hey! im a 16 yr old female from south east wisconsin. i been thru quite a bit of stuff and i have problems of my own...who doesnt have problems right? well anyways talkin is my thing. i kno that i love to have sum1 to just spill my heart out to whether im really close with them or not. if u have anything u want to ask me about pretty much anything feel free to. im always gonna be here if u need some help on something so juss give me a buzz....~!~xoxo~!~
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I am a 17/f in my senior year in high school. I am not very popular, and hang out with the loser, or nerd crowd. The few friends that I have are not very nice to me, but I put up with them because I would rather have some mean friends then none at all. Well last week, one of my "friends" told the most popular guy in our class that I was checking out his butt. ( This wasnt true, but because my face went red they all assumed it was). I was mortified and just walked away. All my friends laughed at me, and the guy just looked uncomfortable. There was just me and my two friends, and him. He had none of his popular friends there to witness this. Well anyways, the next day I kept catching him staring at me. When I would look at him he would look away. This would also happen in our english class. Well on friday, we had a grad council meeting in the cafeteria. He was there, and when no one else was looking, I had to walk by him. This is when he gave me a huge smile, in kind of a sexy, flirtatius way. I was shocked and never said anything. Anyways, my question is: do you think he may really like me? I find it hard to believe because he's the class valedictorian and jock, and can have any girl in school. I also heard he doesnt have a gf right now. Or do you think he's just playing a trick on me? (link)
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if i was you..id string him along a little bit..just to see if he really is interested in you. play a lil hard to get...when he looks at you or smiles or whatever he does...just smile back...dont make it like an obnoxious OMG IM DROOLING OVER YOU smile..just a cute flirtacious one. maybe say hi or something..just keep his attention..and with you saying he is mr popular my guess is that he also isnt shy around girls either..so if he does really like you..he'll come to you...like the others said. he could be pulling your chain but you never know..and plus..once you're out of highschool. you never have to see any of those people again if you dont want to...so take a few risks.:P best of luck with the jock!
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is masturbation bad for your body? (link)
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no its not bad for your body. i think its a good thing. i mean if you can touch yourself you wont go out n be a slut having other people touch you. you wont hurt yourself doin it coz you kno what hurts and what feels good. and plus. your hand cant break your heart.
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what kind of exercise can you do to make your boobs bigger, i heard that there are exercises for that..??
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you are 13yrs old. 13yr olds arent fully developed yet so just wait a few years and your boobs will prolly get bigger. there is nothing else you can do right now. so yea. just wait
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This sounds like a really childish question to ask but..thongs.
My mom thinks they give the wrong message across when a 14 year old wears them.
But I still want to wear them because I hate it when you can see the panty lines. They're just so ugly!
They make me feel weird knowing that you can see them! I hate it. There's probably nothing wrong with it, but I still don't like it.
I don't know what to do though. I wear boy shorts alot, they don't show as many lines but I don't really like them. I wanna feel comfortable.
My friend told me to just confront my mom and tell her that I don't like the lines I get with regular panties but I can't do that, LOL. I don't know why.
Any suggestions? (link)
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well i dont see anything wrong with thongs. ive been wearin them since like 6th grade. for the same reason you want them. they are really comfortable and as long as you arent like a slut takin ur clothes off around guys n everyone then it isnt suggestive. just tell your mom you arent a slut and arent taking your clothes off for people and you just want to feel comfortable walking around school and town.
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okay, so this guy i am "together with" which means we are pretty much going out without the label. anyway, he says he likes me alot, but doesnt think we would be able to have a relationship because he doesnt think i would want him to finger me, or i wont give him head. and the truth is, i just think it would be akward.. but ive gone out with him before.. and i really want a relationship with him.. he doesnt want to have sex with me.. just do everything else. but ive never given anyone head, and ive never been fingered.. im 14.. and i didnt think i should be doing that stuff.. what should i do? (link)
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sweetie hes using you. dont do anything with him. if you havent done anything like that with a guy the last thing you want is for your first time to be with someone who is using you. trust me sweetie. it will only hurt ya.
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i have this friend that i really like...and i wanna show him how much i like him..if you know what i mean ;]..anywaysz..he alwaysz talksz to me and he makesz it seem that he wants me that way too..and i really want him..i just want to suprise him..like an unexpected thing..the thing is..i have NO clue how to make that come about..and i really wanna get him hott and excited ;]...please..if you have any tips or tricks..please let me know..i rate high =]
thanks :] (link)
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DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM:| seriously im speaking from expecience. i lost my virginity to a guy who is my friend. we were just chillin watchin movies and he knew i liked him. and i really do like him...well we were watching movies and started kissing. got caught up in the moment and one thing led to another and now im back where i started. watching him go back to the girl he was supposedly done with. and im stuck with nothing. things changed for the worse around here n now i have all sorts of people saying bad things about him and it ruined mine and his reputation. trust me it isnt worth it. maybe just like tell him you like him and then maybe you guys could start dating or something and then after awhile if its right then have sex. but dont just open your legs for him and think that it will show him you "love" him or whatever. trust me he will just take advantage of the opportunity and then just ditch ya.
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ok, my friend andy invited me to sleepover on friday night. hes having a sleepover and i really wanna go. the only thing is... im a girl... and andy is a guy so my parents will probably say no. my friend tia is going too... but i dont think that will help convince them much. im thinking about saying im sleeping over tias and then going with her to andys... but im scared my parents would find out... what should i do? please help me... (link)
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just tell them that and hope for the best. have a good time and it will be worth the trouble...if you do end up gettin caught. just do something out of the ordinary. dont worry so much. chances are that everything will go good anyways and your parents will never kno
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i was wondering if you could tell me at what age you had sex. not a lecture to wait or what can happen,, just what age you had it. thanks. (link)
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16. and i really wish i had waited.
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whats the site to that talking strawberry little video thing..with the strawberry and a baby?? haha its so funny
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www.albinoblacksheep.com
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im 13 and i dont have my period yet. its been like 3 years since my breats stared developing and like 1 since ive developed pubic hair. my cousin had her period when she was 12. so i think there might be something wrong with me. please help. and dont say see a doctor, i cant. (link)
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there isnt anything wrong with you some girls dont get it until they are like 16 so dont worry if u dont get it by the time ur 17 then see a doctor.
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yesterday when i went to school i got my period and it leaked though the pad and then i went to the nurse and she wanted to know what happened so i told her and she gave me a diper type thingy and it was like 6 inches thick all over and i was wearing really tight jeans today and everyone saw me and they were calling me diper butt and then i went to the nurse again and she gave me another one and she put 2 on me and it was like thick like 12 inches or sumthing and everyone was making fun of me and then she put this thing on me and it make me have a huge but and like i couldnt get it off and when i did she took me back and gave me 3 and then i couldnt like move but she said oh well and everyone was really making fun of me and i dont know what to do it make me look so fat and like since they were tight jeans it made me look huge everywhere like the frong between my legs and my but and i dont know what to do. help me! (link)
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*laughs histerically*.....omg hunnie TAMPONS are your new best friend....thats all i can tell ya...people will get over it and all the name calling will be put in the past....and if not just be like "yea i have muh fuckin period so fuck off" that will shut em up...guys dont know how to react to that kind of stuff....but girls understand it straight up...good luck hunnie...and remember...tampons!!!
~nichole~
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Do guys enjoy biting on the bottom lip during kissing?
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yea i think its hott as hell....biting the bottom lip is a total turn on...at least for me it is! good luck!
~nichole lynne~
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im 13 5foot and 106 or 107 pounds and my stomach isfat when ever i sit down u can seemy gutandits discusting ihate ithowcan i loose wiehgt fomr just mystomach? i havegreat legsso i dont wannachange that orfrom my but only mystomach i jsus wanta flat stomach and wehn u touch it its hard how can i get this? (link)
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my first piece of advice to you is to learn how to type properly. and then if you can master that then go do some crunches you fatass. nobody wants to see a fat chick who cant type
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I've had a boyfriend for like 4 months. He's my first. He's really shy and so am I. Since both our parents are really strict I can only see him at school. I really want to kiss him on the lips but I'm too shy and I never seem to have the right time to. Please note that Im thirteen 1/2. My eight grade year has been great. Middle school is almost over, and I wanna have my first kiss, now. How can we both get over being shy when we see each other? (link)
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you need to see him other than just in school...having a boyfriend that you only see in school is lame...especially because school is almost over...duh...talk to your parents about gettin to know him and stuff...and if they refuse...sneak out and go spend time with him duh! then you will both get over being shy...it just takes time hunnie best wishes
~nichole~
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My best friend lives in another state. She thinks shes in love with this guy who's 17 (my friend is 14/f). I've never met him, but i really don't trust him. He's currently in jail, and he has a baby on the way with his Ex-girlfriend. I really want to help my friend, but she thinks shes in love with this criminal. he was arrested for drunk driving! SHe doesnt want me to judge him, but i cant help but judge him! what am i supposed to do? should i support her, even though i think she's gonna get hurt, or should i keep trying to convince her not to keep giving this guy everything he wants? (link)
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you have never met the guy...you have no place what so ever to judge him on his past...you have no place to tell her to stay away from the guy...yes as her best friend you can tell her that you personally dont trust the guy and that you care about her a lot and dont want to see her get hurt but in the end it is up to her...he may be in jail for drunk driving but at least he is serving his time...many people run from the police so they dont have to go to jail...he is fulfilling his punishment and paying for his mistakes and the jail time will probably get him to learn from his mistakes....and the baby thing...accidents do happen...condoms break...the pill doesnt ALWAYS work... but dont get up the guys ass about having a kid...as long as he takes care of his responsibility then he is already better than thos dead beat dads out there that bail on their kids...give the guy a chance..everybody deserves a chance just let him prove himself to her and you...and anybody else that he needs to...if he loves her then he will...if not then..well then it just wasnt meant to be...she may get hurt in the end but she has to make her own choices...
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how early can you tell if you are pregnant? I am 16 and i am on the patch, i got off my regular schedule of the patch a month ago or so. The past three days i have had nausia and stomach aches, and they feel different than i have ever had. I also just have a gut feeling i might be pregnant, i jsut bought a pregnancy test tonight, and i plan on takeing it toamrrow morning. IT is one of those 5 days before your missed period, and today is fri and i should be getting my period on sun,mon, or tues. I can't wait though, im really nervous. and i am wondering if it does come out negative tomarrow, if it could be wrong just because of how early it is?
now also, do i tell the guy i'm sleeping with? because i am afraid he will not like me ne more, and i am pretty sprung off of him right now. i mean i know that if i am pregnant its early and i could probably take a pill, but either way i am not haveing a baby so is there even a need to let him know? he is jsut gunna get all worked up about it and upset, and he ahs a lot going on right now as it is. (link)
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first of all i would like you to know that abortion is MURDER...and no i am not saying that to scare you...it really is MURDER...If you abort the baby you are punishing a potential human for your mistakes...unprotected sex isnt appropriate unless you are trying to get pregnant or are married. Your child shouldnt lose his/her life just because you and your fuck buddy screwed up...if you are pregnant then yes you should tell him because that is his child too...dont just erase the baby and try to forget it...i also tell you not to abort the baby because of the effects it will have on you...yes right now it may seem like the right thing to do but trust me it is not...a friend of mine had an abortion and now is mentally distraught...she is suicidal because of the GUILT...i dont want you to go through the same thing that she is going through....i cant tell you if the test will be wrong because of how early it is but buy a few extra tests and if your period is late then take one every couple days to a week...or you could always just go the planned parenthood and get a test done... but my best advice to you is to just take it one day at a time and keep your options open and i beg you..if you are pregnant do not punish your child by taking his or her life because of an accident...there are plenty of couples who CANT have kids for medical reasons that would LOVE to care for and adopt your baby...there is a thing called open adoption where the biological parents pick the couple that adopts the baby...the choosing process happens while you are pregnant and then you have time to get to know the couple really well and most of the time that caring couple who will adopt your baby will allow you to see the baby and keep in contact with the baby...that way you arent completely blind to your child's childhood... dont abort that baby if you are pregnant...give the child to a couple who cant have kids...its the right thing to do...best of luck to you and your boyfriend...best wishes
~nichole~
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Hey everyone.. i need names for my older sister she's pregnant again and she wanted some different names that are forgein or just something unique.. well we liked the name Nevaeh which spells Heaven backwards but she dont know anymore names and we also would like middle names and we need both boys and girls names.. so please help ill rate high thanks in advance... (link)
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ok here are my personal favorite names they arent foreign or anything just unique...for a boy....Courtland James *last name*...for a girl...Charlotte Lillith *last name*....some other boy names could be:
Breyden
Colten
Aden
Ari
Asher
Blaine
Bryce
Carson
Dakota
Darien
Emerson
Heath
Miles
Orion
Payton
Pearce
Quinn
Reilly
Rory
Ryder
Seth
Shiloh
Wren
Xavier
gurl names could be:
Aaliya
Allegra
Ariel
Briana
Celeste
Chloe
Fern
Hoku
Kamilah
Keeley
Kendra
Kori
Madison
Mercedes
Misty
Nichole, Nicole, Nikole, Nicholle
Paige
Piper
Reanna
Solange
Tabitha
Talia
Taryn
Tawny
sorry i wasnt much help on middle names...i really have no clue what i would use for middle names for the ones i listed except for the very first 2 names i told you....let me know what she names the baby...best of luck to your sister with her pregnancy
xoxo
~Nichole Lynne~
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Yesterday my boyfriend of six months broke up with me. We broke up because he has to work this summer and he says itll be really hard for him to just see me for one day a week instead of the six that were used to. I was so sad after hearin this, I cried almost all night cause i really miss him. Now last night he started to second guess himself, and he tells me how he made a huge mistake and he didnt think it thru. Well he wants me back for the summer. What sould i do, I do really like him amd want him around. Should i let him back??? just be friends??? or take a step backwards and say were just dating again????? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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take him back...everybody deserves a second chance...its not like he cheated on you or dumped you so he could go have a one night stand with somebody and then wants you back...the boy made a mistake...everyone makes mistakes...take him back and then come the end of summer right before school starts if you guys are still together and are doing really well then you talk about what you are gonna do when he goes to a new school...best of luck to the 2 of you hope it all works out
~nichole~
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Ok me and my boyfriend have been goin out 4 about 5 weeks now. But i recently found out that his best friend likes me and i have liked his bestfriend since last year. I dont wannna hurt anyone by saying i dont wanna going out w/ so and so but idk what to do. Should i dump my boyfriend 4 his bestfriend because i have liked him longer or should i stay w/ my boyfriend and just have a big crush on my bfs best friend? I dont wanna hurt anyone! (link)
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thats a tough situation...if it was me i wouldnt date either of them...just break up with your boyfriend and tell him that you want to be good friends with him...and stay good friends with that other guy too...and then...if you do end up being in love with one of them then u date the one you're in love with...but dont rush anything ya kno?
best wishes
~nichole~
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i had unprotected sex with my boy friend 3 months ago, ive had mild cramps in my tummy ever since i've taken 4 preg tests 2 possative then negative (early miscarrige)then today i was told to take another because it didnt add up it was negative.. they still think i had the miscarrige but now they think i've got Chlamydia!!!!! im so f**king scared im only 14 and cant take losing the baby and now maybe having this, they took swobs (spelling), i cryed the hole time, but i knew it was for the best i just dont know what to do, what will they do if they find out i have got it?? what are the symtoms anyways?? will i have to tell my mum and dad???
im so s**t scared?? has anyone here had it??
thanks! (link)
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well einstein...no more unprotected sex...that will do you wonders!...and yea you should tell your parents...because yea it will show up on their insurance paper work if you went throught their insurance policy...if you didnt go through their insurance then just wait until you find out whether you have it or not...and then if you do have it...you tell them...if you dont have it...then there is really no reason for them to need to know...best of luck with everything...and im sorry to hear about the loss of your child...hope you make it through everything ok
~nichole~
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