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so I like this guy a little bit but we havent gotten to the point of kissing or hugging or anything really just hangin out. but he spends money on me and stuff and its pretty obvious that he likes me a little to..
sense he spends money on me so much id like to do something nice for him but i dont have money...
What can i do for him?
Whoa! That's kind of hard. But what you need to realize is that it really is the thought that counts. No fa real. The though does count! If you get him something cheap that's his style the he will like, it'll be enough. Think 99cent stores!
I'm an 18 year old female. I lost my boyfriend, to be honest my fiance, last summer. It's been long enough that I know I should be able to accept that he's gone but I still wake up with an empty feeling in the pit of my stomach. I just need some help, maybe another perspective on how to deal with this.
Well I'm not gonna front and say I know what you're going through, cuz I don't. I've nvr even had a fiance. I do understand your felling of loss and not being able to get over it. Well I mean you shouldn't try and act like you don't love him or anything cuz you sitll might and that's a lot of stress right thee but you need to be happy about what you do still have and basically, all you need to be upset about is all the possible oppritunities that may have passed you by while you were moping around!
where can i get some cute clogs that look like the ones that are sold at american eagle
ps. they dont sell any at ae anymore
go to http://www.birkenstockcentral.com. they sell them in all diffrent styles,colors,sizes shapes, whatever!!!
How can you make an icon from a video clip?
I have GIMP but I can't figure out how to do it.
Thanks.
this anwser is really really indepth so you need to email me if you want a download of the program i use which makes it really simple and the directions. my email is on my advice column.
Hi, I am 15 and I will be 16 in March. My ex boyfriend broke up with me cause his parents were afraid he would get introuble with the law cause he is 19. We weren't doing anything sexual, is it still illegal to even date? I live in Michigan and I know the age for sex here is 16, but what about just dating?
Now he wants to wait till he moves out at the end of March or later to go back out. Cause he HAD to leave me or get kicked out of his house. Should I wait for him.. or move on? I really love him.. and he doesn't even know if we will ever get back together. I'm confused and heartbroken, any advice?
wait for him! then if after like 2 weeks of him being oin his own, if ur not back toghether, then move on!
there is this girl that i realy like
(she is in 8th grade and i am in 7th)
the only problem is that our parents are going out... what should i do?
you can't date someone who could end up being your step-sister! if you tell her how you feel, since she is a matur 8th grade girl, she will probly tell you that that would be odd and probably tell her mom, causing you more embarresment.
So I like this guy named Joey. He is really sweet. And I love him to death.
Yesterday, he finally asked me out. And then I heard from my friend Therese that my other friend Mario [who was with me when Joey asked me out] likes me a lot, more than friends should like eachother. And now, Mario told me that Joey thinks that I made out with Mario [which I didn't]. And Mario is trying to do almost everything for me and Joey to break up since he likes me.
What should I do?
Please help!
Steph
Well i would just try to avoid Mario.
Alright so Im kinda skinny and people tell me alot that if I put on some weight id be alot prettier.
so my question is. what is a healthy way i can put on some weight. I want some junk in my trunk and some nice legs and all of that. Bigger breasts and all
when i used to gain weight is was minly because i was eating 2 brownies a day!
i really like this boy who is in my grade (i am 14/f) he flirts with me a whole lot and i flirt back. we hang out a lot because we go to a really small school and the same church. our parents are close, too. he has been in a lot of long-term relationships and i am looking for one because i haven't dated in about a year. we liked eachother a while back but never got together. our parents have the same rule about not calling and going out and stuff like that. i really want him to make the first move, but i haven't had great luck with boys before. (only 1 boyfriend, a year ago exactly) this boy is really sweet and my friends say we would be the "cutest couple ever" but i doubt we would be. i mean, we would be cute together but not the cutest ever. should i take the initiative to ask him out or just flirt a whole lot and hope he makes the first move? and any advice to help me get his attention (but not the wrong kind of attention just for him to see me as girlfriend material) would be helpful too! i am a huge tom-boy if that helps any! thanks in advance! i'll rate!
well don't change up ur self becuase he obviously likes you just fine otherwise he wouldn't be doing all that flirting, right? and then i think you should take the inititave and ask him out. or over for dinner or something like that so that way it seems casual.
okay... I just got the part of Jasmine in the school musical(Aladdin, duh!) but I am scared because my dad is threatening to pull me out. I have a lot of stress already, but he said that if I forgett to do one chore or my grades drop one little bit that he is going to take me out. I don't want to be taken out, this play is like my life. But I don't know how to remember everything for the next 3 1/2 months. I am a horible rememberer, so I am like scared to death, and soooo stressed to boot. My friends told me today that I am losing myself and becoming a self centered brat, and my boyfriend reminds me too much like my dad, and I miss my dad! (he died when I was 10) and it just seems like everything is going wrong for me right now! so....can you help me?
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Well you are uder alkot of stress. first of all tell your friends that you are not self-centered. you just have alot of stress right now and that they should be able to understand hat since they are your friends and that you've nvr acted this way before so it must be the stress. then make a list of the chores you have to do. and do them! then do your home work. when ur at school worry about school. when your with your boyfriend remind him that he's your boyfriend and not your father.
17/f
My boyfriend's favorite animal is a cow, and we have inside jokes about it. I was thinking of getting him a stuffed cow and chocolates for Valentines Day. But I was wondering, do guys like getting stuffed animals from girls? I mean he's kind of like a "man's man." And I've been dating him for 5 months, so do you think chocolates and a stuffed cow would be enough? Or should I get him more? Or maybe make him dinner along with the stuffed cow and chocolates? Or would that be too much? Help!
here's what i would get him, i'd get the chocolate, and some boxers. and dinner if yo want(even though he should be taking care of dinner) and make one of your friends find out if he's getting you anything
16 f. sophmore likes sophmore guy as well. never had a conversation with him. hell i doubt he knows i exist. but i still want to approach him.
1) He is scene or w/e and is quiet. he seems almost depressed. he just sits there at lunch with a friend or two and does nothing(though he is kind of popular) hes medium height. super skinny. pretty smile :]
2) i dont dress scene or goth or punk or ghetto or preppy so ive no clue wtf i am. im very shy. not too quiet but a lil quiet. short. im a lil chubby and i have a pretty face(like that matters all that matters are a hot body)
when i approach him what should i say?? could we ever be compatible? should i just give up all together? and how can i get him to notice me?
Sorry its long i rate 5's, thanx.
OMG! Ok i was in the same situation. the guy was kind of punkish,gothic,gloomy right? Now I'm not dating him now or anything but we are cool and the only reason we're cool is because i'm friends with one of his friends and a whole bunch of our friends went to the movies and she invited the boy i liked. so now we are friends and if he wasn't taken i would definitely be on him!the moral if the story is have him come with you and a group of friends to hang out somewhere so that it will be casual~
I technically can't "date" until I turn 16. I've had boyfriends before but not ones you actually go on single dates with and things like that. My parents are okay with that kind of thing, but what if a guy actually asks me out? What should I do then? Thanks!
I'm 15 and not allowed to date either. What I would do is lie. But since you're a good girl we can take a diffrent approach:D. 1. You could say 'mom,dad, can I date?' or you could ask them if you can go to the movies with a guy friend. and sya it's not a date. techinically it won't be because guys nvr say that it's a date.
I am a girl and was wondering if any other girls have the same thing that I have. Well this is going to sound really gross, but here goes. I have hair growing inside of my butt cheeks, right near my anus. It's not just fine hair either, it's dark and course, like the same type of hair that I have growing on my vagina. I goes all the way up my butt cheeks. It's so embarrassing! I also have dark hairs growing on my breasts, right around my nipples. My question is: is this normal? And if it's not, what can I do to get rid of it? It's too hard to shave down there. I would appreciate any advice!!
Everyne had hair inside there ass cheeks, on there ass cheeks everyweere on their bodies!EVERYWHERE!!!It's normal.
i got dumped for the first time last week. me and my bf had been going out for 4 months. it's been about a week since we broke up, and we have the same friends and free block at school. we end up hanging out and it's driving me crazy. he's loud and funny, always the center of attention. he's flirting with all these girls (who are my friends), and it just, well, hurts. i'm over him (this might sound mean but,) i hate seeing him happier without me than he was with me. prom is coming up and there's this guy, blake, who likes me, but i dont like him. and the guy i do like, carlos, is on a "break" with my friend, ana. what should i do to stop feeling so angry at my ex? and to find a prom date? should i go with the guy i dont really like, just as friends?
i would go with the guy i didn't like as long as he looked better and eveyone liked him better
I have a problem where i eat WAY TOO much! but i hate the way I feel afterwards and last spring I stopped eating completely and I loved the way I felt and looked but when i went to camp i just started eating again.... All I can ever think about is food! I'm not fat! (I was actually voted hottest younger sister by my older sister's guy friends!!!) But I'm just uncomfortable with the way I look. I'm on the shorter side with huge boobs that make me look thinner then i am but still... I want to feel thin! HELP ME!!!!
Ya . I know how you feel!i think the quickest way to lose weight is to fast. You drop about a pound a day. BTW,are you pro-ana?
i found this guy from a couple towns over through myspace. we met today and totally hit it off! we like each other a LOT . but he lives 1/2 hour away..making it hard to see each other. i think i have to tell my parents..so maybe they can drive me out there sometimes..but how do i word it? i always kept my love life private from them..i never had the need to tell..im afraid of their reaction. help please?
16f
First of all let me just say that a couple of people have been murdered by guys they've met on Myspace. just go to google and type in 'girl murdered MySpace'.(without quotes) Then you'll see what could happen. Anyway i wouldn't tell my parents i met him on MySpace. I would justsay that I met this guy bu he liuves far and could he come over here or could you drop me off over there!
what you would do if somebody you dont know, says she is 14 and sent you and email found out your full name?
I don't think you should worry about it. Do you know how many millions of people have the same name as you?
ALright well im a girl and im 15 and im about 5'4" and i weigh 90 pounds. i dont have an eating problem or disorder. do i seem underweight? thanks
yes you are underweight but I think that as long as you are happy with your body you shouldn't change it. I don't think that docters or family or friends have any right to tell us what's too big or too small or how much is too much weight or too less. Even at your 94 pounds, if you want to be thinner then diet, if you wanna be thicker then eat a little more. But don't change it up for anyone else except urself.
Hey everyone. Just a heads up, this might be somewhat long! Ok, well me and my ex-boyfriend (first love) started going out on 10/12/04. Well, on 8/11/05 he broke up with me. Didn't give me reasons, out of the blue, and i said w/e and went on with my life. I had feeligns for him still and we stopeed talking. He went out with this girl named Linden, i got mad and went with a boy named Tyler, and both couples broke up in about a month. Well, near the end of October, me and my ex-boyfriend started getting cool again and we became more of friends with benefits. Suddenly, my 1st friend decided to stab me in the back and go and flirt with him and make out with him in my face, so me and my ex stopped talking again. Well, then we started talking again around the end of December and go real good again, friends with benefits and all that stuff, then a second friend did the same thing pretty much the first one did. Now shes telling me, he never liked me, he wants to get with her, and we broke upa while ago so get over him, and yea... so now i dont talk 2 her and my ex is mad at me for not talking to her. Well, i guess my question is, what should i say to him or how should i handle this situation? it really is none of his business, but i still have strong feelings for him. The second question i have is that I get mad when he flirts with other girls, and he gets mad at me when i flirt with other guys. So, that means he still has feelings for me to right?!? Some of this may be obvious to you, but my ex doesnt like to share feelings, thats why i am not sure. thanks a lot, 1 for answering, and 2 for reading it all!!!
The way I see it,neither of them are your friends. Your boyfriend is a jerk and ur friend is a ...not really ur friend. he probably broke up with you to leave her but neither of them wnated to seem like backstabbers. at this point they're basically saying 'fuck her, we wanna be with each other. fuck her feelings" that's basically what they're saying. So i think you should just loose their numbers and forget about them before they hurt you again.