Question Posted Monday September 26 2005, 11:11 pm
Okey, well, I don't know if I like this guy or not. But well, this guy is my best friend. He likes me since he was in 2nd grade, and now he's in middle school. It's been a long time!! Then, this year, I'm moving to another country, and he's like sad and thinks that he doesn't have any chance to be with me anymore. And now, I've heard about him alot from my friend that he likes another girl, and I'm kinda jealous to that girl. And two weeks ago, I called and asked him about that girl. I don't know what to do. I really want to ask him, if he still likes me or not. That's the only thing I want to know from him , but I don't know how to ask him that question. And also, my sister always says "You like him", but I always say "no, I don't!" Then she would say like, "You always say NO, but you really like him, I can tell!" And I try and try to make her thinks that I don't like that guy. So, do you think that I like him or not, and give me some advice about how to ask him if he still likes me or not. Thank You..
Additional info, added Monday September 26 2005, 11:37 pm: I'll rate high for brilliant answer!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? yeLLow_Lab answered Thursday September 29 2005, 4:49 pm: you probably do. If you miss him a lot and really want ot see him again then you might just miss him like a friend. Maybe you can bring up something about the subject. you could say something like "there's this kid at school who I think likes me" then ask for advice from him to see how you could find out and use that method on him. you might be able to have one of his friends ask him for you so it won't be so embarassing.
thund3rstruck answered Tuesday September 27 2005, 3:00 pm: im in the same boat kinda exept we well yah...well me and my friend ive liked her since grade 6 (4years) and well i never stopped likeing her even though i went bi so hers the thing i did the smae kind of stuff i think you like him and hell never stop liking you you should talk to him alone in your room his house your houe mall etc.... and tell him how you relle feel [ thund3rstruck's advice column | Ask thund3rstruck A Question ]
LadyGoodman answered Tuesday September 27 2005, 12:31 am: You like him, and he probably still likes you. Just go for it, or else you'll regret not doing it and always wonder what would have happened. [ LadyGoodman's advice column | Ask LadyGoodman A Question ]
froggy1983 answered Monday September 26 2005, 11:24 pm: okay well it sounds to me like you do like him but maybe you don't want your sister to know so she won't make fun of you. I think he really likes you too he's just upset because you are moving away and because he thought that he didn't have a chance with you so now he moved on to this other girl to try and forget about you. I say if you really like him like it sounds like you do then call him and talk to him and let him know how you feel about him. It won't hurt to talk to him see what happens maybe you two will end up together. Go for it girl! [ froggy1983's advice column | Ask froggy1983 A Question ]
QueenCece answered Monday September 26 2005, 11:22 pm: Well i'm in sort of the same situation. If he's your best friend ask him like a friend would. Start a conversation saying i heard this.... Then it won't be just cause your curious. Then if he asked why tell him the truth in person or over the phone. No email or telegram. Either face to face or ear to ear is best. Share your feelings because years from now or sooner your going to feel a what if coming on. We both don't want that. First tell your self out loud that you like him. Cause if you can't even tell your sister how the hell are you gonna tell him man. say in the mirror i like him (his real name). Over and over until you can say it to your sister or a friend and then if you feel comfortable enough you tel him. Be strong, hun! HOPE I HELPED! [ QueenCece's advice column | Ask QueenCece A Question ]
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