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Hi there..am Female,23...
Well I had a serious relationship for a 4good years..n recently we broke up..till the end I have trusted him blindly n forgave him for his every mistakes as I loved him in worst n best..there were so many incidents that did shake my faith in him still I intentionally omitted them n behaved like a blind...i know I should not have trusted him so blindly..but I was scared of losing him..so anyhow at any cost I tried to keep him in the relationship..though I never got any evidence that he was cheating on me..but he did a lots of things that indicate he was upto some other girls...but just to keep the mental peace I sabotaged my way of thinking..within this four year duration we broke up for thousand times n everytime I begged him to patch up woth me..he never ever came back to me..every now n then he insulted me my friends n my family..even he n his mom mentally abused me n accused me for his alcohol addiction..he never trusted me so if anybody unknown to him ever comes to him n tell him that I go physical with any random guy, he would have believed that..he even had problems with my dresses n uploading my pics on Facebook...whereas his mom uploads odd pics of hers on fb n flirts around with unknown guyz..i didn't have any issues with her untill n unless she poked his son about my dressing sense and he abused me with slangs..the society I come from is a bit conservative and orthodox..women who have on of that age n husband alive,doing such nasty things are considered to be perverted..i completely felt disgusted by him n his mom..how hypocritical they can be!!
But I trusted n loved him so much..so got a irreparable wound..can't be healed...but now there is a guy younger than me..he admires me n wants to be committed with me...but my ex bf made me absolutely unable to trust any guy...
Please tell me what should I do? (link)
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It's always hard letting go of someone, especially if they mentally abuse you. I myself have spent too long trying to dedicate myself to someone who couldn't change and was not worth my time. I understand the pain of losing him must really hinder you.. but there's nothing that says you have to be committed right away. My advice to you is to take it slow and see where it leads the both of you. You need time to heal and really find yourself again. I understand the feeling of wanting to be with someone immediately after the trauma of a bad break up.. but it's usually not the best decision for you or the other person. Stay strong, and I hope you allow yourself to love again.
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What jobs can gay people get? (link)
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Any they want, depending on the person hiring them. One of the people commenting on this said you can't be actively homosexual and in the armed forces... which is completely wrong. They got rid of the 'Don't ask, don't tell' policy how long ago. I have a friend that was a Marine and one of his friends there was married to a man. lol.
So, unless you live in a homophobic region, the sky is the limit. ;)
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