I am friends with my crush on Facebook and I posted something saying that the first to like I would tell who my crush is and my crush liked it first so what do I do. I am 14 and a female
adviceman49 answered Saturday April 9 2016, 9:45 am: First there is nothing wrong with masturbation, It is actually a healthy and safe way of relieving sexual tension. No one has ever gotten pregnant from masturbation.
There is also nothing wrong about fantasizing. We all fantasize about things; some sexual and some not. The none sexual fantasies are generally called dreams. For example if we dream of what it would be like to be an Airline Pilot it may be a dream but it is still a fantasy.
There is nothing wrong with any fantasy that helps you relive your sexual tension. I know some girls who have rape fantasies though they would never want to be raped but they think about what it would be like.
For the most part fantasies is your mind allowing you to experience to experience that which you would never allow yourself to experience. There is nothing wrong with this just like there is nothing wrong with masturbation. Just for the record, statistically 3 out of 4 people masturbate. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
Adviceprofessional answered Saturday April 9 2016, 3:12 am: Hi, believe it or not, this is a common question and doubt, and I will try my best to answer it. So, you have two options, you could tell him the truth (That would be a clever way to make the first step) or you could lie to him, telling him you don't have a crush or make up a name.
So number 1, before you tell him you like him, be sure he likes you back, do you notice an physical contact? Does his behaviour change when he is near you? Does he tell you secrets? Does he give you special attention? You can go on youtube or wiki.how and stuff like that to find out if he likes you. There are hundreds of things on the internet that can help you. When you are sure that you like him, tell him something like, "I'll give you a clue, he is ... (Something about him)" Until he figures it out. It will be a clever way to tell him you like him. If he doesn't like you at all, (just as a friend) bummer, you've been friend zoned, but don't give up. Just don't tell him it's him. Tell him something like, "My crush is.... Nobody" or make up a name. Don't make it to obvious though.
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