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Can a guy like you again after rejecting you?
I guess im asking this cuz im looking for comfort because i just got rejected by a guy i like he didnt say he did not like me just that he had a girlfriend so now im sad but things could change right?
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Don't take it personally. You guys are at an age in which your brains, and along with that, your sensibilities, are still evolving and so he may come around to you at a later time.
The thing is that you really shouldn't tie yourself down anyway until at least your mid to late 20's. Date different guys, have fun, explore life. The more people you meet the more likely it is you'll find the one you're supposed to be with.
And by the way, while you've been putting your eggs all in the one basket with the guy, there were probably ten others around you who want to ask you out. Make sure everyone knows you're available.
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from 5th grade to 9th I was in love with this guy at school who knew it but was really mean to me I always thought he secretly liked me and he was just embarrassed to like me but it was all in my head I wasted 5 years of my life on someone i cried over every night I made myself believe he really wanted to be with me from the signs he gave but the truth of the matter was he was just a dick and from time to time I think about him because he was my first love but what i'm trying to say is there's someone out there for you. Don't let this one rejection hurt you as bad as it did me move on while you can
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i was 16 when i told the guy i liked that i liked him he laughed and told me that i was a loser and he could never date a girl as ugly as me, i cried so hard that night. He might change but would you really want to wait for him, do you really want to start hating his girlfriend that you don't even know and wish that they would break just so you could be with him? i'm sure you're answer is yes i guess that is the worst in people we're selfish which is normal. But i'm sure you'll find anyother guy who will tell you yeah i like you too. Best way to heal a broken heart, is puting in a horror movie or a movie of your choice, taking a nice long bath before, getting some pizza and hot choclate milk in your hands and start watching that movie you picked.it helps hopefully.
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Things always change, for better or for worse :)
Don't feel sad because he rejected you, keep your cool, and life rolls on. If he has a girlfriend, be there for him as a friend. You don't know what exactly the guy thinks of you, so don't tear yourself up. Who knows what may happen. Keep your chin up! Get busy doing things to get your mind off of this, let's call it, an oopsie; afterall, you didn't know he was taken right? ;)Good luck!
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Staying hung up over him would be a major mistake. Yes, it's possible that he could like you but right now he has a girlfriend. As unlikely as it may be it's possible that he could stay with this girl for years to come. When I was in high school I made the mistake of being infatuated with guys who already had girlfriends and that got me absolutely nowhere.
Also, by telling you that he has a girlfriend it could be a nice way of telling you that he's not interested in you without flat out saying it.
This is probably not the last time in life that you will feel rejected and hurt. I'm not sure if you started dating yet, but when you get older and involved more relationships you will end up with broken hearts. Look at the rejections that you're currently going through as learning experiences that offer a stepping stone until you find the guy that you're going to marry.
Find another guy whose single, and find a way to talk to him. I think that a lot of teenagers make this mistake they find someone that they think is absolutely gorgeous but never talk to them, so they never know what their real personality is like. When I got to know most of the guys that I had liked in high school most of them were complete jerks and I'm glad that I didn't go out with them. You may end up with a boyfriend whose cute and whose personality you absolutely love.
Good luck and let me know how everything goes if you decide to follow my advice.
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