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why am i acting like this.
-19 female
Ok, my boyfriend is the nicest person i know. He completely loves me and does so many nice things for me. He doesn't have a car though, so i drive us everywhere and he usually pays for food and other things, because he feels bad for the gas that's wasted that I have to pay for ya kno? Anyways hes a complete sweetheart, and i know it, but i don't appreciate him enough maybe? Like for some reason since he doesn't have a car I get mad at him a lot ,cause i have to pick him up to hang out from his friends or his house. It's just annoying to me that my boyfriend can't be the one driving cause i feel like it should be that way? I really wish i could change my attitude about it ,but i really just don't know how..it's one of those things that just puts me in a mad mood too much and I don't want it to have that affect on me/us anymore. advice?
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I'm in the same situation with my boyfriend, only he's the one always driving and I don't drive. I don't have my license. I don't think it matters whether the girl or guy in the relationship drives it should be equal. I love my boyfriend to death but he isn't a taxi driver. Nor are you to your boyfriend. Maybe the reason you get mad is because you feel like you're driving him all over the place which is a normal way to feel. Maybe you feel like you are being used at times because he needs a ride here or there?
Is he saving up for a car? Maybe suggest he start saving up and have a goal of getting his own car? That way there is a goal and he gets a bit of independence.
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You may or may not want to hear this, but let me ask you this.
Are you really that interested in him? Maybe him not having a car is your way of venting out your frustration over the fact that you're with someone that you're not interested in. I really don't think it would be matter that he doesn't have a car and can't drive you around if you were.
Someone can treat you really well and have you still not be interested in them. The best thing to do is that since the both of you are still young at this point, and can find other people who will make you happy, just tell him that you don't think that you're as interested in him as you once thought you were and you don't think it's fair for him to be with someone who doesn't feel the same mutual feelings.
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