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What's the deal?
Alright, I'm in my 20's and I'm having an extremely hard time meeting guys. Everytime I meet a guy I have an interest in, they shove me away and will never give me a chance, plus they turn out to be complete jerks. It's rather frustrating. On the other hand when guys approach me they end up stalking me on social media or harass me non-stop up to the point where I am completely suffocated. This may sound whiny, but SERIOUSLY what's going on? I meet jerk after jerk or extremely desperate ones. I'm extremely casual around guys because of all the nonsense I've dealt with. How does everyone meet guys? I've tried some sites and have gone out but don't seem to be meeting healthy men. Advice. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Where do you meet a caliber kind of guy? Thanks in advance.
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Hey!
Usually online dating sites can be a little sketchy, and you do have to be careful of who you're meeting up with. Love isn't something that will happen whenever you want it to happen, it's a very unpredictable thing. I suggest actually going out to bars, clubs, parks, anywhere social and actually meeting people. I know it sounds weird, and you're probably thinking it' 2016, like online dating is what people do now! But honestly we're so consumed by our technology we're not actually meeting real people face to face. I would rather meet the guy of my dreams at a park, cafe etc rather than on some sketchy online dating site.
Anyways I hope this helps you!
-Swimmer133
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You're putting too much pressure on yourself, I understand the need for a companion but you have to take it easy, don't come on too strong to the guys you like. Take some time for yourself. You are your first love, love yourself first. everyone has someone and you'll find yours. It's only a matter of time. Be patient and you'll find love
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I guess there is no way to meet guys, it's all natural stuff. It all works like magic really (not trying to sound corny).
I do feel for you, but trust me, you will meet a few idiots before you meet the right guy, just remember.. You are only 20.. There's no rush :)
Just be yourself, be confident in yourself. You're worth a lot more than the jerks you get :)
I hope I could help in some way, feel free to get back to me!
-DanSkittles13
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