For the past week my hands have just been ice cold. My guess it is do to poor circulation. I work on a computer all day, so it is not like I am not moving them. Does anyone have any ideas what causes this, and what I can do about it? It is very uncomfortable.
i say buy one of them little space heaters and put it a little ways away from your hands... just so you have some heat moving across your fingers and hands... i think that should help at least that is what i do...
kev
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okay, the guy i really like just asked me out. yay. but the down side is hes punk. and im prep. i kno i kno it shouldnt matter. but if i go out with him i kno pplz are gonna look at me different, think im different and treat me different. i cant stand it. i really like this guy help me, should i or shouldnt i go out with him???
you shouldn't worry about it...becasue if people look at you differently especially your friends... that is just wrong... your friends should be there for you even if you are dating someone completely outside of the norm your friends should still have your back... and don't worry what other people say because you have a guy who likes you and friends who will stay by your side...so don't worry about it...but i would talk it over with your friends and tell them how you feel casue if they know your having doubts about them being there for you... it will make you guys even closer... so basically don't worry about either way and tell your friends what is goin through your mind
hope i helped
kev
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i use to be really good friends with this gurl. but we dont talk anymore. we both said some really bad things about eachother. she wrote a note to when we were friends saying that we would be friends forever no matter what. I feel like she wants to fix things with me but im not sure. Should i talk to her. If i do what should i say?
i would definatly talk with her... it never hurts... and NO MATTER THE CIRCUMSTANCE, APOLOGIZE, for what ever happened even if it was her fault... YOU STILL MUST APOLOGIZE..i mean if you apologize and tell how wrong and sorry you are she will probably ultimatly forgive you if you guys were really good friends... so ya i say call her up some night and just APOLOGIZE and don't stop apologizing...even if she complains that you did this and you did that...instead of trying to argue back... JUST APOLOGIZE...
i hope i pounded my point to you
good luck
kev
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Okay!Well since christmas is coming up I really want to get my best friend a really good gift for christmas. He is an amazing guy and we have been best friends for well over a year now. We have gotten really close and I have fallin in love with him. I dont want to just get him something cheap and ugly. I want to get him something that he will remember and really like.I have never really gotten a guy a gift for xmas. I honestly have no clue what to get him. I want him to really love his gift. What should I get him?
usually with us guys the simpler the better cause it doesn't matter what we get... it is more of like "it's the thought that counts" because i think 8th grade year i got m+m's from this girl i really liked... and it meant to much to me ( i am pretty easy to shop for LOL)find out what sort of things he is into... and go from there... a movie usually does th trick though...because that way the two of you can enjoy it together... or maybe like a t-shirt...a sweat shirt also does th trick...actually the sweat shirt is prob the safest bet becasue people like wearing sweatshirts(hooded ones)...but don't worry about it being ugly cause no matter how ugly the gift he will prob cherish it at least that is the way i am
hope i helped
kev
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MY BEST FRIEND has turned into a real jerk. Me and him loved each other and he just turned me away. He tried to kill himself and that really got me worked up and i guess i said a few things i sholdn't have but i miss him and he's sending me these e-mails that r insulting me and saying he's glas i'm out of his life. What should i do?
try to mend your problems and be forgiving no matter the costs... because he will find that he made a mistake and he will come back to you especially if you 2 were such good friends... just be supportive of him and try to get to the bottom of your argument because samething happened to me and i was the kid that was getting mad at my friend and no matter how mad i got she was still their after i ralized what i had done to her and now we are cooler than ever and we pretend like it never happened
kev
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people keep telling my crush that we ((him and i)) should go out! he use to talk to me so much and now i feel like we don't talk as much as we use to! he is giving me mixed signals! what should i do?
TALK TO HIM... it never hurts to take the first step especially if you like that person...and try to hang with him as much as possible
kev
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Okay, I recently had sex and the next day I forgot to take my birth control. (We didn't use a condom and i've been using it for about 4 months) the day after that I forgot and for about the next week after that I didnt take it. Is there a good chance that I could be pregnet??
-Scared :(
i am not to sure about that one... but i know they have new alternative to the pill ...they have some hormone that the doctor inject into you and it is like haveing birth control for like 1-2 months...i suggest you scope that out because if you foget often maybe it would be better to get an injection of horomones
kev
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Hey all, well, on Saturday, im gonna get my cartilage pierced! (Like at the upper ear, where actress Raven-Symone has it). And i was wondering, if all of all of you that have one could tell me about the pain, how 2 make it go good and keep my mind off of it, and healing processes?!?!?! Im getting it down with a gun if it helps any....
don't worry about it, it doesn't actually hurt all that bad... i mean getting anything peirced is gonna hurt...but i'm sure you can fight through it
kev
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What is "emo"? I've heard so many people talk about it. Thanks!
hell if i know i like AC-DC
kev
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ok so i like this guy at school soooo much and my friend says im in love and i like him soo much id do ANYTHING for this guy!! both of my friends say that he likes me by the way he looks at me sometimes and just because but i know he doesnt. i didnt ask him, but i can tell i dont know why he would like me anyways i want my friend to ask him who he likes and see if its actually me, but i KNOW he wont tell her bc he knows that shell tell me! and im not the type of person to ask him "ok whats the deal do you like me or not" or w/e and so i dont know how to get him to say if he likes me to my friend... i dont think he does but sometimes i have a hope that he does and i just love him!! he knows i like his best friend and my other friend says that hes supicious about me liking me... and that he knows theres something goin on.. so i just need to know how to find out if he likes me! and not lie to my friend! please help!
that got really confusing toward the end...but my only suggetion would be just start hangin with this guy... about all i can say
kevin
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Me and my friend are going to New York this weekend. Were both 15 and we both have boyfriends that are 17. Then last night my boyfriend called me and told me that he was going to new york with my friends boyfriend and their brothers, who are in our grade. Well my boyfriend came over this afternoon and he told me he loves me (not for the first time) but we're both virgins and he talked about having sex this weekend at the hotel. I'm still not totally sure I want to, I asked a question on this before, but this is different... if i have any doubts do you think i should go for it or not? cause this is my one and only chance to be with my boyfriend for the whole weekend in a hotel.. if anyone can help please do!
thank you!
i say NO... i say wait your only 15 there will be plently of other chances for this to happen... especially since your so young... but if you have doubts don't do it
kev
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ok so over thanksgiving break i hung out with one of my friends like every day. i basicly lived at her house. and we became really good friends. but my other friend got mad at me kas i didnt hang out with her at all. and shes like my best friend ever. but heres the thing. she was at her moms house which is an hour away from where i live. her dad lives down the street but she hates him. anyways, now shes really mad kas she thinks im replacing her with my other friend. what should i do?
invite the two of them to hang out together with you....it almost always works and now you have 2 really good friends
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My brother is gay and a lot of people will always mention about it. They make fun of me because he's gay.. They keeps sayin Ohhh Your brothers GaY!!! and sometime's it doesn't bother me.. but other times it does. Surprisingly, most people are cool with it and say he's the coolest person they ever met.. what should i do!?
dont listen to the people that hate on your brother....because the people that aren't willing to allow your brother be himself they should check their own lives....BUT DONT let it get to you cause they aren't your friends and you don't care what they say...and i would prob tell them to F*** off cause no ones family is perfect
kev
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My husband and I were talking the other day and he said that if he died he would not want a funeral. I was shocked. Of course he should have a funeral, it's a great way for family and friends to say goodbye. I feel it is more for the family of the deceased anyway. He disagrees, and is shocked that I would not respect his wishes. Who is right here? And if he did die, what are we as a family suppose to do? I would like the love and support of my faamily.
you don't nesicarily(i think i spelled it wrong)need a funeral for everyone to go and morn nis passing...my uncle when he died had a funeral service at the funeral home that was only like 15 minutes long... and after that we took him to the graveyard and burried him...i think he is just worried about money... and a funeral servive is plenty good enough because it allows family amd friends to gather and morn together
kev
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For some reason this is long, I don't know why, but it's longer than it needs to be. I know this isn't totally asking for advice, but I'm 14/f/nc, and this year our cul-de-sac's Christmas party is going to include of a secret santa. My neighbors dad is playing santa, and each one of the children (everyone under 18) had to draw names out of a hat to choose who they'll be buying their gifts for. Well, I got my little neighbor, she's 4, and I was wondering, what types of things would a 4 year old want. I am babysitting for her on the 4th and 5th, so I'll probably ask her, but I'm grounded this weekend for cutting class, and me and some friends are going to the mall on Friday(tomorrow, I only get grounded on weekends, not on weekdays) So that's the only time I'll have to go, otherwise I'll have to wait until we go grocery shopping, because I'm grounded for the next two weekends for cutting class (not going to my 4th period, I got caught the last 5 minutes of school... so close yet so far away...) Any suggestions will be appreciated... and if you want to leave rude advice, make it funny!
umm i think some of those little puzzles would be a safe bet...or maybe some sort of platic barbie braclets coloring set also might work
kev
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i've been together with this guy for about 4 months. every time he comes over, he's looking to get some ((if you know what i'm sayin')).. if and when i do something, he goes off and flirts with another girl in front of me the next day. a month ago, me and this guy got into a fight, and he wanted to go and be with a girl i really don't like.. and he ended up staying with me. last night, we got into another fight. and he said he was close to leaving me, and the only reason he didn't leave me is because the other girl didn't want to. and my friend told me the girl likes him now, and they were flirting and stuff during lunch today, and he acts like nothings wrong. i'm afraid to talk to him because i'm afraid hes going to hurt me..! (he likes to threaten people) please help me! i don't know what to do/say to him.
if you are afraid of telling someone your feelings in fear of getting abused... that is definataly something you dont want to get involved in...no matter what...i say take the initiative and break it off because if all he hang with you for is to "get some" and the two are you constantly fight and you know he is flirting with other people... i say FORGET HIM... break it off because your consequesnce will be much less if you end it now until you get to emotionally attached
kev
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okay so i always fall for the "bad boys" but this time i like one of my old best friends, but the problem is he is a jerk, unreliable, and a stoner..... and like i dont know what to do, because we dont talk all that much anymore b/c he has a different group of friends than i do.. he liked me all of last year but i always said no when he asked me out because i didnt agree with him about the whole drug thing, and now i've realised that i liked him the whole time and still do and hes found another girlfriend and im just like.... sad. iono. should i tell him how i feel or not? i dont want to ruin his relationship.. sorry if thats kind of long
if you don't agree with what he does... you shouldn't be second-guessing your self... sure you may "think" you like him but if he does drugs and things that you are uncomfortable with... it isn't even worth getting yourslef tangled up with
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There's this guy "Ethan" and i liked him alot over the summer, but then at school it got around to me that he didn't like me anymore and so i thought okay ill just not seem interested bc guys usually come back to what they now know they can't have. Well that's when he started coming back around and wanting to talk and everything and i of course got excited. Then once we started talking again it wasnt much but it was something. i guess i just wanted it to go back to how it was over the summer. so i suppose i got in the habit of ignoring him going back to the belief that he'd show me more attention but now he's not noticing me much anymore either. What can i do to get him back to talk/notice/like me?
i would start talking to him.... "the phone rings both ways" (sounds konry i know) but seriously one of you is going to have to take the first step toward meding your relationship... and if you like him as much as it sounds like you like him... my only advice would be to start talking again...and this time around don't play hard to get cause we guys get confused about all that stuff... and it would make your life a lot easier knowing that you took the inititave
thpsmasta2k
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there's this guy in my school who seems to dislike me . maybe i'm just being sensitive , but sometimes he repeats what i say in a funny/mocking way .he teases everyone , but i have this feeling he doesn't like me . maybe i'm too sensitive , cuz i don't like it when people tease me or make fun of me . how should i respond to such things ? ( ps : i don't know him that well )
ya don't let it get to you...because if you don't really know him... what should you care how he acts if he is that insecure about himself that he must resort to making you feel bad he prob is just covering up...JUST DON't LET IT GET TO YOU...because as i said before he is a nothing to you and you don't need him to be happy with your self
thpsmasta2k
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I feel lately that I am a fake Christian. I say I believe in Jesus, God, etc., but I just am not very knowledgable about Christianity on the whole. All I know is, when I'm talking to God, or the few times I go to church, I am very happy, because I do know that God and Jesus love me. And my family - they all believe and everything, we're just not the most religious people, I guess. But I realize that we need to truly accept Jesus into our hearts in order to enter Heaven, and I don't even feel truly like I've done that yet. I've never brought it up with my family, but I really want all of us to get to know God and Jesus so that I can expect to meet them in Heaven, because this is kind of a priority. But how do I do this without basically saying, "Okay, here we go, we are going to believe in this whether you like it or not"? I know that sometimes people get kind of offended because they think I force my ideas about religion upon them... Sorry for the long question - I rate!
you know i have the same problem that you do... and my only suggestion is...God is always gonna be there for you and that will never change... sure you may be quesitoning your faith right now... but after your life settles down and you start having a family your views will change and you will find it very important to go to church... and that is what is important...i hardly ever go to church and i feel bad about it but i am just so busy... but the important thing is that i still believe in God and know that no matter how little i go to church God will always love me because i am one of his children... so my advice would be to try to get to church as often as you can... and that will be good for now... because in several years your priorities will change and you will start thinking that church is important to life...but right now just don't loose your faith because that is one of the worst things to do for your christian beliefs
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