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Can't decide..
For some time now i've thought i was bi. I've never done anything but i've realized how i was thinking was totally different and unusual. It's been a year and i still haven't made up my mind. Once in awhile i'll "decide" that i'm not but then it ALWAYS comes back and drives me nuts until i'll decide i'm not again. But even then i can't get it off my mind. I know that raging hormones has to deal with this too, but what are the chances of this coming back EVERY SINGLE TIME?!?!?! My family is against it and my friends are okay with it. So please don't tell me to talk with my parents. I just need to know what's going on and why i can't decide. I'll rate ya high!!!
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1st of all its totally ok to be bi......and if ur not sure just wait longer you'll kno eventually
LOVE!
**~mari~**
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This is almost exactly like what i went through, i still get doubts when i tell people im bi, but i wouldnt bother about trying to figure it out if you cant, because to be honest it doesnt matter if you are bi or not, just like who you like and to hell with the labels.
Take care xx
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well im 14/m bi and i know i went trought this for a year before addmitting i am your probubly just thinking bout what your parents think i think you are but if you want to talk to me more bout it add me on msn thund3rstruck_14@msn.com and delete this when you adds me i dont want anyone to have this...
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You seem to think that your sexuality is a choice. It is not, there is no 'deciding'. You feel the way you feel (and yes, depending on your mood, you can go through 'more straight' and 'more gay' stages).
Try to see through all the social programming in your brain and focus on how you truly feel.
Your parents each had their own lives to make all the decisions they ever wanted to make for themselves. Don't let them decide what's best for you in YOUR life.
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You don't need to be in such a hurry to place a label on yourself. It will all sort itself out as time goes on. In the mean time, just date who you have feelings for, regardless of the gender.
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Okay i am 21/f. I can totally understand what you are going through. I have had plenty or boyfriends and stuff but then one day me and my best friend were hanging out and stuff and she kissed me and of course I totally freaked out at first but then I kissed her back and we have done some other stuff which I won't get in to but anyway it is normal to have those feelings. I mean sometimes girls are way more understanding than guys are. My parents and pretty much everyone were completley against it. We are best friends and we haven't done anything in awhile and we both still like guys I mean she has a bf and stuff. She is really important to me. But anyways what I am trying to say is if you like both guys and girls it's okay to go both ways. Just do whatever makes you happy. Good luck! hope everything turns out the way you want and I hope you find what you are looking for.
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