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Hey im a girl who expects everyone to give to me. i love giving advice..and also i like to recieve it in the right situations. i love to help the people who are in need. in fact wen i am older i plan on being a teenage pshycologist. i am also a very shy girl wen i dont know you, but when i get to know you, i open up and will speak greatly to you. i have gone through sum issues jus like ne body else. i have survived them issues and still standing strong and working hard to never have them again. I would except any subject or ne question, i love to help but hopin to actually help you. there may be times where i dont kno wat to say but later on i will. i will try to answer those questions to my fullest. if you would like any advice please dont hesitate to ask them.

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okay, well, im sooo against abortions. the reasons most people have abortions are because they are:
-retarted
-the parent's too young
-they cant support the baby
all of which are NOT the babies fault in any way, so why kill it? its like killing any other human being!! what can i do to get this to stop?

you can do some research on how to stop it and talk to some people.

also you can get a petition going and send it into a congress or sumtin

good luck and i help you support the cause

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i have lots of white heads on my neck, and it feels disgusting as well as its looks! any recomendations on scrubs or something that actually works?

umm oxy pads work and so does stridex pads..

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well i really like these 2 guys but the one guy broke up with me and his life is really messed up but hes willing to take me back and the other guy is soo nice and sweet but i like the other guy more. im a 13 year old female.

you should take the guy that you have the most feelings for and the one that will make you happy and treat you right. follow what your heart tells you to do..you will never forget the people you love or like soo much. and you may never get a chance again then you will regret it.

good luck. hope i helped

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well i was with this guy who is 18 (brenny) an im a 15 year old girl it was a prefect relationship but it wasnt in the slightest serious. He has a brother (mickey) who is absaloutly gorgeous and everyone loves him espicially my best friend! but one day i was with mickey and we were flirting and one thing lead to another an we ended up kissing! my friend seen us and she went mad but i managed to make it up til her! and then brenny found out an he was really upset... then my friend (becka) kissed brenny and it totally broke my heart i was in pieces but there was nothing i could of done! 2 months on... me and brenny are friends but him an becka always flirt when im there there is nothing between them but it really gets to me... im still in love with him what should i do?

you should tell brenny that you still love him and tell your frined becka you love him still. and ask them not to flirt or do anything in front of you and not tell you. They should respect that knowin you still have feelings. or maybe you should just move on letting that go.

i have an ex boyfirned from last year i still have feelings for deeeply. but i know there will never be a chance again. but if you think its right tell him and maybe he still feels the same..

i hope i helped and good luck..:]

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can anyone recomend hair straighteners that work really well and are not to expensive?

remington wet2straight works really well

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Okay.. so me nad my mom dont have the greatest relationship. actually our relationship sucks. we never talk or nething and i hate her. she always yells and stuff and is really annoying. we went on this crusie in december of 2005 and i got my period but i never told her, and i still havent told her to this day. i was thinking about telling her this month or next month. but i dont know what to say or even what to do. please help

Well you could tell her, Mom i'm sry i never told you this but i got my period way back on the cruise. Or if you dont want to do that, you should wait til your period comes again and say that was the first time you got your period. But i would go for the first one. Should be open with your mom bout tht one.

Good luck.

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i am going to be a freshman in high school this year and i am starting to panic, will someone please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Trust me i was panicing to..im a sophmore now. freshman year is great you will have soo much fun becuz ur meating awhole bunch of new people and growing older.but dont worry you will love freshman year and being in highskool..

good luck with tht

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Ok so first thing's first. I have this friend "Matt". I've known of him for ages and always thought he was a complete dick. But now I hang out with him because my best friend does and I've gotten to know him. I can really see know what an amazing person he is and everything I ever heard about him was bullshit. But anyway, I've never had a crush on any of my friends but I feel drawn to him. This sounds so soppy but I think he's the one. I know him better than some of my other friends and I want to be with him all the time. He makes me laugh and we get along like a house on fire.
But here's the catch, I have fallen head over heels in love with him and I feel sad when I'm not around him. Even when I'm angry with him when we've had a silly argument I still love him at the same time... And another thing, I'm a 14 male to female transsexual who hasn't begun treatment yet so to him I'm a "guy".. now you see my problem.. Please don't see this and not reply, I need help! I want to be with him, but as a girl and then when that happens he'll already know me as a guy... I love him and it's killing me inside.. He's the one...
Please help me,
Thank you so much

well does this guy know you love him. if he doesnt tell him how you feel. Maybe when you begin treatment and you become a gurl he wont know its you, unless you told him all of this. i really dont know what to say to make this better, but stick with this one. try everything you can to make him love you back. even if it has to wait til your a gurl. and if he really would or will love you. he will except tht fact. i hope your treatment begins soon, so he can fall for you ya kno. i dont think i was much of a help. but really hope everything works...tell him how you feel, if he dont kno bout all this..jus wait til it happens and then go for him...

good luck..best wishes..

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ok, well..theres this boy that i like and i dont know if he likes me, we used to lived next to each other and we used to hang out EVERYDAY but, thne he move and now i only see him at school, but we talk on the computer and we call each other reguarly, and he acts normal around me and when someone else is there with us he acts different. He had a girlfriend, but my friend told him that I liked him and the next day he broke up with her, my friend says he likes me, but i dont know, cause it's been a week since he broke up with her and he hasn't asked or acted like he likes me, and the day he bokre up with her, he said "so your going out with 'blahh' and i said wat? and he said wrong person, sorry...does that mean anytything?! does he like me?

he may like you. the looks of it seems liek he does. and he is just droppin hints prob. wait a lil longer then u shuld ask him how he feels bout you or you tell him how you feel. he broke up wit his gurl possibly for you. so good luck with it and hope i helped.

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Ok so i have this friend...and I think he's bulimic. I saw him eating the other day and when he was done...he threw up and it looked like he made himself throw up.

What should I do? Should I confront him about it? Tell someone? Both? Please help, im really worried about him.

I would confront him before you tell sumone. cuz it may not be true. and if he tells you or you see it happen again, i would go to sumone and tell them. dont be worried jus be there for him every step.

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I don't feel the same way about my boyfriend anymore. In fact, I feel that its time that we ended our relationship. There seems to be a catch, however. We haven't seen each other much this summer, but we do talk on the phone almost every night. I don't know if its appropriate to end the relationship now, or wait a couple of weeks until school starts and we see each other every day again. What should I do? Wait it out, or say whats on my mind?

I would wait it out.til u guys see each other again everyday. but also u should tell him you want to see him over the summer as well..but if you really think its goin to work when school starts bak up..stick wit it til then. and maybe your mind will change.
good luck

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Can what we call "normal" people not be normal people? I saw a man today, sitting on a park bench having a "normal" conversation with a person beside him but there was no one there. I got the strangest thoughts and feelings as I walked by like "Could this man who was making perfect sence (not rambling at all and taking breaks like someone was really answering him) be talking to someone on a different plain? Maybe a dead person but also maybe just a total different plain then ours? Do doctors think of this when they exam mentally ill patients? Why are our minds so closed as human beings to say "There is only one plain of existence and if you don't live on this plain only there is something wrong with you?" Throughout my day today these questions have crossed my mind. Can you discuss this with me?

That "normal" guy like you said could be talking with sumone tht is dead like a close relative or sumtin. Sumone who was prob. close to him tht he still sees and never got to tell them how he flet or good bye. If this guy looked normaland was having a normal conversation i dont beleive he is mentally ill tho he still could be. People, beleive in different things and sum of those things is that people shouldnt talk to themselves. when alot of people do. We intend to shut them people out. which is wrong. i beleive there is nuthing wrong with tht man or ne other person who talks in the park having a conversation.

im really sorry if this is not what you meant or wanted to hear. this is all i can think of bout tht topic and tht man with the conversations.

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Ok..im 16 and ive never been kissed. Or lets change that..ive never "madeout" with anyone. And im talkin to a couple of guys and theyre askin me on dates n stuff and i wanna go but i know theyll make a move on me and then i wont kno what im doin! Im already behind..because im 16 and most ppl have madeout already. What do i do about this?

well if you go on the date with them. let them make the move, and if you want to make out with them jus go with. its easy. the guys will start then you jus keep goin with the flow with things.
good luck. dont be scared. and have fun

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ok-
I'm f/13 and almost everyone aroungd where I live isn't virgin from age 11/up My friends and I are witch includes 2 boys- I was wondering, since alot of people(except parents) think we are wierd, Do you think it's wrong to be virgin?

deff. not. they are stupid for not waitin for the right time.. its good to wait til you know its right time. and 13 is kinda young and so is 11. dont feel weird you deff. arent

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OK so I am 15/f and a tomboy, or at least every body says I am. When I was younger I really was a huge tomboy, but now I am more like a sorta tomeboy sort girlly girl. The problem is I have a couple crushes and even asked a gye out once, but everybody is like oh see isnt a real girl do not go out with her. I don't have any sisters just three brothers and I really want a BF. I want to make out with somebody I know that sounds slutty but please help

well i would start doing more girly things to show you are a "girl" even tho you are. And maybe change the way you look, like dressing more girly to. if you want a boyfirned you gota start doing tht stuff. make people change their minds bout you. People shouldnt judge anyways. but if you want to have a boyfrined.thats what you have to do.change their minds.

good luck..hope i helped

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do guys only find skinny girls with absolutely no fat on them attractive? is just a little bit of fat okay do you think? what else do they find attractive personality and looks?

Serioulsy i dont think guys like super skinnny girls. they like alil meat on them bones lol..ever hear more cushin for the pushing lol.

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Hello; I'm 14 and I have no money.
I need a job since my parents don't provide me with enough money to get food when I am out.

I need to know what kinds of jobs besides baby sitting I can get at 14.

theres fast food restuarants as long as you have working papers. Thats pretty much it for 14 year olds tht i know of.
good luck on finding a job.

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Why has my parents got baby oil next to their bed...my friends keep saying all this stuff and its just floating around in my brain. I need straight answer its not like i can ask my parents

Baby oil is used for the skin it makes it smoother, and its for back massages..they do it at night..but i would still just ask your parents why they use it. no harm there.

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hi ..um i probably sound really imature about it, but i am starting birth control for the first time and i was waiting for sunday to take the first one, and i thought it was today but its actually saturday ...what do i do now?.. do i keep taking them and pretend that today it sunday for the rest of the time...or do i restart a new package tomorrow.

jus keep doing it on saturdays now. no big deal. you shouldnt waste the pills.

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well, i'm almost 14 and i've never used a tampon. i've had my period since i was 11. i always wear pads and i almost put a tampon in once but i got scared that i wouldn't be able to get it in. is this weird? should i try again? and isn't it true that some girls just can't get it in because their hymen (or something??) is too tough? please help me!!!

i was in the same exact position my first time i didnt get it in til i was 14 or maybe even early 15.. and im 15 now..lol..i was soo scared but now its nuthin to it. i would try again and you will get good at it and it will be a breeze. you jus need to know how to put it in to make sure its comfortable..but nothing to worry bout read instructions and your set. i would try again.
good luck on everything :)

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