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My best friend carly and I have been friends for about ten months and she started dating this guy and now she is pregnant with his kid. Anyways, we never used to fight until she got with him and now we fight alot. She gets mad at me and stops talking to me anywhere from a few days to a few weeks. She is really important to me and I get really depressed and everything when we don't talk. I was just wondering if anyone had any advice on what to do about that. She is really important to me.
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i know ppl in the same botu who are o longer together because one of em wont stop bitching and ive been giving my friend advice for a while...get rid of her its relle a lot better long term
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Talk to her about it in a nice, not attacking way ("I know you're going through this awful, stressful time but it really hurts me when you treat me like this.").. and if she still becomes angry at you or is not understanding enough, let her go for a while. She'll let you know when she needs you. If you decide to still be her friend at that point is your call.
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well shes pregnant and thats a huge thing..its not excuse to treat you like this...but shes going through a lot emotionally and physically..i would step up first and really extend my hand out there..let her know im there for her..im there to support her ..and all that goood stuff. buy her some chocolate..get on good terms with her and let her know how much she means to you..she really needs to hear that right now with the pregnancy and stuff
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