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Hello, I'm freaking out and don't know what to do. I'm completely out of money and overdrafted by -$10 in my account.
I'm a college student who just moved off to college less than a month ago and found a new job three weeks ago. It turned out though that in the first two weeks my job didn't give me very many hours as I was training so I only wound up with about $110 for the first week and haven't been paid yet for this last week and won't be paid for this week until next Thursday or later.
My issue is that I have a car payment and car insurance which totals about $425 together and my car insurance was taken out this morning, which is what overdrafted me.
I even sold a watch that I loved to make money ($80) but I sold it online and now I won't get paid for it until the buyer gets it and accepts it, but who knows when that will be when I just shipped it today.
My car payment ($316) is due on the 26th and though I have a grace period I have no idea how I'm going to be able to make this!!!
Fortunately, because I am a college student I at least have a meal plan so I can depend on that for food during the week. However, I have no money for food on the weekends or anything else I might need. I'm also 100 miles behind on an oil change in my car so I don't even feel safe driving it and it needs a synthetic change which is $60! I don't know what to do, I feel like everything is a giant disaster right now!
I can't ask my mom or dad for money because they don't have any to spare and I'm stuck on campus without any friends since I'm new here.
Please help me with some ideas!
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First off. RELAX! You aren't the first person, yet alone college student, to not be able to pay a bill on time. Call customer service from your loan provider for your car and let them know the situation. Calling them in advance or atleast two weeks after a missed payment is great. Let them know your situation, and you can ask them about delaying a payment for the moment or paying as much as you can on the due date. This would also be a great time to talk about maybe seeing if they can temporarily lower your payments while you get into the swing of your job. Same thing with insurance. There is a number that both would like you to pay, but see what the lowest minimum to pay is. Remember the people you are talking to are people just like you, so there are options. A company would rather get some money than get nothing. So negotiate! You Got This!
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First off, I accidentally got my hair cut way too short. So I was wondering if anyone had any tips on naturally growing it out. How to make my hair the healthiest it can be. I'd TRULY appreciate it beyond words! :)
I also have some questions.
I've always been SUPER angry and have angry outbursts a lot due to my irritation towards my horrifying depression and anxiety. So it's like every single thing makes me angry. I've been working on it and I've really accomplished it almost! :D I've been singing very happily and cheerfully in my mind a very positive word like "peachy" and "happy." I was wondering if anyone had any other tips on how to actually be able to soon deal with my anger so easily and quickly that no one even notices that I'm angry anymore. :O
I was wondering what are the BEST traits in a person's personality. I'm not trying to change who I am in any way, so please don't say that. I'm just trying to improve myself as a person, because I know I'm not that good of a person.
I mean, I do try all I can to help EVERYONE - even those I don't know or who have been harsh to me. I'm willing to sacrifice all the money I have to help ANYONE and to sacrifice ALL my sleep if someone needed a friend in the middle of the night. My dream career is helping people - senior caregiving, to be exact. I either wanted to do that, because I adore the elderly with all my heart or work at the mental hospital since my heart has always lived in mental health. But I choose senior caregiving.
I still think I could be a MUCH better person. Can anyone give me tips on being a better person? I just am dying to be the best person I can be!
Please help! (link)
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For your hair, the best answer is to make sure you are eating a healthy, nutritious diet. Supplements and all of that could help, but you want to grow healthy hair from the inside. For your anger, try inner child meditation on YouTube.
Start with 2 sessions a week before bed or in the morning after you wake up. Extreme anger is usually just pent up sadness and hurt from childhood.
Good Luck.
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My boyfriend and I have been arguing about random things lately now and then. I sometimes feel that he is trying to find an excuse, I don't know why. Recently he just asked me about my car, and what year it is. (Its a mercedes s550 2007). I told him I don't think a person's car or what they have is what should be important but the person themselves. I said I don't ask about your car or your business. We had fought about my previous car as well, as he wanted to use it for a few days since I am no longer using that one. I feel like he is always analyzing me and trying to figure something out from my answers. Shouldn't the women be doing this? Anyway, today he asked again and I still did not tell him, I asked what does it matter, it doesn't matter for me. He said it does because it defines your personality and if you don't tell me what year your car is then who knows what you won't tell me later on in life if we get married. I wrote back if it's something important of course I'll tell you but unimportant topics like this shouldn't matter. He went offline. We have been seriously thinking about marriage soon but how would it be if we happen to argue lately about everything and our minds are very confused. I just don't know what to do, and should I tell him my car year (aka feed his egoistic curiosity). I don't know anymore. Thank you... (link)
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Sounds like both of you come from families that are never up front with their intentions. Maybe families that always have an agenda. Look deeper within yourself, and "clean out" your baggage. If you guys are meant to be together, he will do the same.
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My life kind of started to end on July 15 2014. My wife of 52 years and I were sitting on our deck when we looked at each other and said, You know something we got it made. That was because I had finally retired and we had moved into our new house in the mountains. That was around one pm when we spoke those words.
That night around seven we got a call from one of our daughters (Barb). She told us that she had just left the doctors and they had told her she had stage four ovarian cancer, and that she had 1 to 5 years to live.
This as you can imagine floored us. The next morning my wife (Elaine) and I packed her suitcase. We decided that my wife would move in with Barb to help her as much as possible. Barb lives three hours away, so we thought I would drive down on weekends and bring our dog with me.
After three months of Elaine staying there and me coming down on weekends, the stress got so bad between my wife and I. You see, Elaine is 71 years old and she was taking care of Barbs whole house. There are four in the family, Barb, her husband (Jeff) daughter (Kristin age 21) and son (Jeffery age 17). She looked like she was 90 years old. This was killing my wife. Well after three months had gone by, Barb went back to work, so Elaine decided to come home and we would go down on weekends. This lasted till 1/10/16 when Barb passed away.
When my wife came home, I was relieved that she could rest and try to get back to somewhat of a normal life. Well that did not happen. From the minute and I mean minute Elaine walked in the door I was accused of having an affair. I could not believe my ears. Her reasoning was she found Cialis in my bureau drawer. After her throwing this at me I showed her that it was a sample with my name written on it. The funny part of it was, Elaine was the one that picked it up at the doctors office. By the way our doctor not only wrote my name on the box but the date 1/16/2012. Four years before we moved to the mountains.
That was the end of that session. But two weeks later she told me my girlfriend stole five pair of her jeans from the closet. I could go on an on about the accusations but to name just a few. Cigarette butts found in the street meant my girlfriend was standing there watching the house. I was told while we where both out shopping together that there was blood on our mattress pad. When we got home the blood had disappeared. Now remember we never left each others side.
I won’t bore you with more details because there is over 50 accusations made. None of which were true.
Anyway last week a new neighbor moved in and you guessed it I was having an affair with her.
Well two days ago she left me, drained our bank accounts of over $125,000. Leaving me not only with my wife of 52 years but without a penny.
I can’t do this anymore. As much as I love her I want it all to end. I can’t stand the pain. I sit here and look at a bottle of pills the doctor gave us for depression and can’t stop thinking this would end my pain. I was a strong willed man all my life, a rough and tumble construction worker. Well I am a broken man now. She broke me and took my will to live.
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First, I am sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter and the demise of your marriage. Reading your story, I can tell you 1 of 2 things are going on.
1.) Your wife is experiencing extreme stress. Stress can do a lot of things to the brain, especially if maybe your daughter confided in her that she was experiencing infidelity in her marriage. If you think it is more of this, then I would try meditation. Try to search for the best way to ease her mind.
2.) This one is what I truly think is going on. Your wife and yourself are really getting up there. And I believe that stress can induce dementia. It sounds like your wife is going through episodes. Some people get dementia when they want to forget. The passing of your daughter coupled with the intense amount of stress Barb was experiencing could definitely bring on these type of episodes. Now if this is the case, I would go into the doctors office for a diagnosis (only). Don't start any medication. Dementia , especially stress induced, can be helped naturally. One option is some form of therapy.
Good luck to you. Your Barb is still there. She is just a little overwhelmed right now. Just stay patient. Stay calm. She is still the woman you love and who loves you.
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Question Posted Tuesday October 4 2011, 1:28 pm
i do not know how to start this but appology for this long statement. i couldn't analyze these things anymore... let me start it this way, i am married for almost two years now and i love my husband. recently, i work with this lady and i find her very attractive. the thing is i don't know if she's gay or not and sending me mixed signals. i find her going on her way just to be around me or something, used to flirt with me before (i've seen her before i worked with her), stares at me when am not looking, used to stare at me when i was talking (before) and seems to be jealous when i talk to another men (like in a friendly way, not flirty). MOST IMPORTANTLY, i wonder so much why does our coworkers watches us whenever we are around together. they look at us, literally! it seems to me that they are listening to our body language or something. i don't understand... i really don't. since i started working with her i don't remember doing any flirtatious act on her. i never have. the only thing that happened was before i worked with her. like i say 2-3 times. well anyways, all of these happened before until last night... she worked with me directly and asked me bunches of personal questions like how is my husband, where did we met, etc and etc... do i have plans going back home to my country. i said yes i do. but am looking for someone to fly with me so i won't be by myself. she said she would go, she'd love to. then later when i asked her to go out with me and my friends because my other friend is bringing another person ( i don't wanna be out of place) she said yes if i wanted her to go (said yeah i do) and asked if we go to a bar and i said nope we don't do that. we just go out shopping. she said that's cool. i just thought you want me to WORK FOR YOU (what in the world does that mean???). that really got me. i laughed it out though. i asked her number and she gave it to me. later i asked her if she wanna go out watch movie, she said it's up to us. i can see she seemed to be starting in doubt, so when i got off from work i told her she don't have to go if she don't want to and that if something would come up. i even said i really like her and she said oh really? (she said it in a deep low voice) but i didn't told her that in a romantic way. she said she'll let us know and that she's saving her money because she's going to college soon. well anyways the fact is nobody knows am bisexual but i can see that she can sense that (that am bi). well, an hour after i texted her and she seems to be not interested or something...? i asked her questions and she answers it but she's not reciprocating my point on texting her and asking her out. i just wanna know her and be friends. she's very nice in every way. gracious i must say. am attracted to her, i admit that. however, i know where i stand on my ground and i cannot act on it. did she found everything weird? is she losing interest on me or did she even have an interest with me at all?
i honestly don't know what is going on so please please please i need everybody's help here analyzing these situation. am not even understanding my own self. i wanna know what is going on with her and what does she want from me.i (link)
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This is more about where you stand. In society, we are told that to find someone attractive means that we want something more than just a friendship or we will eventually want to date them. It is okay to find another woman attractive, even to the point that it makes you feel weird her being around you and your husband. I think the connection is a spiritual one. You and this woman might have a lot of things in common when you get to know her. Stop putting the pressure on yourself to define things and see where things go. Go with your INTUITION. If the situation makes you feel uncomfortable, leave her alone. If you really just want to be friends and get to know her, then do that. If she wants more, then express to her your feelings on everything. Trust your gut. You are capable and strong. Good luck!
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Hello,
I'm from Brazil.
I need to clarify that i'm a girl, who had a relationship with another girl, so if thats not something thats not approved here, feel free to not answer.
We broke up a year ago (or more) and yesterday she talked to me and apologized for everything that went bad in our past relashionship (and it was a lot, not just her fault), I did the same thing and then we talked about how our lives were going for the most of the day. Today I started a conversation about a random subject, but that was quick and then we didnt talk for the rest of the day. Now I'm not sure if she just wanted to apologize and that was it, or try and be friends again (which we were before we dated). I dont tend to start conversations and as I did it today, I was wondering If I should try it again tomorrow to see how that goes.
And she has a girlfriend now, even If I dont like her like that anymore its still a bit weird.
Sorry it's so long and superficial, thank you for taking the time if you did. (link)
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She has a girlfriend. Leave it alone.
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Some questions for 365 messages in a jar for boyfriend (link)
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write what comes to your mind. you know him better than us. write would you think would inspire him.
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I dated a guy for two months. He's 27 and I'm 24. He was really sweet but seemed to think I was a 'goddess' and said he could imagine dating with the intent of marriage. I broke up with him because of the pressure- this is my first relationship and he seems ready for things I'm not ready for. Also I'm in a late bloomer so I'm in college and I have no idea where I'll be in 1 year. It was my birthday and he sent told me he wishes me the best and sent me a long love poem. He also said he knows I made the right decision for myself by breaking up. Is it normal to feel like I want him back even though breaking up seemed healthier? Should I ever contact him again? (link)
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He wants to be married, you dont. That's the reason you two broke up. If nothing has changed, the outcome wont change. Leave it alone. Eventually he will find a girl who wants the same things.
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I have really bad acne and blackheads on my face, chest, and back. What are some good drugstore/cheap products I could use? (link)
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Acne is a product of overactive hormones.
whether its from puberty, eating the wrong things, or current hair/face products you are using.
It's better to really just let it ride. Dont do much to it. Figure out how to eat to balance your hormones. Google it since it is really specific to the individual.
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Female, 19. I usually don't care about what others think and in a way I still don't. However, as of lately I've been asking myself the same question. Is it really strange that I've never even been close to losing my virginity? I don't really care for it and I absolutely do NOT want to end up pregnant in college, therefore I kind of am glad of the way I am. But I've never had a boyfriend, never had a first kiss, first date, and I only had a few boys interested in me in ELEMENTARY school. After I got into middle school I never heard of any boy being interested in me and sometimes it kind of hurts to think that maybe I'm just not considered attractive or girlfriend material. I know there are tons of people out there with similar problems but sometimes I just wish that I could have at least one relationship, if anything to go through the experience. I don't wear much makeup and often dress up like I dont care or a bit boyish, I thought maybe guys dont see me attractive because of that. Or because sometimes I'm not as outspoken as other girls. I don't know. I'm just starting to think nobody'll ever notice me. (link)
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Take it from me. Save it til you find who you want to be with forever. It's a lot easier on the relationship when you have little to no previous sexual experience. It's a great thing that you dont feel noticed. Being the girl that everybody wants, the girl that knows how to kiss and flirt, the fun girl who everyone wants to party and drink with, the girl that sneaks out to go to the clubs and seems to be having soo much fun are all OVERRATED. Just chill. Be yourself. When the guy you really want to spend the rest of your life with comes along, life will be better than you ever expected. Be cool.
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Hi, I can't believe I'm talking to strangers on the internet about this; it's so embarrassing. I'm sorry if this offends you since I'm not at a great age to be talking about it. I'm not sexually active (haven't been at all yet) and I've had my shots for cervical cancer and things about two years ago.
I never really worried about it until I heard that lumps can be a bad thing. It's quite high up on the inside of my vagina - I'm not good at distances so I'm really sorry - I can't quite reach the top of it with my finger. It's fairly large as well with a dent or something in it as well as being slightly off to the left.
I did a quick Google search but none seem to have something like mine and/or sexually active and have been for a while. It's been there for as long as I can remember but I don't think a large lump is very normal. (I'm also pretty sure it's not THAT spot). It doesn't hurt and I don't think it's irritated. I'm just really worried about it. I don't really want to tell my mum about it until I'm 100% sure I need to see a doctor. It's not exactly easy to say something like this to your mother and the story of how I found it, no matter how close we are.
Thanks for replying if you do. :) (link)
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Sounds like your cervix. There are going to be so many weird and strange things/feelings that happen until you are out of child bearing years basically. The general rule of thumb is that if something isnt bothering you, keeping you from doing daily activities, or you arent bleeding through 2 heavy pads in an hour, your fine. But dont hesitate to see a doctor. You can believe they have seen it and heard it all. Dont be embarrassed!
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My parents don't buy me anything. I sound like a spoiled brat, I know, and I should be grateful for what I have but i'm truthfully not. I'm not trying to be rude or anything, it's just that i'm sad. For Christmas last year I got a phone which I really did not expect! It was really a suprise and the first decent present in years. My sister walked miles just for it and I thank her for that. 2 years ago my Christmas present was deodorant and hair gel (My hair is very, VERY short). The same year for my birthday I got deoderantt, once again.
I know it sounds funny and all but i'm really serious. Three years ago I got MORE deodorant. I'm starting to get a feeling my parent is trying to insult me or something.
In my family we have one computer and a laptop. The laptop is my sisters (only for educational purposes) and she has 2 tablets but generously gave one to me. My dad is an administrator, but not me. I use it the most yet i'm not an admin. I have to play childish games which don't need to be installed. Just before I wrote this I was playing flash games. If I asked my dad for the password he would get angry and refuse and that would really bug me. I'm a gamer. So I get angry a lot . sorry have to go. (link)
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Sounds to me that your parents might have financial issues they just dont discuss with you. Thats what I would think. They could be broke. Anyways. Just chill. See how things play out. You get more answers with honey than salt!
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I am a 16 year old guy and I met this girl on the internet through my friends one day. She is 15 years old and she has a lot of similar interest to me. My first time merting her was from using Skype, where it was my 2 friends her and myself. Due to certain circumstances, my 2 friends had took go and I was left alone with this girl. I don't know how it happened but we ended up skyping for 7 hours straight. She started talking about her life and past, and how she is always alone at school. So as any normal person would, I tried comforting her. I seemed to cheer her up quite a bit and I was quite satisfied with myself that I was able to help a 'stranger' out. After this event, she added me on facebook and we started talking. This was when I started realising some.. Flaws of hers. She started doing many things that was quite annoying. Since I am still a school student, I had a lot of homework but she would force me to skype her everyday from that point on. When I apologised to her and claimed that I had homework to do and therefore had to leave, she put me on a massive guilt trip. This happened countless times. She would say things like 'Oh are you leaving me again? Im going to be all alone.' Things like that. And that was only one of the 'flaws'. She would also hint that something in her life was wrong but when I asked her if she was alright and that I was there for her, she would just reply with 'No it's fine. I'm just sad that's all. Don't worry about me.' Things like that. I'm not trying to be narcissistic or anything but usually, I do care about others and I try my best to help others in any way possible. But after she keept hinting that there was something wrong and would refuse to tell me, I kind of got fed up. So now when she mentions something is wrong, J put close to no effort to find out what is wrong. Lately, everytime she asks to skype, I always tell her an excuse. Whether it be I'm busy or I have to go soon. Sometimes i just ignore her facebook mesages altogether when she tells me to skype. I feel like a horrible person but I cant handle it anymore. I tried helping and being a good person but I dont know what to do anymore. Im sorry you had to read all that. Please advise me on what I should do! (link)
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She told you she is alone in life. So naturally she is going to cling to someone who doesnt make her feel alone. Rather than totally shutting off (though I understand this kind of person can be frustrating), tell her that she can just relax and be herself. Let her know that she can just tell you what is wrong, and you can see if you can help or not. If you are straight up with her, then she will eventually be straight up with you.
This is how you handle it:
hey girl. i know you are going through a lot right now, and im sorry to hear. if you can hold on until 8pm, then i can really help you better then. talk later. say bye. do homeowork.
call back at 8pm. if there is an attitute, im sorry girl for hurting your feelings but im here now. whats going on.
still an attitute. look girl it seems like right now isnt a good time to talk. so why dont we try to talk tomorrow.
you see what im doing? dont allow yourself to be pushed into a corner or guilt tripped, but still be gentle and understanding. eventually, she is going to have to decide if she wants to actually get help or stay defensive and never get help.
But try to be understanding. everybody needs a friend. some people just happen to be really damaged and dont come across that many people who genuinely care and want to help. its surprising but true. Good Luck.
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I recently came out as a transman to my friends - but how do I tell my parents? Mom's seriously transphobic and Dad's oblivious. Please help me! (link)
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Wait until your comfortable. No enemy within, no enemy without. Good Luck!
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I'm wondering if I should give my company a courtesy 2 week notice that I will be leaving or not. I feel extremely uncomfortable at my work place. I moved in with a coworker of mine about 3-4 months ago and she moved her boyfriend in without telling me and we got into ONE argument about me feeding a stray dog at the house we're renting and they were relentless about not letting the issue go. && quite frankly even before the issue I was no longer comfortable with her boyfriend living there because he was domineering towards me when it came to taking care of the dogs and cleaning the kitchen. He had no sense of respect when he spoke to me so I got sick of it and I told her after the argument that he couldn't live here anymore. So she said okay. And then later she comes back to tell me that her and michael are living together because she loves him. So I said okay, I don't care I'm over the situation, but they weren't because they kept bringing up the situation and making it into a bigger deal then it was. Eventually we talked about how he was speaking towards me and telling me to do this and that without asking me. I told her that it bugged me because that's the different between demanding something from someone and giving them the choice to do it or not. && She said he was wrong and she shouldn't have done that. Okay, that doesn't matter because he's the one that owes me an apology, not her. & Then she demanded an apology from me. These people are so incredibly passive aggressive and I have no idea how to handle them because I'm a straightforward type of person. While I lived with them they were racist towards me and kept speaking in asian accents and telling me that when I take out their dog to make sure to put the harness back on the lead because they dont want to get dirt on it. && Then when I giggled at the fact that they had fancy utensils her boyfriend said, yeah we white folks are fancy like that. I wasn't going to say anything back because I was not trying to instigate the issue any further but sure man, you're really fancy when you need a pretty piece of metal to leave your mouth when your bed is on the floor and the living room and kitchen is a mess and covered with all of your shit. Whatever.
After I moved out I asked her to keep what happened between us out of the workplace and being as the situation was, I had to move back home with my parents since I couldn't find a place in the short amount of time that she gave me to move out. I decided that it would be better to leave the company and give them a 2 week notice. I went and spoke with HR and she asked me to stay instead and that they can work the hours out and to have me come in one day a week instead of 3. (I'm a college student and I'm currently interning with them)
HR calls me a couple of days later to confirm if that was a good schedule for me so I said yes. But it's been about a month since the incident and I think that the issue that happened between her and I are surfacing at work because I can see my coworkers giving me dirty looks for no particular reason when I haven't interacted with them. I can't imagine what kind of stories she made up behind my back to get them to look at me like that. I'm discussed with her and for anyone who even sides with her.
I'm so tired of this company. I'm just an intern and I would hope that my supervisor is more competent about his job then me && He's not. At all. I pointed out several mistakes that took place on our project and he ignored it until he took it to HIS supervisor, and was told that those corrections need to be made. I walked in on a conversation of 4-5 people yesterday and everyone stops talking and looks at me. One girl blatantly laughs out laugh and stops immediately as if she let it out by accident. The more I look at this company the more disgusted I am with it. All of these people who work here are white with the exception of a handful (if even) of people of diversity. Where this company advertises that it's a minority owned company (certainly it is owned by a woman), most of the employees here are white and men. (link)
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I seems to me that it all came down to the fact that this co worker and her boyfriend wanted to be in the apartment by themselves. They probably didnt know how to say it to you, so they made mountains out of mole hills until you finally moved out. Now I do believe the other stuff is you being just a tad self conscious. If you really like the company and what you do there aside from these coworkers, stay. If you do not really care about the company and them giving you a referral for your next job, then who cares about the two week notice. Do what makes you happy and comfortable. And if you are friends with these other co workers, just go up and talk to them. Most of the time, there is just a big misunderstanding. Good Luck!
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Hi, I am 12 years old female, 3 guys asked me out and I don't know what to do, I'm to nervous to say yes to one of them and to say no, I don't want to hurt their feelings and I don't think I'm ready to go out on dates, although that's what I've been wanting for a long time...
What should I do?? (link)
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You will find someone who doesnt make you nervous to say yes. You will find someone where there will be no competition. Wait for him to come. It might takes years. But trust me, it is worth it.
You dont have to be mean turning the other guys down. She let them know that you are just living life right now and you would rather not date. They will be ok! Good luck!
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I am friends with my crush on Facebook and I posted something saying that the first to like I would tell who my crush is and my crush liked it first so what do I do. I am 14 and a female (link)
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Say It. If he was the first to like it, you know he is at the least interested in who you like. Could be a good sign. He probably already knows.
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I'm a 12 year old female. I was always interested in ghosts ever since I was a kid. I still am. I find death and the paranormal romantic and fascinating. I'm not suicidal or amything I just am attracted to the idea of spirits, afterlife and the such. I am Wiccan, so I believe in summerland and reincarnation. My relatives always told me when I was young I could name everybody in the family album even relatives no one told me about and identified them as "the man on the stairs" "the women in the kitchen" etc. More recently I identified a grandpa of mine who died before I was born. I had a panic attack at seeing him and my mom told me he didn't die happy...but there's still that. My cousin does the same thing. I love reading horror books and ghost stories. I'm wondering is being attracted to ghosts normal? (Also no Christians telling me I'm going to hell or whatever) (link)
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Your soul/spirit/ghost is eternal, never dies. The only reason other people cannot see the other real is because we are not trained to on top of some chemicals that fog vision. Very normal and ok. Now watching and entertaining horror shows and head spinning demons is not necessarily the best approach. Try watching things like Saving Hope.. Heart and Souls.. Ghost... Flatline (if you are 18+)
"Ghosts" and spirits are not creepy and elusive and evil. They are just people that have passed to the realm that the untrained eye cannot see.
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There's this guy in my jazz group who I'm definetly getting feelings for. I'm not certain he is at that point, but these past few rehearsals I feel like we've been making a lot of eye contact. It almost feels... electric. I can hardly stop looking at him, and (though I might be crazy) I think I'm not the only one stealing glances. Lately it just seems like my eyes find his across the room. We chat amicably too, more so than usual, but he's friendly with everyone (including a few other girls in the group)... What do I do? We're almost on a break for summer, and I don't want to let this pass me by. But I don't even know if I'm just imagining things, and don't want to risk messing things up. (link)
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Tell the boy that you find him attractive and like his vibes. ASk him if he likes you. It's really that simple. If he says yes, be you. If he says anything besides an immediate yes, move on.
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the following happened on 30th jan, me and my guy were naked. his penis was near my vagina. i have never had sex. so i dont allow him to insert his penis in my vagina. he was just touching my vagina with his penis. not totally near my vaginal opening but near the inner thigh and on my belly and he touched once above the clit. in between i was giving him blowjob and he was fingering me too. he came at the end when we were all done. i got my period (atleast i think it was) on 21st february. my period usually lasts for 6 days but this time it lasted for only 4 days. it was red and heavy but not that heavy too. in march i got my period on 31st and it lasted for 5 days. first day i had dark brown colored flow and the flow was less. on second day i had bright red colored flow and it wasnt too less or too heavy but definitely a little less than the flow that i usually have on the second day.
and both the times i didnt have cramps also like i usually do have. no nausea, no breast tenderness nothing. only from past two days im feeling very hungry. yesterday i had leg pain and i feel some discomfort in tummy. apart from that nothing else. am i pregnant? or its just my hormones? please help.
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Stop fooling around with this boy. You are going to fool around into an early grave with all the stress you are putting on yourself. You aren't pregnant. Brown blood is old blood that did not come out with the last period. Your period changes flow wise based on your mood and eating patterns and stress level. So just take a deep breath. You are not pregnant.
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