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Opposites attract??
16 f. sophmore likes sophmore guy as well. never had a conversation with him. hell i doubt he knows i exist. but i still want to approach him.
1) He is scene or w/e and is quiet. he seems almost depressed. he just sits there at lunch with a friend or two and does nothing(though he is kind of popular) hes medium height. super skinny. pretty smile :]
2) i dont dress scene or goth or punk or ghetto or preppy so ive no clue wtf i am. im very shy. not too quiet but a lil quiet. short. im a lil chubby and i have a pretty face(like that matters all that matters are a hot body)
when i approach him what should i say?? could we ever be compatible? should i just give up all together? and how can i get him to notice me?
Sorry its long i rate 5's, thanx.
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Just walk up to him & say hi. Compliment him. It's not so hard. And continue it from there.
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OMG! Ok i was in the same situation. the guy was kind of punkish,gothic,gloomy right? Now I'm not dating him now or anything but we are cool and the only reason we're cool is because i'm friends with one of his friends and a whole bunch of our friends went to the movies and she invited the boy i liked. so now we are friends and if he wasn't taken i would definitely be on him!the moral if the story is have him come with you and a group of friends to hang out somewhere so that it will be casual~
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maybe you might know a friend or someone who talks to him on a regular basis. you should tell them to bring you up in a convo. nothing like she likes you or whatever but something like my friend, yourname, blah blah. something intersting about you. or you can i/m him online. its wicked easier than in person. or even if both of you have a myspace you could comment/message him and say hey i've seen you around school. i have gotten closer with tons of kids from schoool just through myspace. well good luck. :)
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I know this sounds kinda lame, and everyone tells you to be yourself (which i completely support) but if you feel like he doesnt even notice your existance, i would do a little research on him.. find out his likes and dislikes. Say hi in the hallways, just so he knows your face. Try to overhear him talking or anything.. talk to him online- its easier than in person... and express his same likes and dislikes.. it sounds lame but it starts a conversation usually. JUst make sure you give it time, don't talk to him too much, etc.. hope i helped girl
peace
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this is all totally normal. all you gotta do is make the first move. i know it is hard, but you gotta try. just go up to him and be like hey..whats up. say it really casually and friendly. seem interested.
good luck!!
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