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in love with married women?
Ok.yes there is a co worker that every time i see or speak to her my heart explodes.we see other a couple times a week. A d we always have connection type feeling and talk about anything .we are both married. And the other day she said that i was trouble with a smile .and that i dont bother her by coming by and talking to her. Do ask her out for coffee or ...
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I agree with the others. You are asking for trouble. If your boss finds out, you could be out of a job. If you get involved & it ends, working in the same place will be difficult. Especially if your wife finds out. She will not want you anywhere near her.
I think you are playing a dangerous game. My advice would be to back off & try to have no contact with this woman. Talk to your wife & work on your marriage. If you flirt with her like you do with this woman...Your life at home just may improve.
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I really agree with the other guy! Your partner does not need this kind of bull in their life. You need to respect yourself, and this woman's life. Like seriously are you really that bored? because right now all I "hear" is you talking out of your butt in la, la land. You don't ask her out for coffee! You ask your wife out for coffee!
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If you are unhappy in your marriage, go home and deal with that.
Right now, you are living largely in a fantasy world. You barely know this woman, but have built up a love story around her. That isn't fair to her, or to you, or to either of your parents. It's also a recipe for disaster.
If you are unhappy in your marriage, speak up about that with your partner.
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NO, you are both married and asking her for coffee is the same as asking her for a date which to my mind is cheating on your spouses. Cheating does not necessarily require a sexual happening. Anything you would hide from your spouse about a relationship with someone of the opposite sex or same sex, if it were the case, is cheating on the marital vows.
Talking to someone in the office is not the making of or having an affair. Talking with people in the office even with the opposite sex, is being office social. Being social is also knowing where to draw the line. Her comment to you that you don't bother her by coming by and talking to her, is most likely in the realm of office social and not as you might believe she has the same feelings for you that you have for her.
My advise is to keep the relationship at the level of office social. There is nothing more messy then miss reading her or entering into an office affair that ends badly. One or both of you could end up losing your jobs and your families.
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