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hi im 14 live in newfoundland and i just like giving advice and helping out but im homest weither it nice or brutal

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How can you really tell if you're boyfriend likes another girl?

Before we were going out or even started talking regularly, I had heard he liked this other girl. Then a little bit later, we started talking and he started liking me, I guess, because he asked me to homecoming then he asked me out. So then I asked him if it was true if he liked that other girl, and he was like "like on the first day of school." But how can you only like someone for a day?

Later on, the girl he used to like started going out with one of his friends. Then my boyfriend started saying things about how he didn't like the guy she was going out with... but before they were going out, they were friends. Hmm...? And now the girl and his friend broke up and I can tell my boyfriend is trying to be around her so he can talk to her. Like today, I was coming out of the locker room, and he was talking with her and asking her about her ex boyfriend and if she'd go back out with him and didn't even acknoledge my presense.

What do you think? I want to mention something about it to him, but what should I say?

Every guy I've gone out with has liked or likes this girl, goshhhhh.

well talk to him bout it and if he says he does hes a good boyfriend because he can admit to it but you might wann abe careful of cheating if he says yes if he says o trust him time will tell and if he lied that would be your sign to dump him before he dumps you

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ok im sorry if this is long but i really need help!!!right well im 14/f and i met this guy over the summer and ive fancied him ever since and apparently he fancies me...but he has a girlfriend but their ALWAYS on and off and when their off people say its coz he wants to be with me and stuff, i know this sounds stupid but yesterday i hugged him and he smelt so good and it made me want to be with him..and he told my friend that i dont seem like the kinda person to be in long term relashionships what does that suppose to mean??hes 17 by the way and before anyone says hes just messing me around hes not that kinda guy! my best friend just got with his best friend and im so jealous of them what can i do to get him???!?!?!?!??! im so depressed!! sorry its long ill rate high! thnx xxxxx

well heres the thing ask him out when they are off and it probubly means that he thinks your sumone whos likes a short one week fling.

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Okay, so my mother is allergic to everything except like...20 items total on this planet, and is extremely against all forms of chemicals such as nail polish and hair dye.
HOWEVER...
My roommate got a free salon-type-thing from her boyfriend, and on it, it says you can bring a friend, so we kinda decided she was bringing me...Lol. So we're getting our hair done this weekend.
I'm thinking
Thinned, re-layered, Cut a liiiiiiiiittle longer than shoulder length (or exactly shoulder length, not sure), side-sweeping bangs.
Now here's the hard part.
I kinda wanna get highlights. I'm thinking brownish red highlights 'cause I do have red in my hair.
My mother, however, would MURDER me if she saw highlights in my hair or knew that I borrowed my roomie's shampoo to see what effect scent had on my hair.
What do you guys think I should do? Should I get highlights anyway and beg them to make them as not-noticeable as possible? Or forego the highlights and possible making-worse of hair until I'm far away in grad school?
Should I ask them if they have temporary dye so I can see what they look like?
Opinions, please. ^_^

well highlights are permaent but try to get sumthing that matchs your ahir well so its not noticable and dotncare what she thinks if you want to you can she cant control you all your life.

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I went mountain climbing awhile ago and it wasn't a pleasant experience. To the point: I have these really ugly scars on my leg now...how do I get rid of them? x_x

mederna olay and avon will have stuff in there magazines and places like lawtons drug marts price chopper places lik that suppermarkets wit pharmacies ...

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hey i was wondering if anyone could help me. i need to find lyrics to a song for school that somehow relate to my life and are school apropriate (no swearing, etc). im a 15/f. i will rates for 5s if its atleast some what decent

it doesnt matter if you dont no me i need a song that is not a love song and could somehow relate to a teenage girls life

anything will work im desperate

behind these hazel eyes
simple plan might have sum stuff
all american rejcts might have a song go to www.azlyrics.com

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Okay, I am a catholic and christian. Have been for my whole life. I go to church every sunday, and pray every once in a while, not as much as I should. I do believe in Jesus Christ and have strong faith, but lately I have become obsessed with exorcism rituals, paranormal, and OBE's(out of body experience rituals) I have tried many times to have them and they actually work. Sometimes I feel like something is trying to enter my body when I do this, but before hand I come out of it like Im fighting it off.. I am scared that I could possibly one day become possesed myself. After I saw the movie The exorcism of Emily Rose it really made me intrested...so I am asking is this wrong and what can I do to stop this before I get deeper in?

well possion is sumthign taht catolics and christion protestns all believe in as you know the arc-diasence allows exorsicms but to do any of this rituals and not be ordained well you should go to confession and talk wit your parish priest and then stop this it may be consedered witchcraft witch the lord is against ...i dont think so buut the church is against it

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Okey, well, I don't know if I like this guy or not. But well, this guy is my best friend. He likes me since he was in 2nd grade, and now he's in middle school. It's been a long time!! Then, this year, I'm moving to another country, and he's like sad and thinks that he doesn't have any chance to be with me anymore. And now, I've heard about him alot from my friend that he likes another girl, and I'm kinda jealous to that girl. And two weeks ago, I called and asked him about that girl. I don't know what to do. I really want to ask him, if he still likes me or not. That's the only thing I want to know from him , but I don't know how to ask him that question. And also, my sister always says "You like him", but I always say "no, I don't!" Then she would say like, "You always say NO, but you really like him, I can tell!" And I try and try to make her thinks that I don't like that guy. So, do you think that I like him or not, and give me some advice about how to ask him if he still likes me or not. Thank You..

im in the same boat kinda exept we well yah...well me and my friend ive liked her since grade 6 (4years) and well i never stopped likeing her even though i went bi so hers the thing i did the smae kind of stuff i think you like him and hell never stop liking you you should talk to him alone in your room his house your houe mall etc.... and tell him how you relle feel

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i just hate when the boys make fun of me.i just want them to treat me like a girl.i always feel like im one of the boys and i just hate it.nobody care for me i always left out.i feel realy lonely to the maximum.other girl friends all get attention from the boys but nobody understand that i need to be cared to.i want to be loved to.its there anything wrong with my character?maybe im boyish but the way i dress up is lady like.perhaps im too friendly and outspoken.what to do???

well in my opinion just get out there and fix your problme get more girlfriends and if thta doesnt help ask them out yourself they probubly like you but are to afraid to aask you out or to go to the movies wit em ad a group of friends etc...

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ok i'm 14..turning 15. Im a freshman. homecoming is next next friday and i dont have a date. i dont understand why a guy wont ask me. i am NOT ugly. i am actually really pretty. i used to model. i am NOT mean. i am a really nice person. i like this guy but i dont get why he wont ask me. any ideas? i dont think he likes anybody else. should i just ask him? is that weird? i really dont want to do that cause i think is akward.

you should ask hiom if you trust him not to tell ryan but otherwise you should ask him if not ask sumone else or go with a group of friends you'll have a relle good time with them just as good as a boy who if you date it will only last 3 months more or less

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My best friend carly and I have been friends for about ten months and she started dating this guy and now she is pregnant with his kid. Anyways, we never used to fight until she got with him and now we fight alot. She gets mad at me and stops talking to me anywhere from a few days to a few weeks. She is really important to me and I get really depressed and everything when we don't talk. I was just wondering if anyone had any advice on what to do about that. She is really important to me.

i know ppl in the same botu who are o longer together because one of em wont stop bitching and ive been giving my friend advice for a while...get rid of her its relle a lot better long term

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Ever since I was young, I have been designing alternative education systems for fun. I'm now wondering if there is a particular job related to this, or whether I should just write a book.

well you could work for a school district write a boook for people who need alternate schooling stuff like that you'll be able to give out this info for everyone to help em so its relle a win win situation

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For some time now i've thought i was bi. I've never done anything but i've realized how i was thinking was totally different and unusual. It's been a year and i still haven't made up my mind. Once in awhile i'll "decide" that i'm not but then it ALWAYS comes back and drives me nuts until i'll decide i'm not again. But even then i can't get it off my mind. I know that raging hormones has to deal with this too, but what are the chances of this coming back EVERY SINGLE TIME?!?!?! My family is against it and my friends are okay with it. So please don't tell me to talk with my parents. I just need to know what's going on and why i can't decide. I'll rate ya high!!!

well im 14/m bi and i know i went trought this for a year before addmitting i am your probubly just thinking bout what your parents think i think you are but if you want to talk to me more bout it add me on msn thund3rstruck_14@msn.com and delete this when you adds me i dont want anyone to have this...

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I really want to die. Really badly. I tried to kill myself but i chickend out. I'm not afraid of death.. I'm looking forward to it. I just can't handle life. My body is breaking up. I feel depressed and find the urge just to die. I don't understand why ssomeone can just take my life away. I'm alive and I want to die and there's dieing people that want to live. I don't understand why god just cant give those people a life and take mine away.. I hate myself so much.. I'm having a lot of problems now.. I'm 13, F.

ok ive been in that oat before ...go to a theripist nothing is wrong with you its just a imbalence of chemicals in the brain and if caaught at a stage were its not so bad it can be cured or controlle din other cases

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Hello...this is a question for guys to answer but girls are welcome to answer the other question i ask.

okie dokie...
GUYS: do you think it makes us, girls, feel good about our selfs when you call hott to an extended degree?...(example: yesterday this guy YELLED from across the street at my friend(13/f) "turn down the AC cuz its getting hott in here".)

GIRLS: do you apperciate (sp?) it when you are called hott (like the example above) by your boyfriend or another guy?

will rate for good answers
1s for dumbass/smartass/stupid/iggnorant answers

well sum guys do because they idiots most are(im a guy by the way and i have guys friends who are idiots acctually all of em are...im not) like but yah il say i thiunk she hot beautiful but yah most of the time unless they are a slut i think they dont like it becase they normally wont know who you are

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Ok, I don't want any smartass answer but my friend ask my crush out. I know that guys hate it when a girls friend askes them out. But I couldn't stop her! I asked her what he said and he just said " I don't know." I really like this guy. But I don't want him to think I am a baby and can't do things myself. So what can I say? I really need. Help.

well she isnt a friend if she kne wi say go to him and talk to him bout it or go to her and talk to her bout it

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I was wondering if gatorade or water will make u less thirsty. ON the bottle of gatorade it says "gatorade is a smart choice because it rehydrates, replinshes, and refules in ways that water cant"....im not sur eif thats like jsut an advertisemnt thingy to get u to buy it and it has some catch or if it will help more sooo does ne one know?

well they dont help if youre working out or sumthign but when your not it can but gatorde isnt as good as it claims to be

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Hi im 13/f and i have this guy friend who lives down the street from me and we are really tight i mean his parents would trust us both enough that they could leave the house and we could be upstairs alone(i swear we dont do anthing) we spend a lot of time together and i mean i can just like lay on his bed while he plays on the comouter or plays vidio games and we can talk about ANYTHING he is the only guy who i an acually talk to .... but the thing is i think ive developed a crush on him.... wat can i do to take our relationship further????...thanks

I'm sumone who has had acrush on my bffl for years and well if youre thinking bout asking em out let sum time pass and if you still like him it woud be a good idea to relle think bout it more seriously... but i don't recommened going out wit em...and if you do spend time alone out at like the mall ease yourself into it then ask him out

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how can i increase my metabolism?

drink 3-4 pints of water a day(bout a half a pint more than the recommended amount) exercise and eat lots of vegtables and a regular size portion of meat

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ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month and 1 week he wants to have sex im 14 hes 15 have we been going out long enough

NO not unless your a slut you'd be stupid to do taht know it could ruin you rlife

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