councelor. It may sound weird but honestly that's what I thought, but I found it so much easier to get help and just say my problems to someone who doesn't really know me. I guess it's because someone who has no past with you, can't judge you and will truly help you. Well see how it goes, and get back to me if you want? Good luck with everything :
-avalon
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Alright, first of all, I want you to know that the way they're treating you is NOT ok and no one deserves to be treated like that--especially not someone like you, who seems to be trying their hardest. You should not have to take that kind of abuse.
I have two ideas. The first deals with rectifying the situation and the other deals with moving past it. In my experience, if you actually confront someone directly with how you feel (In other words, tell them exactly what you've told us in your post)that's your best shot at getting them to understand. Writing them a letter is often the most effective way to do so. (In a letter, you can think about your words carefully before they read them. In real life, you can't take back something you've said and would like to revise.) Receiving a letter is also somehow more personal and heartfelt.
My other idea is to find an adult or two that you can be close to/trust, and they can serve as a far more effective guardian figure. There is no reason for you to to be dealing with this alone.
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My parents are like that too. My grades are straight A's my room is always clean and I am really actualy a pretty nice girl. Well your parents could be like this if they lost someone they really like. My mom for example got really upset after her sister died. Tonight she got really mad and threatened to cancel my birthday thats in two days. I hope this helped.
P.S. dont hold back your tears its bad for your health.
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i think your parents DO love you, but they are probley just stressed out with work and paying the bills and stuff like that!
i think they dont realize what they are doing.
if i was you i would sit them down and be like
"look, you guy are my parents and im your daughter, why do you treat me like u dont love me? do you not want me anymore"
that usually gets there attention about what they are doing.
i really hoped that helped.
i wish you the best
Good Luck :]
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