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Girl problems make me depressed
Hey I'm a 17 year old boy from England,and I have this issue where anytime something goes wrong with a girl I like I get seriously down in the dumps for days,maybe weeks in certain cases such as when my ex got with one of my best friends at the time. Another example would be that same guy trying to talk to a girl he knows I like last night in order to get to me. My confidence completely revolves around girls and how my love life is. It's stupid but I just can't help it,and when something goes wrong with a girl I just enter this depressed phase where I think I'll never really find a girlfriend,and I just feel lonely and can't concentrate on anything else,because I'm constantly thinking about whatever went wrong.
I'm not sure if I can explain it well,because I don't really understand why it happens myself. I don't really know what advice is out there either but if anyone has some I'd really appreciate it,thanks
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You're 17 and male. This is normal.
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Girls you like will get in bad relationships, or go out with your friends if they want to. The only way you can stop it is if you like a girl, ask her out! Don't tell friends you like her, tell her.
If you break up with a girl, let it go. What she does is no longer any of your business. What you do isn't her business either.Its a hard thing to do, but, if you turn your attention to another girl, its easier to forget the one that didn't work out.
You are going to feel bad about things & you are going to get emotional just because that is a part of being a teen. You have hormones raging & so many firsts in your life. It gets overwhelming at times.
Worry about these girls is probably an attempt to fix things that you are unable to fix. You'll have to try to concentrate on something else besides girls. Cars, sports, reading...
There really isn't much we can say that will help. As an older person, I can only tell you it will pass. Just hang in there. :)
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Hey!
Love is a very complicated thing, but it's something that'll come naturally, or when the "time comes" (when you meet the right person). No need to rush things. It just takes some time to find the right person to be in your life. It takes time, but you'll eventually find someone you love, and will love you back for who you are. Don't try to change yourself for girls. If she wants you to change the way you look or act just so she'll be with you then screw her, find someone that'll appreciate you for you. I'm not really sure if this is the advice you're looking for, but it's really all I can tell you right now. I hope it helps!
-Swimmer133
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