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feel neglected.............
i just hate when the boys make fun of me.i just want them to treat me like a girl.i always feel like im one of the boys and i just hate it.nobody care for me i always left out.i feel realy lonely to the maximum.other girl friends all get attention from the boys but nobody understand that i need to be cared to.i want to be loved to.its there anything wrong with my character?maybe im boyish but the way i dress up is lady like.perhaps im too friendly and outspoken.what to do???
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i know just how you feel i used to be that way and honestly i still sortof am. Just hang out with the girls more and say something to your friends and maybe they can put in a word. see im an only girl and older bro and a younger bro.sothey always have friends ove and unfortunately they are usually guys. so im used to it now. Just pick on them back and they may eventually leave you alone. that kinda worked for me. and maybe dress girlier. Hope i helped.
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Be yourself girl!!!!!!!!! If that means wearing boyshorts, big t-shirts, no makeup, baseball caps, Converse chucks, and skateboarding - GO FOR IT! There is a guy out there who is right for you and will love you for who you are. Most guys can see right through fake girls. Though some don't care...
I faced the same situation. I wasn't really a "girl" nor was I a "boy." I just didn't fit in. No one treated me like a girl - or how I think girls should be treated. I think that guys should help girls open doors, walk them to their cars / house, help them carry things that are heavy or when their arms are full, guys should ask our opinions and tell us how they really feel. But for almost fourteen full years, I opened my own doors (and opened doors for guys!), carried my own stuff, helped myself etc. I felt awful, left out, miserable, neglected. Until.... until I met my boyfriend and such. He acutally makes me feel like a girl! He opens doors, walks me to my car, tells me how he feels and asks my opinion. He compliments me on how I look, and provides great knowledge when I'm stumped (either on a life issue or struggling for the right words - even in school - though he might not know it...).
My best friend is a guy magnet. And good looking too. She's beautiful, smart, fun, caring and more. For a while, whenever I was around her, I felt lesser than her because I don't feel like I'm as "good" as her. She would tell me about her love life problems, and I could sometimes sorta help - not like I had experience or anything, but you know.
I know girls who are more than guy magnets - they are guy fishers. They literally put themselves out to get a boyfriend. I'm sorry, I find this incredibly shallow - to make yourself seem like someone you're not just for attention from a good-looking guy. Blah.
I'd rather be hated for who I am than loved for someone I'm not.
I don't go to the same church as my boyfriend, and whenever I'm at church, I feel very lonely and disregarded. I simply don't fit in. (There are many reasons, I won't go into that though) I don't have friends there, and they don't want to be my friend. When I see girls and guys flirting, or couples, I feel so ... depressed almost. It just kills me - and I'm sure you feel the same way.
Hey, you're lucky - at least only the boys make fun of you! Everyone makes fun of me!
Guys are, for the most part, immature. They're just more immature than girls are. Most of them will grow up - just slower than you and I do. There are a few exceptions of course. They'll grow up and see what a WONDERFUL girl you are - you'll have guys calling you every night!
There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with your character. You are unique. Wouldn't it be drab and boring if everyone looked alike, sounded alike, acted alike, liked the same things etc.? It would be terribly unexciting. I am a peculiar person, no doubt about that. But that makes me unique. You're very uniqe also!
I get made fun of because I have a more-than-slightly-morbid curiosity. Really! I love learning about the Salem witch trials (how they were killed, tortured and mistreated), the Holocoust, the Black Death and other plagues. No one else really has that odd love for slightly disgusting knowledge. I love learning about the war doctors - like during the Civil war, how the doctors would amputate limbs... that's so fascinating to me! And I get teased. It's not a big deal to me anymore.
As a girl, you naturally have a desire to be loved. More than most guys. I know... and it bites when no one cares for you.
Just keep your eyes open. Make a list of all the things you want in a guy. That way you'll not lower your standards and you'll know when the right guy comes along.
Oh, stand up for yourself girl! Don't LET those boys make fun of you! Laugh with them, then pull one on them. They'll get the idea - you mean business. And ask your chick-friends to cool it a bit. They don't have to flirt so openly with you right there, do they? Ew - take it somewhere else man! It'll all work out, you'll see.
-FunnyCide
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Well, I have friends that are like the same. Maybe you should try appoaching the guys differently. Maybe talk to them about what they look for in a girl. If some of the qualities involve things like being quiet or shy which I'm not sure if they will. Maybe change, but I wouldn't go changing myself right away, because it might not be worth getting some attention from guys. You might just want to start talking more to girls and try to become friends with them! ;) Good Luck
Love,
Molly
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well in my opinion just get out there and fix your problme get more girlfriends and if thta doesnt help ask them out yourself they probubly like you but are to afraid to aask you out or to go to the movies wit em ad a group of friends etc...
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