We were on a break and he got with a girl, should I get with a guy to get back at him?
Question Posted Sunday October 2 2011, 11:53 pm
i was on a break with my bf and he got with someone. that ended p hurting me and he said i should get with someone to even it out. bad idea or good idea?
Additional info, added Tuesday October 4 2011, 9:51 pm: Correction: sorry, it was a breakup. we were allowed to get with other people and we were trying to move on but we just decided to give things another chance. to be fair, he was single at the time and he blacked out that night and has no recollection of what happened. Also, he told me about the girl right after he found out that it had happened. It was not cheating, but he feels guilty and thinks if were going to give it another try we should start out on the same "level". hes never cheated. the girl kissed him.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? venesaw10 answered Thursday October 6 2011, 6:46 am: Bad idea. If you do he could use that against you. Act mature, if he cheated on you if you love him you could work on the relationship.
nothinggirl answered Tuesday October 4 2011, 1:15 pm: okay one it's takes about 3 liters of strong alchol to blackout a man or drugs so if i were you i wouldn't believe that bull. two, do you really want to degrade yourself by getting even with him i mean come you guys want to give the relationship another go so don't have sex with someone else sure it'll probably make you feel better but is that enough? If he slept with someone else even if you guys were on a time out i would probably prepare myself for him cheating on you again. but then he won't have the excuse that you guys were on a break, how many blackouts is he going to have before you realize that his lieing to you. this wasn't the frist time and deep down you know it was well. so when are you going to say enough? [ nothinggirl's advice column | Ask nothinggirl A Question ]
Xui answered Monday October 3 2011, 11:51 am: Bad idea.......
Your boyfriend cheated on you, Why the hell would you even think about lowering yourself down to his level to make things okay? That is just an excuse, He was caught and he is obviously trying to cover it up or think of some lame reason to how to make it up too you. This guy doesn't deserve you, If he can't be faithful then shit can him. If you want a real relationship then you are going to have to find the right guy that will treat you right, Not back stab you. Also, If your boyfriend cared about you then he wouldn't be trying to get you to see someone else. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
Pook answered Monday October 3 2011, 4:07 am: Wow, this does not sound like a healthy relationship! Are you still on a break? If not, then don't do this. Even if it is his suggestion, he will still be hurt if you get with someone else. On the other hand if you guys are still on a break and he is encouraging you to do it, it may be that he wants you to play the field so he can break up with you completely. You need to think about whether you guys have any sort of future together - if you think you do, then don't mess around with anyone else. [ Pook's advice column | Ask Pook A Question ]
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