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cursing


Question Posted Monday December 17 2007, 10:29 pm

So basically I am not one to curse. I've hardly ever done it and only a few people have ever heard me. Sometimes I get made fun of for it, good-natured fun though. I don't mind when other people cuss but I just don't like doing it myself. Well I have recently had to catch myself multiple times. It would be easy for me to let it out, but I'm afraid to because I think whoever it was directed towards would be extremely hurt because it is coming from me, who "never cusses" lol. Its confusing, but if you understand slightly what I mean, could you give me some advice here? thanks

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xemmiex3 answered Thursday December 20 2007, 12:03 am:
i used to be "clean" till last year. Just gradually add it into conversation. Dont usd it as like f*** you. Use it as holy sh!+ when you drop something. Say things like that enough until people are used to it. Hope I helped!

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solidadvice4teens answered Wednesday December 19 2007, 10:40 pm:
If the people around you swear far more often than how could they look down at you? As long as you use swear words sparingly you are fine and nobody will think any less of you. If you use them all the time or every second word then we have a problem.

Cursing sometimes if you get hurt, are frustrated, in a fight or when no other word will do is fine. Not cursing left and right is admirable as most teens need their language cleaned up as do adults. If you get made fun of for not cursing consider it a badge of honor and look at the source of the taunts.

You're likely to be respected more by adults for the way you speak and handle yourself.

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TheAnnie answered Wednesday December 19 2007, 8:45 pm:
i am the same way, this is a good thing
but dont worry about catching your self before you say, it is in a way natural to say something like that but its good that you do
and thinking sbout others is a nice thing you are doing
and frankly i have no idea what you are asking but i hope my advice answered it :)

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