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i dont get it
i have friends that copies me?? for example i really like this singer for a long time and all my friends know it and then suddenly my friend A copied me and said how his songs are good and stuff and in my heart i was like ".... i told you... now ur here telling me how good he is but i already know..." and friend A also copy my other interests and it is kind of annoying. my other closer friend B, she is a close friend of mine but shes been copying me since forever but i didnt really care because shes my best friend. but recently she copied my hairstyle, and also my taste in music, AND my interests. i also told her some famous youtubers and few months later she starts fangirling about them and in my heart im like "what the hell stop trying to be me and talk about what i like".
i cant tell them that to stop copying me because im scared and tbh im not that good o perfect so im afraid theyll say something like im not copying you, i like them too. i know its their freedom to like what they want but it just pisses me off how they like the exact same thing as me and other people thinks they know that thing (things that they copy) better than me.
tl;dr
friends kept copying my style and other people thought they found it out my themselves but its actually me who taught them trendy topics.
thanks for reading... i really want to know how to stop them from copying me without being rude
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You don't own a singer. Or public youtube videos. Or even hairstyles. You don't own trends. Trendy things exist because of people jumping on board, and copying them. If you always want to be 'trendy' then you'll need to constantly update your trends to keep ahead of people like your friends. It's really that simple.
The healthy thing tho, would be not to worry about who is the most on trend, and not need to be expert on these things, and just enjoy what you enjoy without stressing about other people. Honestly, there is no reason to care if strangers think one of your friends knows more about a YouTuber than you do. That is really, really meaningless.
You need to work on your own attitude. It's okay to be frustrated, but that is where it's got to end. If being trendy is really important to you, then you'll need to spend a lot of time staying ahead of people who find out about trends later on. But if what is important to you is just liking what you like and having friends, then you need to chill out.
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