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it depends on what kind of brands you like. if you`re kinda punk then hot topic has some good hoodies. if you`re preppy then i`d go to hollister, aeropostale, american eagle or abercrombie and fitch! pacsun also has some good ones too ♥

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hey i recently got spacers and one of them came out the next day, and so we put it back in but it did the same thing it did the first time and came back out again. is this normal? will it delay my braces? thanks.

it`s ok if your spacers fall out but it might hurt a lil bit more when you get your braces on! ♥

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hi...i really need help. i am on a dance team and they told me that i had to lose weight. this was about a year and a half ago. right when they told me that i had to lose weight to stay on the team i started getting ideas that i was too fat. and now i think im fatter than fat. so during that i year i decided to skip a meal to see if that would help but then i started to skip 2 meals and now im not eating at all. my best friend keeps saying that im anorexic but i dont want to believe it and i dont think its true. either way i am really scared because im losing weight really fast and all but i dont want to lose it this way and im scared that im going to die or something. i dont want to tell my parents so i dont scare them so what do i do......PLeASE HELP ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!

just eat healthy food 3 times a day ((breakfast, lunch, and dinner)). don`t skip anymore meals because that is a bad way to lose weight and you`ll have a harder time concentrating in school. your eating habits can get worse too and you can get anorexic if you keep skipping meals. for breakfast you should eat foods like fruit, something with protein, or something with fiber. do the same thing with lunch xcept you can have some kind of snack like chips if you want but don`t eat some kind of fatty food like that everyday. for dinner you should eat some kind of vegetable, protein, and some kind of grain. that way your diet is balanced and you won`t have to worry about losing weight really fast. you can go to http://www.toneteen.com/tools/bmi.htm and type in your height and how much you weigh and it will show you if you`re in your weight range. make sure you exercise too! ♥

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I used to live with my brother but now i have to live with my other brother and he's constantly drinking and hitting me i don't know what to do if i go to the police then i'll end up in a home again and i don't want to go back to one of those places and if i run away then i'll end up on the street again and that's no good either, but i can't stay here it's getting harder and harder to deal with him and he keeps trying to rape me what can i do?

tell somebody as soon as you can! tell your school principal or councelor or anybody that you can trust and they would help you. don`t run away. if you have to go to another home again, it`d be better then staying with your brother because he drinks and he hits you and he tries to rape you. get out while you can ♥

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hi i'm a 13/f and im in the 7th grade. and we got our 4 and a half week progress reports today and i got a 67 in science. the teacher only took a few grades and mine jumped from a B to an F. i usually get all A's and B's and very few C's. i don't know how to tell my parents because they have really high expectations of me! Help!?

you`re lucky it`s just a progress report! i know your parents will get mad because you said that you usually get a's and b's and they have really high xpectations from you. i usually get a's and b's and if i got lower then a c i know my parents would be really mad. just try and get your grade up and you`ll be fine! ♥

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well i did community service last week with my friend and a bunch of kids from my school, and we had to serve food and stuff to the senior citizens. i got assigned table 1 and so did josh

he might like you! at school just ask him if he`s doing anything over the weekend and give him your number or you could ask for his. don`t feel weird calling him because you never know might what happen between you guys ♥

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I have an appointment tomorrow to get a tooth extracted. I'm a little nervous about the whole process because of course, the doctor told me "It's not going to hurt at all." Lets be honest, don't all doctors say that about EVERYTHING? For those of you who have gotten that procedure done, about how long did it take? How much did it hurt after the novicane wore off? How long does the pain last after the surgery? And does any one have any tips on making it not hurt as bad? Thanks so much!

it doesn`t really hurt that much. before i got braces i had to get a tooth xtracted and it didn`t really hurt. it takes about 15 minutes to get your gums numb and then give you the shot. the novicane only lasts for a few hours. you shouldn`t eat anything in those hours because you can chew on your cheeks and not feel anything because your mouth is numb and your cheeks might get swollen. if your mouth hurts after the procedure, take some tylenol or some other kind of pain killer medicine. it should help ♥

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Hey! i have a friend whos parents always move. She might not be at the same high school in a year or so. It's been over a year and she still misses a friend form where she used to live because they got very close. Theres a friend where she lives now that she really likes but dosent'want to get to close because she's afraid that she will miss her once she moves again, like she did with the person in the other place where she lived. She feel complete and a lot better having a best friend. She dosen't know if she should get close to this person and take the pain as she did for the last person or not to get close and not have a best friend. Which should she do? o and she tried talking this out with her parents but the words don't seem to come out.

aww i`m kinda havin the same problem xcept i didn`t move. last year they built a new middle school where i live and everyone from different middle schools had to go there. i made tons of new friends and now most of them go to a different high school then me! i still have all my old friends at the highschool i`m at now but i miss my new friends sooo much because some of my best friends are there. this questions kinda hard but if i were her i`d get close to the person and take the pain because i would want a best friend. she could always e-mail her friend when she moves again, call them, or visit her sometime. that`s what i do with all my friends at the other highschool. hope i helped and good luck with your friend! ♥

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I believe in sex after marriage, but my boyfriend is persisiting i have sex with him. He aggrivates me ALL the time and I can see myself giving in. I know I will regret it as soon as I've done "the deed". I'm confused as to what I should do; should I choose the easy option and give in? or go by my wishes and wait?

if you don`t wanna have sex then don`t do it. if i were you, i`d dump him because he isn`t worth your time. if he really likes/loves you he wouldn`t be pressuring you in to having sex. don`t give in to him because you WILL regret it later on! ♥

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i have a friend and her dad used to beat her and rape her and do horrible things to her so she moved in with her half brother and things seemed fine for a while she was really happy but now she's acting like she did when she was with her dad and i think that her half brother might be hurting her but i'm not sure how to ask her about it because she said that he was her last chance and that if she messed it up then she would have nothing left...she thinks that everything that happens to her is her fault and it's not she also doesn't want anyone to wry about her so she doesn't really tell ppl when things are going bad for her she just keeps it to herself and then ends up doing something stupid i'm really worried about her what should i do?

i would ask her how things are going with her and her half brother. if she says things are going bad like he`s beating her like her dad did, then i think you should tell someone like your parents or the school councelor. if you think shes lying about her half-brother beating her tell her not to do that because you don`t want her doing something stupid and get herself into more trouble. everything that happens to her isn`t her fault and she shouldn`t think like that. if she can`t live with her half brother anymore, why wouldn`t she have any place to go? can`t she live with her mom, grandparents, or any other family members? good luck and i hope i helped ♥

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um yeah, i'm a girl and there is this one girl who ithink kisses me, and i tell her not to, but she keeps on doing that... um what should i do, because i don't really swing that way.....

tell her you don`t swing that way and you don`t want her kissin you anymore. she should understand and hopefully she won`t do that to you anymore ♥

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Hey

i want to know some good songs...
the stuff i like is like:
Taking back sunday: youre so last summer
": this photograph is proof
Papa roach: scars
Story of the year: Sidewalks
": until the day i die
the killers: mr. brightside
green day: good riddence...

stuff like that
if anyone has any ideas on some other songs i would like please tell me...thank you

hah i like all those songs and bands! some rock songs i like are ..

"broken" by seether featuring amy lee!! (( my fav. song ))
"going under" by evanescence!
"empty apartment" by yellowcard
"memory" by sugarcult
"boys of summer" by the ataris
"ohio is for lovers" by hawthorne heights
"sooner or later" by breaking benjamin
"buried a lie" by senses fail
"meant to live" by switchfoot
"girl all the bad guys like" by bowling for soup
"hands down" by dashboard confessional
"breaking the habit" by linkin park
"all downhill from here" by new found glory
"i'm not okay" by my chemical romance
"someday" by nickelback
"shut up" by simple plan
"my paper heart" by the all-american rejects

if you want anymore just leave one in my inbox. hope i helped! ♥

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alright my ex asked me to prom, and hes a big dancer type and i dont really dance that way with guys other than slow dance.. i wanna go with him ALOT but im scared that hes gonna think im a loser if i dont dance like that with him..wut do i do?? please help me cuz i havent given him an answer yes or no yet..

aww i think you should go with him! he won`t think your a loser if you don`t do that kinda dance with him! but if you wanna know how to dance, you can ask one of your friends who`s good at dancing and they can teach you how ♥

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Hey! I

the song`s title is "you`re still the one" ♥

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In school there are about 10 boys that pick on me they call me names and I hate it , Once I tried to kill myself but they laughed more Please help me!

Wales Bullied

killing yourself won`t solve anything. you shoud ignore them. they know that it bothers you when they make fun of you and that`s why they keep picking on you! you can also tell your parents, a teacher, or the school councelor that you`re being bullied then they would do something about it. hope i helped ♥

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I asked you earlier this question:

"I love a guy, Who loves a Girl, but the Girl, doesn't love him. But the guy who loves the girl, doesn't love me, so it goes around in circles...i want to get this guys attention...How should I without totaly letting him know that i REALLY love him????"

But, I have already flirted with him earlier in the school year and he was starting to like me (i could tell) but then we changed seats and now I never have the time to chitchat when hes all the way across the room! What should I do? talk to him at lunch? Cheer him on at recess? ANSWER ASAP PLEASE!

-Desprate for Eddie

whenever you have free time in class you could go over to his seat and talk to him. i`d also talk to him at lunch and cheer him on at recess. you could ask him for his phone number and ask him if he wants to hang out with you sometime! ♥

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I love a guy, Who loves a Girl, but the Girl, doesn't love him. But the guy who loves the girl, doesn't love me, so it goes around in circles...i want to get this guys attention...How should I without totaly letting him know that i REALLY love him????

-100%ME

i think you should talk to him. if you don`t start talkin to him, you`ll never get anywhere with him! be flirty when you guys talk and he might start to like you! ♥

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i am a 13 year old female and are kid size bottoms and junoirs size tops i am going to a party on april 30 and need some cute clothes for it i am a very girly cheerleader and dancer so i love pink

please help!!!!!

hollister, aeropostale, american eagle, abercrombie & fitch, gadzooks, forever 21, charlotte russe, and rave are some stores where you can find some kute clothes! ♥

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How can i loose a few inches fast before summer (Pref. around my stomach and thighs) ? I rate high!

www.toneteen.com shows you what kind of workouts you can do and how you can tone your body. those workouts should help you loose a few inches before summer! workout videos, sports, and walking can also help. another thing you could do is just go on a diet and cut back on sweets and fattening food ♥

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What website can I go on o listen to any kind of music I want without downloading it and so its not diffucult. Thanks.

you could go to launch.yahoo.com or http://channels.netscape.com/ns/music/videos/default.jsp to watch music videos there or if you just wanna listen to music you can go here http://channels.netscape.com/ns/music/songs/default.jsp hope i helped ♥

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