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I'm 17, F. I had a crush on this guy for a few years. A couple of weeks ago I found out he was dating someone else. That news hit me hard, and I haven't bounced back yet.
This guy was on my mind almost every day for a couple of years. I am really shy, and way too scared to start conversation, but as I got to know him a bit better, I learned how to set up situations that would ensure HE would start the conversation. I purposefully walked down hallways I knew he would be in, because I always had his schedule memorized. Now, even though I want to get over my crush, I find myself walking down the same hallways that I know I will see him in.
I don't know how to get over this crush. People have told me to avoid seeing him, and I tried that as best as I could, but my school is so small that I see him all the time anyways, and I seem to subconsciously still gravitate towards him.
Seeing him, especially with his girlfriend, still hits me hard every time. Often enough, it still makes me feel like crying(which is really inconvenient when I am walking through the halls at school).
How do I stop being so upset? How do I get over this crush? I want to not want him anymore.... (link)
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I totally know how you feel. My crush/friend (or at least I used to have a crush on him) has a girlfriend, and every time I hear him talk about her a little piece inside of me breaks. I don't really remember how or why I got over him, I guess it just happened. Try doing something that will get your mind off of him like a sport, or an activity that you enjoy doing, or even hanging out with your friends. If you're a big music person like I am, try listening to songs that will empower you. Just enjoy the single life tbh! Not everyone sees it, but the single life is waay better!! A motto I sort of live by is "Everything happens for a reason" Maybe someday you'll find someone so much better for you. :) Keep you head up! Life's too short to be worrying about a guy that is a waste of your time
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Alright, I'm in my 20's and I'm having an extremely hard time meeting guys. Everytime I meet a guy I have an interest in, they shove me away and will never give me a chance, plus they turn out to be complete jerks. It's rather frustrating. On the other hand when guys approach me they end up stalking me on social media or harass me non-stop up to the point where I am completely suffocated. This may sound whiny, but SERIOUSLY what's going on? I meet jerk after jerk or extremely desperate ones. I'm extremely casual around guys because of all the nonsense I've dealt with. How does everyone meet guys? I've tried some sites and have gone out but don't seem to be meeting healthy men. Advice. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Where do you meet a caliber kind of guy? Thanks in advance.
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Usually online dating sites can be a little sketchy, and you do have to be careful of who you're meeting up with. Love isn't something that will happen whenever you want it to happen, it's a very unpredictable thing. I suggest actually going out to bars, clubs, parks, anywhere social and actually meeting people. I know it sounds weird, and you're probably thinking it' 2016, like online dating is what people do now! But honestly we're so consumed by our technology we're not actually meeting real people face to face. I would rather meet the guy of my dreams at a park, cafe etc rather than on some sketchy online dating site.
Anyways I hope this helps you!
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Hi, how do you know if your good friend likes you or interested in you but also he's flirty and teasing frequently however can be moody as well. I reckon he likes me but then he does this harmless jokes with others too so it's hard to know whether he's flirting or joking. All answers are appreciated. Thank you all. (link)
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So I've actually been reading articles about this topic, and I found out that there is no such thing as a guy and a girl being "just friends." Usually guys only want to be friends with girls, because they like the girl. Now I'm saying this is true to all girl, guy friendships, since I have a guy friend who's currently dating another girl. I'm just reflecting on what I've read in psychology articles. It could just be how he is. A lot of the time guys will "flirt" unintentionally/without knowing. As for the joking around it could be how he acts. I'm not trying to say he doesn't like you, because there could be a chance that he does. Just keep observing his actions. Look for any sudden stuttering, or nervousness whenever he's around you. Try to look at his pupils, if his pupils dilate whenever he's around you that is a sign that he could have a crush on you. Also check his body language, is he touchy? (in an appropriate way of course!). There are so many other signs, but these are only a few that I can think of right now.
Anyways I really do hope this helped!
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Hi my name is Nick and there's a girl that i like in the grade below me at school (were already good friends). I'm 14 and in 8th grade, and she is 13 and in the 7th grade (age difference doesn't matter to me considering my parents are 6 years apart from each other). I'm planning on actual asking her out in high school but my problem is not that she's in a grade below me, but that she has a LOT of guy friends. She has more guy friends than girl friends! So that means it is almost impossible for me to tell what she feels or thinks of me. She does like to mess with me like occasionally grabbing my things and making me chase her for it or occasionally poking my shoulder, you know to mess with me. So if you have any advice on how to take care of the guy friends problem and even on how to make her interested I would appreciate very much. Thanks! (link)
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Does it matter if she has a lot of friends that are guys? I mean I have a lot of friends that are guys too, it doesn't change how I feel about the person I like. Just because a girl is a girl does not mean she is required to hang out with just girls.
The best thing to do is to just tell her how you feel or ask her out to a school dance, or to hang out!
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Hello everyone. My name is Robert and I am 16 years old. We've just moved from Europe to California and it is difficult for me. My English isn't as good as another but it is quite ok. The biggest problem is crying. Eg. I was at school and we written test and I had bad score and next lessons we had next test and I didn't understand well and I was crying all lesson. Next example: I was at home and my Dad told me that I am not good in school and I should be better in Football after this one I had training and my couch shouted of me but not only at me he shouted about all members but nobody was crying only me. I fell very bed this month I don't understand what is happend with me. Once a day I've gone to the kitchen and I took knife and wanted to cut to my hand bu I didn't do this but I wanted. And all problem is my Friend Frederic he is lovely boy and I thing that I am fall in love I always thing about him and He miss me when I am not at school and I always see his pics on FB. I would like hug him and kiss but I know that isn't possible. I hate myself. :( (link)
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It's not my place to determine if you're gay or not, but it is okay to be confused about your sexuality. As for the sensitivity, I don't really know how to answer that. It could just be you're really overwhelmed because you're trying to meet your standards and everyone else's. Also, I know that the "teen years" can be an awkward phase for everyone, so it could just be a "phase."
I'm not sure if I helped in anyway, but I do hope I did!
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My dream job is to be a "senior sitter," where I just sit with someone's elder when they can't.
I want to volunteer and donate all the time, like at animal shelters, hospitals, soup kitchens, etc.
I want to donate blood, clothes and food.
I want to start now, but I don't have my license. With the depression and anxiety I have, I don't have the motivation to study. Can anyone help, please?
This is literally all I want to do with my life. Please help. (link)
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The perfect step to take is to start volunteering at places that are close to you! There may be age requirements for the location you want to volunteer at (I'm not totally sure about that. I might be wrong. I do know that at the ASPCA where I live at you can only volunteer if you're a certain age or above. I'm not sure about other places where you can volunteer). From my experience, I was going through anxiety and I had social problems. My parents made me volunteer to "clear my mind." At first, I thought it was stupid and I had a closed mind about it, but, later on, it really helped me loosen up to people, my anxiety wasn't as bad. I really recommend volunteering because not only is it good for your community, but it also feels really good to know that you contributed to making the world/things better for the needy.
I hope this helps, and I really do hope you start soon!
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If a guy has cancer and you swallow his cum do you get cancer ?
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Cancer is not contagious
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I don't really think of myself as a tomboy per se. I like getting dressed up in nice dresses with my hair done. I like girly clothes, chick flicks, and I absolutely love getting pedicures and massages.
But there are some things about me that are quite tomboyish. While I may like wearing dresses and other girly clothes, I mostly wear jeans and t-shirts. I don't like capri pants or shorts (especially short shorts) because I'm embarrassed of my legs. They're disproportionately skinny and badly scared from surgery and cutting myself shaving a LOT. I wear blingy jeans, but they're kind of baggy because tight jeans would show how skinny my legs are. I mainly wear t-shirts and sweatshirts because I find them more comfortable. Cute, girly tops are cute, but they frequently don't have sleeves or their collars come down further than other shirts. That feels strange to me. I'm very cold natured and get cold in those clothes easily. When I wear dresses, I have to wear flats or wedges because heels hurt my feet and I'm extremely clumsy in them. I do like flip flops and Uggs, but often wear basketball shoes as well. I have mixed feelings about makeup. I like looking nice when I wear it, but I have a problem with dry eyes and hate that I can't rub my eyes when I wear makeup.
Aside from the way I dress, there are other things. When I was little, I liked Barbies and stuffed animals, but I also liked toy trucks, hot wheels, k'nex, legos, and video games. When my family would go though the drive thru at McDonald's and my parents would order me a happy meal, the person taking the order would ask if we needed a boy toy or a girl toy as the prize and they'd always order a boy toy because they knew that's what I'd prefer. I got a BB gun when I was ten and loved it. I got a pellet gun, a 22, and a .410 shotgun all within a year of the BB gun and loved them all. I could spend hours target shooting and not get bored.
Finally, my career choice is rather tomboyish. I'm currently training to be a storm chaser (probably more of a storm spotter actually). I've always wanted a career that would allow me to help people and storm chaser (or spotter) seems to be the best fit. I've always been deeply fascinated by the weather, particularly tornadoes, and when I'm that interested in something, I want to learn as much about it as possible. I feel like I could be a very well educated and well trained storm chaser or spotter and could do a good job of tracking severe weather conditions, warning people of them, and studying them to find ways of creating more advanced severe weather alert systems. I'd be a dream come true, but it's kind of a tomboyish career.
Thing is, I've never really minded being a tomboy. I've always just been me, and no one else has really ever had a problem with it either. My parents, the rest of my family, and my friends have all always accepted it. But there's just one tiny problem that comes with being one. Not to be offensive, but it's no secret that when a person of one gender displays characteristics of the other gender, their sexual orientation becomes a matter of dispute. I don't have anything against lesbians, but when you're not one and are in fact a single woman searching for a husband, it can be problem. A problem that i don't know how to fix. It's not like i can go around saying, "I'm not a lesbian." but i also can't get a husband if every guy thinks I'm not into guys. The simple solution seems to be to simply be girlier, but i keep hearing, "just be yourself. Don't pretend to be something you're not for a guy." Am i worrying too much? (link)
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You remind me so much of myself! I like dressing up and all, but I don't do it as much/every day. I mostly wear T-shirts, and sweats, since I'm constantly going in and out of the pool so I find it really easy to wear stuff like that and I have man shoulders so cute shirts don't really fit my shoulders :( I too, am a little cautious about wearing shorts, skirts, and sometimes dresses because I have super muscular legs from swimming. You don't have to change yourself for guys, or for anyone really. I would never change who I am for guys. Whenever I walk down the halls all the guys are talking about how muscular I am from swimming and working out and it does make me feel uncomfortable, and degraded because they're always saying "who would date her?" There had been times where I wanted to actually stop swimming just to please people than I thought to myself why would I stop doing something I really love just to please people that don't even care about me?! Sooner or later you're going to find someone that will appreciate you for you.
I hope this helps!
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Ok.yes there is a co worker that every time i see or speak to her my heart explodes.we see other a couple times a week. A d we always have connection type feeling and talk about anything .we are both married. And the other day she said that i was trouble with a smile .and that i dont bother her by coming by and talking to her. Do ask her out for coffee or ... (link)
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I really agree with the other guy! Your partner does not need this kind of bull in their life. You need to respect yourself, and this woman's life. Like seriously are you really that bored? because right now all I "hear" is you talking out of your butt in la, la land. You don't ask her out for coffee! You ask your wife out for coffee!
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so i have 2 friends, A, and B. A and I are closer and but B still counts as our best friend. so the thing is whenever we 3 are together, A kept on trying to be in the middle and keeps talking to B as if she wants B only to herself, so i feel kind of isolated. besides, i dont want B to feel closer to A than me, because it is not fair, it would be better if we like each other fairly.
A talks to B about their common interests for example a famous youtuber called pewdiepie. B liked him for so long, but A just recently liked him and i know before she doesnt even watch his videos. one morning we were walking to school and A in the middle as usual, was talking about how she likes pewdiepie's videos and B agreeing, and I was like hey A i didnt know u like pewdiepie? and she replied omg i liked him for so long already and i was like okay...
but i know its just a recent and vague interest because i taught her about famous youtubers and without me, A will still be the lame nerd that she used to be and read books in her free time.
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First of all, I don't think you'd be a very good friend if you're going to talk behind A's back like that. Second of all, if you're going to be jealous of your friend and act as if you're so much better than her, then find different friends. I did not like how you called YOUR BEST FRIEND a lame nerd who reads books. If that's how you treat your so-called best friend than you better start finding new friends because that's just messed up! Honestly, you just seem really cocky. If you really want to you need to sit down and talk to the two of them. Don't be rude about it, but sort things out and explain to them how it makes you feel, because they're not you, they aren't supposed to know how you feel if you don't tell them. When you're explaining yourself don't make yourself become the victim because no one in this situation is a victim, it's just a little misconception. I hope this helps!
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Hey I'm a 17 year old boy from England,and I have this issue where anytime something goes wrong with a girl I like I get seriously down in the dumps for days,maybe weeks in certain cases such as when my ex got with one of my best friends at the time. Another example would be that same guy trying to talk to a girl he knows I like last night in order to get to me. My confidence completely revolves around girls and how my love life is. It's stupid but I just can't help it,and when something goes wrong with a girl I just enter this depressed phase where I think I'll never really find a girlfriend,and I just feel lonely and can't concentrate on anything else,because I'm constantly thinking about whatever went wrong.
I'm not sure if I can explain it well,because I don't really understand why it happens myself. I don't really know what advice is out there either but if anyone has some I'd really appreciate it,thanks (link)
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Love is a very complicated thing, but it's something that'll come naturally, or when the "time comes" (when you meet the right person). No need to rush things. It just takes some time to find the right person to be in your life. It takes time, but you'll eventually find someone you love, and will love you back for who you are. Don't try to change yourself for girls. If she wants you to change the way you look or act just so she'll be with you then screw her, find someone that'll appreciate you for you. I'm not really sure if this is the advice you're looking for, but it's really all I can tell you right now. I hope it helps!
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My boyfriend and I have been together for about nine months now. He is a smoker and I have expressed my dislike for it very much and how I just want to keep him around for as long as possible as I have experienced quite a few of my family members passing away due to smoking and he agrees, he said he wants to stop and I would be the perfect motivation to do so. He has since joined the gym, he says working out makes his desire to smoke very minuscule and I am so proud of him for that.
We were watching a movie the other night when he brought up the idea of me joining the gym with him. He has expressed numerous times that he does not think I am unfit or overweight, he just thinks that since he is quitting smoking for me, the least I could do is go to the gym with him. I don't think it is a bad idea at all but I am thinking about whether it would be weird or not. He and I are close but I have not a single clue about anything gym related and he's been doing this for a while so I don't want to look incompetent to him or anything or get out of breath doing things while he is just motoring along.
I do jog (definitely not run) and he does too so he brought up us doing that together as well but I think I have the same issue, that i am not as fit as he is. For instance, when I jog, if I get tired, I walk until I'm not tired anymore....I went for a jog the other day and texted him when I got back home to come over and hang out. When he did come over, he told me the entire hour he was out, he ran the entire time, two miles around the local high school track and then back home... I just don't think I would be able to keep up and I'm nervous that he would see that and not so much think differently of me but change his perception of my fitness or physical abilities, I guess.
Anyway, I want to do this with him - it would be better for me to get healthier and work on my willpower to actually go and work out every night with him and I think it would bring us closer together (my brother and his girlfriend work out together and they love it and says that's what keep them as close and as strong as they are that they experience that hour workout together everyday). I just want to know how I can get over this nervousness of not being able to live up to his standards or look unfit to him.
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Honestly working out is all building up to the top, and reaching a goal. When you start the gym you do not have to start with the equipment or anything you think is difficult and you do not need to push yourself past a limit to impress people at the gym. You work at your own rate. For me, I actually started with going to the gym just to do a few stretches and I also went on the treadmill for a little bit. Little by little I started "experimenting" with the different equipment and even tried lifting a few pounds. Now I'm pretty much a gym rat and spend all my time in the gym mostly lifting (I'm only a high schooler btw. I'm trying to say that it's not too late to start). If you need help with a certain equipment or workout then don't be afraid to ask. You don't have to be muscular or super fit to start going to the gym because everyone has to start somewhere. No one starts off by being perfect! No one's going to judge you in the gym. Before you go to the gym start by compiling a mental list of everything you're going to do in the gym, it makes the process much faster. When I started I did lunges, burpees, wall squats, regular squats, suicide runs, Russian twists, supermans, V-up, mountain climbers etc. You can also look up simple exercises to do in the gym. And then whenever you feel ready you can start working with equipment. But one thing you need to remember is everyone has a limit! DO NOT push past that limit. If you feel like you need a rest, take that rest! If you feel like something is too difficult for you, STOP and take your time with it. Build up by using what you know and can do! Something I forgot to mention is once you start it's actually a lot of fun. Not to mention you can meet a lot of cool people. I hope this helps, and I really think you should do it! Sorry I get super excited when people ask for gym advice :)
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I ama girl from Bangladesh. I am 17 yrs old n my bf is 25. We love each other like everything. I was in an abusive relationship the for 1.5 yrs n he helped me get out of it. Now we r together for the last 5 months. We know each other for about 2 yrs now. My present bf is jst perfect. N i love him. He treats me like a princess and plays wid me like a doll. He has a stable job n is too handsome. Bt d prob strts whnevr i get angry wid him he hurts himself. He doesnt tell me anything. Whenever i am angry he says sorry even its my fault. Bt it hurts me if he hurts himself 4 me. How can i tell him not to hurt himself?
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The best thing to do is to talk to him about this situation. Sit down with him and ask him why! If the problem gets any worse then I'd suggest for you to take him to a therapist. In my opinion, I think it's just insecurity. I think sometimes he feels as if maybe he's not good enough. He shows you a lot of affection as I can tell, but you need to give him the same affection as well. I hope this helps, and I hope he gets better.
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Has anyone gone through a separation that made their relationship better? How were you able to get past the issues that caused the separation? What made you decide to work things out instead of move on? How were you able to get past the hurt? Did you feel like everything was worth it in the end? (link)
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I think it really depends for some people it doesn't work out in the end, and for some people it does, and they do learn a lot about the experience. To sum it up, it's all about the decisions you make along the way. I hope this helps! Good Luck
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I'm currently in Grade 12. Most people are excited to graduate, but I am dreading graduation. Let me explain my situation, and then can anyone help me?
I'm pretty much terrified. University is going to be so much different, and I won't have my friends around. I haven't had to face a single day of school without them since the first day of kindergarten, and even then I was introduced to my one BFF within like the first 5 minutes, and another of my BFFs within like 30 min. Like I'm going to be so lost without them!
Starting high school was sorta scary, but I knew it would be fine cuz half the teachers go to my church and already know me and almost half of the gr 9 class was from my grade school, and besides all that, I HAD MY 3 BEST FRIENDS!!!! I honestly have no clue how to survive without them! I am basically totally socially inept and I only ever attend any kind of social gathering because they are there! None of them even considered applying to the same schools as me cuz I'm applying to Christian universities, and they are all going public. But I need them!
And seriously, sometimes I feel like I should decide to go to the university in my town so that I will always be around whenever they come home.(They are each going about 1 hour away from home) But the rest of the time I am pretty certain that school is NOT the place for me, and that I would WAY rather go to one of the other two schools I applied to, which are 3 and 6 hours away, but it is so hard!
I just don't know how I will live without those girls. And it kind of breaks my heart to think that we will make new friends...I mean I've been friends with my one BFF pretty much from birth, and two of the others since kindergarten! I've only ever added to my circle of friends (and only in kindergarten and in Grade 9), I've never lost contact with a close friend. Like that's more than 12 YEARS OF HISTORY! All our inside jokes, all the stuff they know about me that I've never told anyone else, the way we know what each other need without even needing to say so....I can't imagine not having that!
Even now I find it difficult when I am in one class without any of them. ONE CLASS! and next year it's going to be the ENTIRE YEAR! AND THE ENTIRE YEAR AFTER THAT! I mean I'm sure we will see each other sometimes, but what if I go to the school that's 6 HOURS AWAY! How often will I be able to make it home? And how often will I be able to make it home at the same time that my friends aren't too busy! I just don't know! I feel ostracized if I don't see them for a weekend now...how am I going to manage going weeks without them? I am quite simply terrified!
So yeah....I'm pretty scared and it's already starting to stress me out now. It's like my 4 girls are the bubble I've lived in for my entire life. I don't know how to live outside of them. What do I do? How do I keep from being so stressed out? How do I make things easier for myself when I do graduate and go off to university? (link)
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Don't let something like that stop you from this opportunity. You don't know how lucky you are to be able to get this opportunity to go to a great college. Not a lot of people get to go to college. If you can make a best friend within 5 minutes of your first day at school then you're able to do that at college. Life is all about trying new things, and meeting new people. I was just like you when I was going to high school. None of my friends were going to the same high school as me, and I didn't know any of the teachers. I was scared of getting bullied, having no friends, and having all the teachers hate me, but it was the complete opposite of what I had expected. Don't be afraid to meet new people, if anything meeting new people can be very useful. Start by introducing yourself to a bunch of people at school (if you don't know them). I find smiling really helpful too! Anyways I hope this helps! Best wishes, and kick butt in college! I know you'll do fine. Maybe you're just over thinking it. Try to think of positive impacts in college.
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People really love to gossip about me and I keep hearing that they don't like me.
The thing is that I've never been mean to anyone, I am not cocky, I always try to be as polite as possible etc.
Most of these people have never talked to me outside school, they don't even talk to me IN school. Yet they pretend like they know I am a horrible person without knowing me at all.
This makes me really sad and I doubt myself as a person. It also leads to me not liking myself very much. Furthermore, it just makes me feel very angry.
I have one more year left, how can I deal with this and not care about what they think of me? How can I like myself as a person?
The reason this bothers me so much is because they have never taken the time to actually have a conversation with me, yet they decide to dislike me for no reason at all. (link)
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One thing I will tell you is you can't make everyone love you/like you. Just screw those people, ignore them. I know that's probably really hard to do despite the things they say about you. People like that are not worth your time. Don't let things like that get to you. Life will always have obstacles like that, but you need to learn to get over them. They're just trying to hurt you, but you need to be strong and ignore those hateful comments. Once they figure out that you don't give any fucks about what they say, it'll stop. DON'T SHOW ANY WEAKNESS! Who gives a shit about what they have to say. The reason people do that is because they don't have a life so they go into other people's life. Stay strong! I believe in you!
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Hello everyone! I'm a sophomore in high school and my boyfriend is a senior. We have been dating for almost 6 months. We've talked about it a few times, but my boyfriend said he wants to go into the Air Force and it scares me because I don't know what to expect (I honestly don't want him joining because he'll be so far from his friends and I , but you know, I can't control that)... If he joins I want him and i's relationship to work if he does join. He graduates in May and I'm going to be a junior in high school next year. I love this boy with my heart and he means a lot to me. Can anyone give me advice as to what to expect in the air force, how I can make my relationship last, and what I can do? Thanks guys.. ): (link)
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I don't wanna scare you or anything, but a lot (Not all) of the times long distance relationships don't always work out because you're so far apart and it can be overwhelming sometimes. It's already really hard for adults to maintain a healthy long-distance relationship let alone teenagers. Going to the airforce is his decision and not yours. My advice to you both is to try to keep in contact every day (Facetime, Skype, text etc). Sometimes people can even feel sad that their significant other is so far away, and they sometimes get distracted. If you find yourself in that place spend time with friends, or go out to take your mind off of it for a while. Anyways best wishes for the both of you, and I hope this helps!
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This might sound a little stupid to some people, but to me it feels like the end of the world. My teacher had to take a phone call at the beginning of class, we also had a test that day. I guess I got so into my book I read right through the test and didn't even answer a single question, heck I didn't even get a paper! I heard the Bell ring and realized I didn't even get a test. I just walked out of the room like an idiot before he saw me. Now he's going to find out that I read right through a test and get really mad. I honestly don't know what to to and don't even want to go back to school tomorrow! (link)
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Everyone makes mistakes once in a while, you're not really human if you don't. Just explain to him, your mistake, and what happened, but you shouldn't be embarrassed to go back to school. He might get mad at you and you might not get full credit for your work, but it's the right thing to do. Don't let one little mistake get in your way. That's life for ya! Anyways I hope this helps!
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Does anybody know how to put pictures on face book with a digital camera ? (link)
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What I do is I have the Google Photos app on my phone (if you have a Gmail, then you automatically have a Google Photos account). The first thing I do is, I put the pictures onto my desktop. Use a USB cord, or a memory card (already in the camera) and connect the camera to the computer if you're using a cord, or the chip into the computer (with the memory card in it). Put the photos into a folder on your desktop (use copy and paste) You're going to have to files, the one from the memory card and the one in your desktop if you want you can delete the one's from your memory card, and the photos will still be in the folder that you put on your desktop. Open up Google Photos on your computer and drag and drop the folder into Google Photos, wait for the photos to upload onto Google Photos (it might take a while depending on how fast your internet is). Once the photos are uploaded you can create a folder for just those photos. Then going onto to your phone the photos will be there for you. What I do with this last step is, I usually screenshot the photos I want to post. Doing this will not blur or pixelate your photos. Anyways I hope this helps! (I know this feels like an ad for Google hehe)
-Swimmer133
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Me & my bestfriend have been friends since Middle school (shes always been insecure/threatened type inside and out), & i guess you can say she's ALWAYS been jealous of me for example, she'd always get mad and annoyed that if a guy she liked thought i was hot so she'd always tell them something like "but she said you were ugly" or something worse. she'd also always try to find a way to bring me down physically and/or mentally. I guess i can say she has gotten over that from what i can see for myself (idk what she says behind closed doors) so NOW lol, she would say i dress to fancy or nice to go to a basic place & i would tell her that iam not a basic bitch i have to look good wherever i go and that she doesn't care about how she looks. She also has a boyfriend now and he would give me compliments and she'd flip out on him. I told her that i wanted to die my hair blonde and like a monh later she dyes her hair blonde and told her boyfriend that i copied her when i finally dyed my hair blonde. She's always been the one to always i'd say complain that i'm concieted, i mean i am, concieted, confident, etc. I always would say "I'm THAT BITCH" because i feel as though i am. but fast forward now she says that she has to look good all the time, she speaks like me, wears the same jewelry as i do, she use to complain about how long my nails were when i would get them done, now she gets her nails long, she trys to wear the same clothes as i do, trys to copy my hair styles, she calls herself "that bitch" now, she trys to be into stuff like i am for example, i am so big into fashion&shoes and she's trying to be the same way (it just doesn't work because she cannot dress) if we go shopping and i say something is cute for me, she buys it, she one day said "(my name) wants to be me" & it was such a lie like i honestly cursed her out because its totally the other way around. she says stuff like "(my name) taught me." like I don't know, am i crazy or does she want to be me? i need your opinions. (link)
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Hey!
She's obviously trying to be better than you, but you know what? FUCK IT! People like that are just a waste of your time. You can be whoever you want to be, don't let people like that tell you what to do, how to dress. The most simple thing to do is to ignore her. It'll show her that you don't need her, you're way better than her. Don't pick any fights with her, because it's basically showing her that you're weaker. Don't be the weaker person, be the bigger one, and ignore her. Like I said earlier people like are are a TOTAL WASTE OF TIME! She's just doing that to get into your life because her's is boring. From what I heard, she's pretty much a follower and that's the exact opposite from what you want to be. To sum up everything she's just a waste of time, and has nothing better to do with her life. Hope this helps!
-Swimmer133
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