Hi, how do you know if your good friend likes you or interested in you but also he's flirty and teasing frequently however can be moody as well. I reckon he likes me but then he does this harmless jokes with others too so it's hard to know whether he's flirting or joking. All answers are appreciated. Thank you all.
swimmer133 answered Wednesday April 6 2016, 7:16 pm: Hey!
So I've actually been reading articles about this topic, and I found out that there is no such thing as a guy and a girl being "just friends." Usually guys only want to be friends with girls, because they like the girl. Now I'm saying this is true to all girl, guy friendships, since I have a guy friend who's currently dating another girl. I'm just reflecting on what I've read in psychology articles. It could just be how he is. A lot of the time guys will "flirt" unintentionally/without knowing. As for the joking around it could be how he acts. I'm not trying to say he doesn't like you, because there could be a chance that he does. Just keep observing his actions. Look for any sudden stuttering, or nervousness whenever he's around you. Try to look at his pupils, if his pupils dilate whenever he's around you that is a sign that he could have a crush on you. Also check his body language, is he touchy? (in an appropriate way of course!). There are so many other signs, but these are only a few that I can think of right now.
Anyways I really do hope this helped!
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Justafriend1234 answered Wednesday April 6 2016, 5:28 pm: OK if you really want to know the answer then you have to ask, and there are ways you can do this without being serious or making things awkward. First you can just joke a around and be like- out of our group of friends, who would u kiss. and if he ask who you would kiss be like- um maybe blah blah and blah blah, OH and i might kiss you, if you're lucky. Then he knows that you're joking with him but your not. And if he is also flirty and joking with Other girls, you can put him to a test, you can start asking him if he likes girls later that day after you see him flirting with him, but DO NOT ask sounding clingy. And you can also try to change your aperance al little bit. If you wear sweatshirts alot then maybe its time to try a dress or 2. And lastly its okay to enjoy the friendship, don't obsess over him. Ecspecially if you want to remain friends. because a lot of friends have gotten into relationships, but if they broke up, the friendship would be ruined. i am not saying this will happen to u, but just enjoy the friendship and relax. [ Justafriend1234's advice column | Ask Justafriend1234 A Question ]
YouAreLoved answered Tuesday April 5 2016, 8:15 pm: Hey there ))
Why do you want to assume anything until he comes and confesses his feelings for you? Relax and enjoy the good friendship for now )) If he is joking around and flirting with all other girls, perhaps other girls feel the same like you. Take it easy and let it happen when it has to happen.
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