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18 f
i have an on-going flirtation with this one guy that i go to school with. we openly flirt and will most likley hook up within the next month. i know he thinks im attractive and all but he recently said that i was a 9, as in a 9 out of 10. i dont know whether to be flattered that he gave me such a high number or insulted that he doesnt think im a 10. any opinions on this would be great.
thanks! (link)
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Hello,
First of all, true beauty is found within. Yes the outside is what most people see but having to see people appealing to you but what a total weirdo what would you do ?
I think 9/10 is pretty high.
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i was on a break with my bf and he got with someone. that ended p hurting me and he said i should get with someone to even it out. bad idea or good idea? (link)
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Bad idea. If you do he could use that against you. Act mature, if he cheated on you if you love him you could work on the relationship.
Never dishonour your body in that way.
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Kevin (my boyfriend) and I have been together for a little over a year and his parents did not like me since day one. The biggest reason is because I am two years older than him. He is 16 and I am 18. Before I was with him, I cheated on a boyfriend i had, but Kevin trust me and he hasn't told his parents about it. I love him so much and more than anything in this world, but I really wish his parents would like me. One day, Kevin, his sister and I went to the mall together and his sister ran into some friends and so she went to hang out with them. Later on, Kevin's parents called him and asked to speak to Kristina (His sister), but she was with her friends. His parents got so mad with me saying I am a bitch and it's all my fault that we let Kristina go. I found out that later on, Kevin tried to take the blame for all of it but his dad hit him with a gun and passed out, his parents did NOT do anything about his passing out except let him lay there. A few months later, we started to somewhat get along. We had dinner together and everything, but i soon found out it was all just a show. I found out from Kevin and Kristina that their parents talk bad about me everyday. Like how they wanna kill me or how i am a bitch or whatever. I don't let any of that stuff bother me, i just keep trying my best to set a good impression. I always said yes mam and no mam and yes sir and no sir, but no matter what i do, they just cant get to like me. They also say Kevin should date someone of his own kind (He is Vietnamese, I am Mexican).Many months later, after kevin turns 16 and it passes our one year anniversary so he wants a tattoo. Well it's illegal but he found this place that will do it to minors. I do EVERYTHING I can to convince him not to, but he really wants it. He said he'll do it even if i don't bring him, he'll find a ride. I really want to tell his parents but i was afraid he will get really mad at me and break up with me. Then finally he convinces me to bring him, which was a horrible mistake because his parents saw the tattoo and blames me 100% for it. Now everyday, Kevin tell his parents its his fault, but they don't believe him and threaten to kill him everyday and hits him everyday. There really is no evidence because he heals really quickly. And also his parents continue to talk bad about me and also in front of my dad and i don't know what to do at all. How can I show them that I am a good person. I got my diploma, i am in college, I get great grades, I never ever curse unless I am quoting other peoples words and i show them as much as respect as i can even though they dont show me respect. What can i do? My dad says i should just leave it alone and deal with it until kevin turn 18. Kevin also say that when he turns 18, he wont see them or speak to them ever again because he believes they don't deserve to be his parents. I also found out his parents always believes that they gave their children life so they have the right to take it away from the. Please help me. What do i do? (link)
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Hi,
First of all whatever the parents of the love of your life has done to you, you have to respect them with reason. Find out why they dislike you, it could be that they love their son very much and want to see them with someone they approve of. Have a mature conversation it could be someone they dont like about you but if they see how much you love him they could cherish you that someone else loves their son as much as they do.
Take care.
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Okay, so I started dating this kid september of my senior year(almost 2 years ago) I never thought i'd feel the way I do about him especially after all we've been through. I didnt know then that he was involved in pills, and when I found out I left for a little but then eventually came back when he was on one of his sober binges. I left for college after we were together for almost a year and he stayed at home. He was using but would call me everynight and so I didn't even expect it. He then moved 2 hours away from my college instead of the normal 7 hours and I thought everything would get better. But then almost 2 months after moving into his apartment there he relapsed and had to get his stomach pumped(this was in feb)I felt like sucha dumb person but I loved him so much I let way too many things slide. Basically feb to may was a million back and forths where we would break up and get back together and he was on and off of drugs every other week. Finally I left for the longest amount of time I ever have. I didnt try calling or anything, I just broke it off and ignored everything. It was really hard and I constantly worried about him getting with someone else and relapsing and stuff. After 3 weeks of no talking, on his birthday he sent me a message saying last year on his birthday was the best of his life because it was just me and him in a hotel secluded from the rest of the world. We slowly began talking again, then hanging out, then eventually we were back into sex again. He's been clean since may off of everything (including weed) and its like hes a whole different person. It makes me so much more happy being with him like this but he is moving a few states away. We arent together and i dont think my family or friends would be happy if they knew we were having sex. Now that I am all moved in up at college, Its like I want more attention, he hasn't called me (although I moved in 2 days ago) and I always have to text him. Hes always been bad with the phone but I really wish he'd make more of an effort. Last night I texted him Heyy and he never responded. He always says that he wants to marry me one day and that he loves me so much. I really believe him and I really do love him. I dont know what to do to make him realize I can leave, like I want him to treat me better and act like he talks. But I dont want to leave and have him get someone else. Please help me, he may just be bad with the phone but I really want him to care more. (link)
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Well,
I would say get him to talk about why he started on the drugs in the first place. Not in a demanding way but in a relaxed manner. It is obvious that both of you care about each other. Take it easy i mean take one step at a time and you could try seeing someone who can help the both of you esecially him.
Take care.
God loves everybody.
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well theres this guy who i used to like, and he didnt like me much back then, now i dont like him and he likes me. How do i let him know i dont like him, without hurting his feelings? any answers would REALLY be appreciated ! (link)
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Hello,
You could try saying how you feel right now. You dont know what the future hold. You could also treasure him as a friend.
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16/f/India
Okay so I am in senior year. Here 12th grade is VERY important..My admissions into a good college will be only on the basis of the marks I score in my "board examination" which is held at the end of the year. The papers are not checked by my teachers but by some other teachers who don't know me and are teaching in some other school. This is done to make the examination fair. The cutoffs for any college where i live (new delhi) are CRAZZY. I mean nothing below a 475/500 is acceptable.
I have Physics, Chemistry, Computer science, English and Maths as my subjects.
Im telling you all of this just so that you know there is a lot of pressure to perform well.. and I have to in order to get a good college.
Ive just been real distracted for a while. I don't know how to concentrate on my studies. I dont feel like sitting with my books. It is freaking me out because every day matters to me. Please help!!!!!
If it helps. I havent been that bad in my studies. I wont say its cutting edge but then im one of the top 10 students in my class. Its just that i dont know how to get that extra edge..so that i can actually get into a college here. a very good college.. (link)
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Hi,
I would say structure your learning. Make alot of revision.
Sorry if i couldnt help you more.
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i don't have dry skin, maybe slightly combination skin but it's normally oily.
A week ago i had a horrible break out so i used tea tree oil (diluted) and when that didn't give me immediate relief, i bought a benzoyl peroxide product and i'm 100% sure i overused it.
The places where i broke out now have dry patches of skin w/ the acne now gone. i've been putting a 'normal to dry skin' moisturizer on it, but i have to keep applying it for it to feel 'moisturized'
IS there anything I can use to get it to peel and keep it moisturized? maybe something i can get from inside the house? AND no exfoliation advice please (it hurts). (link)
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i would recommend you to visit your dermatologist. They would be able to give you some sound advice.
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Im 15 f and I'm a little above average which I have a feeling it's only going to go up. I try not to eat much but I can't help myself so much snacks and food. And when I say I'm going to exercise I don't. I get really upset and sometimes I eat my feelings but it's not binge disorder. I'm afraid it's going to get worse and I want to lose some weight before I go on vacation (link)
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Hi,
It has happened to so many people. Try eating more fruits and vegetables instead of fast food and junk food. Remember to drink water on a regular basis.
Take care.
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Love is relationship or sex? (link)
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Love is deeper than physical attraction. When you find someone that you love it doesnt have to do with the obvious but, knowing that person you will get joy in that knowing what teh person likes how you connect.
Take care.
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I'm 13 and I really like this guy ( I think I'm in love with him) and I know i like him for who he is and everything because we used to be really close friends but ever since he got a gf not so much. I want to know how to get his attention and become more attractive to him to get him to like me (hopefully more than hs gf). Help? (link)
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Hello,
You are 13 years old. I am sorry if i sound old fashioned but you have your whole life ahead of you.
I would not suggest you trying to get him off his girlfriend but what i would suggest is getting to know him as a friend. You could end up treasuring your friendship more than anything.
Take care.
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i'm a 21 yr old female and i tend to get mad at ridiculous things and i seem to get angry too fast. i really don't know why i do that, idk if it's me or a female thing. i want to figure out how to control it because it affects my relationship with my boyfriend sometimes. thank you! (link)
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Hi,
Everyone gets anygry at some point in there lifetime. The trick is learning to control it and to understand why you get anrgy so quickly then you could not get angry that much. Getting angry is part of being human. Everybody gets angry. Talking more about why you get angry could help you. Try talking to your boyfriend about it and hear from his point of view and see where he is coming from and take it from there.
Hope i helped.
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i have no friends everywhere, i feel sad :(
i love to make friends but it does not work
i'm approachable to everyone, but why it's hard?
still no friends, i just need someone to talk to and hang out with. (link)
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Hi,
That is great that you want to make friends. Try doing something that you like and others like maybe taking a course in that way you would meet people that you have things in common with.
Another way is just to go out a safe place like a church gathering and they could hold meeting for people aged a particular age.
Hope i have helped.
Take care.
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i cheated on my husband and at first when i told him he was very angry. we have been able to talk about it but i still feel like we need more help because it feels like we have just swept everything under the rug. What do i do or do i just leave it alone? (link)
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Hi,
Well i would say taht you should think back at what led you to cheat in the first place, and hopefully you and your husband can move on. Maybe he doesnt know why you cheated and this could also be a test which could prove that your marriage is strong.
Take care.
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hey may be you can give me a little advice you see i love my guy alot we been together for about four years i love him alot his my world everything at the beginning was great after we had a year and months i moved in with him and everything went bad ever since then hes hit me if something doesnt go right or he dnt get want he wants or i told him we'll try getting it he gets super angry adn goes off on me and hits me and tells me mean thing i hate it and i want him to stop because i love him (link)
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Hello,
You have done the first step by actually admiting that your boyfriend hits you the next step is to get help for him. You could try talking to him, when he is very happy try reminding him what you have sacrificed for him you love him it shows becaus eyou dont like being hit by him. Talk to him as i said but be gentler dont rub it in his face have a mature conversation. you will never know what history he has that has led to him to hit you.
I hope i have helped you.
Take care of yourself.
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Hi, i am 19 years old..5'6'' an i weigh 90lbs. I used to weigh 105 but alot of thigs happened and i lost alot of weight..I know it is not normal to be like this, its causing me to be sick all the time. I eat but it seems like the more i eat is the more i lose weight..PLEASE HELP ME!!!!! What do i do to gaing weight????? (link)
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Hi,
There are food suplements taht you could take, every day but you have to work out for the build to work.
Bye.
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Ok so i am 13 female and i am having trouble getting a bf i mean i am pretty or so i have been told i am really curvy and pretty shy when it comes to guys I want to open and be able to feel comfortable around guys again,but not be a slut!Any advice i want to loosen up!
THNX IN ADVNCE
TINK2359 (link)
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Hi,
Well, it depends on the guy and want he want at that particular time.From my experience from other people's relationship, if a dude is young he might not want to have a serious relationship. But, want to play the field, becfore having a real serious relationship. I have also noticed that some people who get in a relationship too early, have regrets. Yes, the relationship is great, but would rather the relationsip exist when they are a bit older.
Bye.
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I spilled coke all over my backpack today and it got on my ipod. Is there anyway to fix it!? (link)
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Try opening it and cleaning it from the inside and i hope you have insurance incase the coke stain doesn't come out. I spilled water in my mp3 player and when it dried it worked fine.
Bye.
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I've been with my boyfriend for a while now, and he used to do all of these things, but now he has pretty much stopped:
no more "I wish we could live together" or "I never get tired of you"
no more talk of the future
no more I want to spend all of my time with you
no more "Can I come over?"
no more texting me sweet texts
no more saying you make me happy
no compliments at all except physical ones. unless i ask for one.
In addition, he sometimes rejects me (sexually). But he still claims he loves me. He still wants to hang out on weekends, but not during the week anymore. Sometimes I feel like he still cares, but other times but gut just feels wrong. I've brought it up with him before..and he says of course he loves me. But then his actions just don't seem to match up with his words. Does he still care about me? help! (link)
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Actions speak louder than words.
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Okay well i wanna lose my tummy fast & i hear that those sauna waist belts help alot & i was wondering if they actually do , i kno it doesnt do all the work & that would have to exercise & diet a lil but is it a good idea ? Ps im really busy so i dont have time to always go to the gym anywho thanks in advance ! (link)
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Hello,
Sauna belt , reduces water weight. Try doing some sit-ups and push-ups.
You could also try soem running.
Bye.
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ok so i have this friend who i just met about 2 months ago, and ever since ive been obsessed with her. its not like i stalk her because were actally good friends and at least i think she likes me too. the only thing is i really like her too much (not in a lesbian way, i just mean in a friendly way) like i get jelous when other people talk to her and my day doesnt feel complete without seeing her. like if she doesnt come to school one day because shes sick, my day is siginificantly worse. i realize its a good thing to like your friends but i spend way too much time obsessesing over with person and waiting to see them or for them to text me or anything.
what do i do?
pleas help! (link)
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Well, I would say you are really fond of her, that you enjoy her company as a friend. There's nothing wrong with that.
Bye.
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