Hello. My name is Sarah Makredij Boghsaian. I'm 16 years old. I'm from Australia but I live in Egypt. Like: Chocolates, Hot guys, Socks, William Shakespeare, Charles Darwin, Moulin Rouge, Random people, Horror movies, Boxing, Shoes, Rock n Roll, Piercings, Tattoos, Dying my hair, Losing weight, Screaming, Violence, Fighting, Weed, Alcohol, PS, Cars, Different, Craziness, Dancing, Painting, Drawing, Writing, Imagination, Drums, Drum-Sticks, Making the world a fair place, Ideas, Friends, Talking to myself, Marilyn Manson, Music, Fashion, Jumping on my bed, Partying, Vampires, Monsters, Jeff Dunham, Soccur, Anne Rice, Shisha, SMOKING, Reading, Science-Fiction, Clubbing, New York, Gossip Girl, Brother, T.V, Sleeping, Saw, Mohawks, Politics, Wachen Festival, Germany, Mercedes,God, Winter, Black, Monkeys, Hot-topic, Big Mac, Wine, Pepsi, Boxers, Sweet. Dislike: Paris Hilton, Miley Cyrus, Serouise Situations, Quietness, Blondes, Jonas brothers, Girly Girls, Smelly guys, Small Places, Apologizing, Prison, Police, George Bush, BMW, Jerks, Nerds, Weak, Angels, Salt, Morning, Time
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Opinion question-
What do you prefer out of:
One Lip Piercing.
Snake Bites.
Spider Bites.
Double Spider Bites.
Totally your own opinion.
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Snake Bites. I was scared to get mine because I thought I couldn't pull it off or it's going to look too much and all those kind of questions went through my mind.
But they are AWESOME.
Good Luck =]=]
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Hello i have a big issue with my husband watching porn. I feel like im not good enough for him. He promised me up and down that he hasnt watched it since the last time i told him how much i disliked it. I recently just found out that he's been watching it this whole time and now i feel like i cant believe him. He's in the army and he wont be home for 3 months. I know its not a big deal to alot of people but for me it is and promises mean alot to us. I'm just so devastated that he lied to me.. What should i do? (link)
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Well I'm afraid to tell you that marriage needs sacrfice. Also, you need to remember he's in the army, where there is work work work and work without a sigh of the gender females, so you should be understanding on this side.
And also consider that lying to you may have been unintentionally or unavoidable. I mean put yourself in his shoes, you want to watch porn but you love your wife and want to satisfy her.
Personally, I think you should try on working on this with yourself and try to accept it.
Porn never means that you aren't good enough. And I'm absouletly sure about this.
I just think you should really talk to him about it, like ask him about why he does it and what made him lie to you, and tell him how you felt about. It's going to make you feel better and maybe accept the porn situation.
Good Luck =]=]
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I am a 25 year old female. And it's this guy I've been seeing for the past month. Ok here goes... Our first time being togeather we went out to eat. And everytime following we only went to his place. We have been intimate everytime we see each other and we only see each other like at night mainly after ten at night.
I have gained really deep feelings for this guy in such a short peiord of time. I usually go over his house because he lives alone, and my aunt lives with me until she gets her own home. And when I do go over we usually watch a movie. But what I've come to notice is he don't cuddle with me during the movie he don't put his arm around me only time he wants to cuddle is mainly when we are about to have sex. And we mainly have sex after we finish watching the movie. And another thing I notice is that he shows no emotion towards me. He's always getting phone calls late at night and he runs in the room to answer the phone.
And just the other day when I was over, I forced him to have a talk with me. I asked him how he really felt about me and I told him I tiered of just having sex and I didn't want to this time. So he told me told me thathe had to meet with his brother and I had to leave. I was hurt and really confused.
And yesterday I found out my best friend of twenty years past away. And when I got the news I was over his house. He didn't confort me he didn't hold me and I was really crying... He just took me home and he still haven't call to check up on me. It's easy to just leave a guy alone that you don't really care about but... When theres feeling involved it's always so hard for me to leave. Usually their the ones who leave me and that's how I usually move on. And it's so hard right now alot of things in my life haven't been going right. What should I do? And how can I do it? (link)
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Are you kidding me? When I was reading this I thought he might have an explantion or he is just a strange guy in general.
But when I got to the middle till the end. Well, What can I say besides I am completely unbelievably shocked.
The dude is a jerk (i'm sorry for you friend) and he should be comforting you even if he has no feelings for you at a situation such.
You are right, maybe a lot has been going in your life and that's why you don't need drama and you need to let him go.
If you don't do it now, then you will get attached more and soon, it will become harder to let go.
But it's alright, the world isn't over, there is other fish in the sea and plus you got the mean fish.
A person who makes you get hurt and confused, then he is most definitely not worth your time.
But if you or myself misjudged him then I guess he will call and explain his behavior.
Good Luck =]
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My ex boyfriend still wants to talk to me? I dont know what to do! Im still in love with him so i think it will hurt me being friends with him :( when he asked me i said i wasnt sure, and he seemed pretty p!ssed about that because he said "we've been through a lot together" should i decline the offer of friends and move on with my life? (link)
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Well I can't really answer that question for you. Because you need to do what really makes you comfortable.
What's he doing by getting pissed is not reasonable but it does have a reason. You see, it's pretty normal when you break up with someone you love, you can't get over them easily and then you want them badly more than you did before and that's what's happening with him.
But one thing, this break up and friends thing never works.
Why? Because relationships start with a friendship and then takes another step which becomes a relationship but it can never go back to friendship.
You have to considerit, it might get you confused you guys hanging out. Or him calling you. Or whatever. Trust me, I have been there for a whole 2 years.
You will feel the temption of speaking to him, but space and distance helps.
Good Luck =]
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okay im female 16 and have only had boyfriends
but lately ive been looking at lesbian porn :S i enjoy it .. does this mean im bi??? (link)
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It depends.
I like all kind of porn but I don't really see myself completely Bi.
Why? Because, I have sexual desires towards girls but it isn't passion.
So you need to figure it out yourself if it's sexual desires or complete true feelings.
Good Luck =]
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I just met a new friend this year. I thought she was amazing. Except she is kinda strange b/c she dresses emo and goth but says she's not. She also is OBSESSED with tokio hotel and hellboy. And it gets sooooooo anoying b/c she talks about them all the time. So she also told me in the beginning of the year that alot of ppl turn on her b/c they think she's wierd and gets really mean. And I was like "that could never happen with us. Well be friends forever." boy was I wrong. We always had fights. One day we'd be friends and then the next we'd be enemies. So one day I was walking home with my friend and he asked to have her number. I told him I'd have to ask her first. So the next day I was joking around and told her I gave him her number. So then she said.....and I quote....."so I don't care" so then I gave it to him. Then the next day she was all mad at me. Cussing me out, talking about me behind my back, pushing me out of her way in the halls. She just is such a jerk. Then one time....since she's obsessed with tokio hotel I was telling her that bill looked like a girl. So then she says "OMG NO HE DOESNT!!!!! If he looks like a girl then that means you look like a boy." so then our friend Mariah told her the EXACT SAME THING. And then she replies "I kno seriously. He needs to change his image" and I was standing there lik WTF So what should I do???????should I stay friends with the basterd or try to fix the friendship?????? (link)
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A person who cusses you out, talks behind your back and pushs out in the halls and calls themselves your friend is most definitely not worth your time.
Plus you need to stand up for yourself. Don't let her push you around. Screw her! you need to tell to back off, you need to yell in her face telling her that she has issues and needs a life and also to find somewhere else to obsesses over bill kaultez.
Good Luck =]
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Basically, I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months now. He's 16 and I'm 14, so hes leaving school soon.
Im just really worried about him leaving. Going to college, meeting other girls, possibly moving on. :(
it really stresses me out thinking about it, cos I really am in love with him. Obviously because im young people will think it's stupid for me to think I'm in love :/
but to be honest only i know how I feel and I don't want to ditch all my friends for him but i cant really help it? :S
I love spending time with him and he says he wants to be with me forever. (link)
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Well it doesn't matter if your 14, 18, 40, or 10. You have a problem and I'm just going to advice you on it, not based on your age. (So you don't have to worry about that)
You have to be ready for anything that would come your way. Maybe him cheating on you since he is going to a whole new environment and him wanting to experiemnt college, so you have to be easy on him. Do not pressure him. Do not call him 100 times a day. Do not be jealous. Do not be suspiouce. Do not be insecure.
Just make sure he knows that you trust him, and that you are completely okay if he wants to take a break. And that if something happened that will sadden you, he would be honest and tell you about it.
You have to be patient. Eventually, he'll realise what a great girl he has. But then he would have to choose between take it or leave it.
Good Luck =]
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I've known my best friend since 4th grade, and we're almost 20 now. She's been dating her boyfriend for a while. Her boyfriend and my boyfriend used to be best friends, but there was a bunch of drama a while back and they stopped talking. Recently, we all started talking again and everything seemed fine. But today, my friend called me and said that ever since our boyfriends have started talking again, he's been really mean to her and has been acting like he doesn't need her anymore. This was definitely not what me and my boyfriend wanted, we thought it would make everything better since we could all hang out again without the awkwardness. But he's been calling her names and telling her what to do, and just acting weird. Any advice for this situation? (link)
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Well I may sound clueless but I am going to be honest.
It isn't your or your boyfriend's fault that her boyfriend is being a jerk.
I mean she is your bestfriend, and you guys have to be together all the time. On the other time, he is your boyfriend/partner so personally, I think it was a good idea to start hanging out all together again.
It would be easier for making plans and having fun with two people you love.
But if your bestfriend is blaming you or your boyfriend for her boyfriend's action then she is very wrong, because you don't decide for his action. (I am just saying because your question isn't clear enough)
Or, if your bestfriend doesn't want your boyfriend to talk to her boyfriend, then I guess the friendship didn't work after all, end it without drama. I don't think you want to loose your bestfriend.
Be there for your bestfriend and ask your boyfriend not to have any contact with her boyfriend until this is cleared out so no real drama to be occured.
Good Luck=]
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Okay to make this very long story short, my boyfriend of two months cheated on me. We were bestfriends at first for over a year and a half before we dated. I'm 17 btw. I've always cared so much and beileved in him when no else did, his reputation for being a man whore always bothered me. His phone had been "broken" for about two weeks and I get this text saying hey. I started to notice it wasn't him and whoever was on the phone was beating around the bush about what they were doing. So "kate" let's call her, starts saying that my bf is hot, that he wants her a whole bunch of bull that I simply ignored. Kate ends up sending me a text saying I I shouldn't be happy because Im not the one making out with him now. I broke down. Later on that night he admitted to what she said and showed some remorse. Then day at school I saw he had a HUGE hickey on his neck. I still didn't want to beileve it. So at lunch Kate sits at choking distance so now my friends torment her and I'm a well known person so now the whole cafe hates her. I'm still unhappy my bf and I still together we sat down and talked it out it was long but we thought about it alot i still couldn't believe he let her get a hold of his phone. I know I'm stupid for taking him back but I'm in love. /: I still depressed haven't eaten in 4 days and not really much sleep either.
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the fool (link)
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You do realise what you're doing is just hurting you more and it is most definitely not healthy.
You guys have been dating for two months only so you should be grateful that it isn't a year. You can get over it, and will get over him sooner or later.
You simply fell for the wrong guy, but you aren't the first. There is people out there who went through cheating but the world doesn't end there. You have to believe you deserve better and not lower yourself to a point of just letting him talk you out of breaking up.
You have to also care about your diginity, your own boyfriend was making out with a girl who cursed you with his own phone and he let it happen.
He did it once then he can do it again. You can't love someone you can't trust. And you can't stay in this relationship either.
Good Luck =]
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Like I had dis problem with my girlfriend see I really don't like my girlfriends to drink cause who knows wats gonna happen when they get drunk :( and like my new girlfriend now we been going out 4 3months now and we love each other to death and like she used2 drink but she stopped becuz of me but she is gonna go to dis birthday party dis week 4 her cousin and I know it's gonna be alcohol there but she said she wasn't gonna drink any but her cousins might pressure her or she might just sneek and drink some and I can't go to da party so idk wat to do I'm just scared she might get drunk I told her already but she said she's not how do I know she will never tell :( (link)
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If you love her so much then you guys must be in a serious relationship.
I am certainly not judging, but an honesty relationship is based on trust and obviously you don't have that towards her.
And even if she drank, the world isn't over nor is your relationship.
Good Luck =]
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I met this boy from another school a couple years ago, we talked alittle, asked to be friends on facebook (All that Jazz). Well, once a year our schools visit each other and stuff, well we talked like we usually do and then the next thing I know he's IMing me. He must have gotten it off my facebook or something but I said something like "Did you like today? Did I make it interesting?" and his reply was "Kinda... and yesss you did! =)" I took that as a little flirting so we've been flirting on AIM and I kinda want to see him again and hang out to get to know him a little better. Right now he's on a class trip til like Saturday or something. So what do you think? Do you think he likes me? Do you recommend us hanging out? How should I ask him??
Btw, I'm 17 almost 18. Same for him. (link)
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Well I don't recommend asking him out without knowing him good enough so you can avoid drama.
Just generally go with the flow about it. Like if he texts then text back. If you are free and want to hang out with him then just go like "do you have any plans today?" and I think he will get the idea and ask you to hang out.
If he likes you, he will give you signs. The flirting is a sign but it isn't strong enough. Personally, I literally flirt with everyone so it's just the way I am. My point is don't expect much just go with the flow you know.
Like he might be intersted or he finds you cool to talk to as a friend.
Be patient, get to know him and then see what happens.
Good Luck =]
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So I'm 19/f and the guy is 18. We've actually known each other for a long time,so we're friends but I have a bit of a crush on him and whenever we see each other we're usually with a group of people. I'm fine with him when we're with other people but when it's just me and him I completely freeze up .. YES even at 19!
If this is long, sorry! I'll deff return the favor :)
He's my cousins neighbor and for example, last week I pulled up to my cousins house and he was outside and I hadn't seen him for like a month. I decided to go over and talk to him and oh my goshhh he was so adorable and to make things worse he had his shirt off. I walked up and he gave me a hug & I just never know what to say! I was like whats up :) where have you been! and he was like hahaa I've been here, where the hell have you been? And i was like busy .. really busy and he was like doing what? And I was like just everything. Then things got silent like we didn't know what to say next and my dumb self said so hows your girl situation? And he was like what girl situation and I was like i dont know do you need help with any girls and he kind of laughed and was like nahhh. And he was cleaning out his car so I was like what are ya doing with your car and he was like putting my baseball stuff in and I was like ohhh do you have practice? And he was like in a little bit and then it got silent and I was like uhhh now what. We both kind of just stood there haa talk about awkward!! I HATE leaving him its so hard but I didn't want it to be all awkward so I was like well I'm going to go to Nates (my cousins) and then I could see him looking at me the whole time I was walking next door to my cousins.
Well then a few hours later me nate and him were outside playing basketball and we were fine. he was constantly flirting with me and touching me and so it's like we have this comfort when other people are around and we talk so much more. ughhh this is not normal is it! haha seriously, how can I not be such a geek and just talk to him normally when we're together!!
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Well when you like someone and go on to talk to him, you are naturally nervous so that's normal. And when I say nervous, it includes lack of words and awkardness in a conversation.
When the other person is in the same position that just means he likes you back. I am just asuming though.
All you need to do is relax, try to be chill. Like don't give short answers, even if you are going to talk too much about something so not important while you get to a point of babbling. It's alright as long as you are talking, and I guess he'll try to ease it to you and say something interesting, you can call it practice so you guys get used to the fact that it's okay to talk while no one is around and it's okay to hang out too.
Good Luck =]
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i am 19. i am in a 5 year relationship and we have a one year old son together. i am going to college to be a nurse. lately there have been a lot of problems between my b/f and i. well i was going to move out, until i found out that i am pregnant. now i have cancelled my new apartment and am staying here for now. i know that we will not be together forever and i do not want to raise two kids alone. i am considering abortion and have an appointment scheduled for next friday. my b/f wants the baby and is excited. everyone in our family already knows that we are expecting again. i am too young to give up my life completely. i do not know what to do. if anyone has any advice i would really appreciate it. by the way, i am 8 weeks pregnant and due on christmas. PLEASE HELP (link)
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It all goes back to your deep-inside feelings.
It's how you feel about it, if your okay with doing it and you wont regret it then go for it no matter what people tell you.
Its your life and guilt, no theres.
Think wisely about how you going to feel after the abortion. Yes, I have to admit he sucks but you have to suck it up.
Good Luck =]
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My boyfriend and I have been talking about getting married and I am fine with that. I actually can not wait. He is my world. The thing is that I want to get my mom's wedding band and engagement ring. My aunt has both of them because my mom passed away. I live to far from her to ask her in person. So I wrote her a letter asking her for the rings. She promised I would get them when I graduated and well, I graduated 2 years ago. I have let it be until now and i do not think she will give them to me. She knows how I feel about getting them and what not. Do you think that she will send them to me? (link)
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Alright! You'll never know till you ask her yourself.
Calling can work but face to face is way better. Maybe you don't have a relationship and it's uncomfortable for you to talk to her after a long time since you did.
Besides why wouldn't she want to give you the ring and band, she isn't getting married anytime soon. So there is no main reason that you can suspect her of.
Just give her a visit and ask her to be a part of your wedding, you never know when the world will turn its back on you and you will always need a family member by your side.
Good Luck =]
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Okay, there's this guy I like. But, I'm not sure he likes me back. He isn't very nice to me around his friends, and he wasn't mean before I told him I like him. BUT I went to a sports game of his, and he kept looking at me. Is it because I was out of place or not? PLEASE HELP! Thanks for your time- Sakura (NOTE: Some evil guy told him that I liked him, and he said "Ewww." Is that true, or immaturity? But some time later I told him I liked him. Also, at the sports game, I told him 'good game' and he gave me a weird look. Is that because his friends were around?)
Hehe... I've never had a boyfriend or a first kiss so... I also feel left out since I've always been the reject.
Sorry I've been asking the same question on a bunch of columns, but I'm kind of desperate for help. Thanks. (link)
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Okay. I like to be fully honest so I'm just going to say this.
Guys don't like desperate girls. You are not desperate but you are giving him the impression you are and that is turning him off.
Guys likes the chase, the hunt, and no hunting is fun without a challenge.
Ask yourself this, if this guy came up to you after what he said and asked you out, wouldn't you say yes?
INCORRECT ANSWER!! You should say no and lead him on. Make him give you attention, not the way around.
Good Luck =]
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This is a stupid question. But this guy asked this girl if she had a bush. He said if she did it would be a total turn-off then he said his friend likes it. What is he talking about?
Thanks_ 14 year old. (link)
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It's the hair on your vagina. A bush, it means un-shaved vagina, with a lot of hair on it.
Some guys find it disgusting, and a total turn off but others, it actually turns them on.
Hope I helped =]
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What do you think of these dresses for 8th grade graduation?
Which dress do you like best? + any other suggestions?
http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=437037&CategoryID=37783
http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=447040&CategoryID=18109&LinkType=PDPZ1
http://www3.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6.aspx?DeptID=50455&CatID=51773&GrpTyp=PRD&ItemID=17d8a60&attrtype=&attrvalue=&CMID=50455%7c51280&Fltr=&Srt=&QL=F&IND=39&cmVirtualCat=&CmCatId=50455|51280|51773
http://www3.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6.aspx?DeptID=50455&CatID=51773&GrpTyp=PRD&ItemID=171f5a6&attrtype=&attrvalue=&CMID=50455%7c51280&Fltr=&Srt=&QL=F&IND=45&cmVirtualCat=&CmCatId=50455|51280|51773
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=dress&product%5Fid=2066589810&Page=1
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=dress&product%5Fid=2059045245&Page=3
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=dress&product%5Fid=2060590923&Page=4#
Keep the price in mind.
Is that the kind of dresses you were to graduation?
I don't know what do you think?
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MOST DEFINITELY THE BEST OUT OF ALL...
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=dress&product%5Fid=2066589810&Page=1&cookie%5Ftest=1
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okay,
so I have long-ish brownish hair.
I never have enough time in the morning to do anything to my hair.
I usually go to school with my hair looking like crap.
Sometimes i'll show in the daytime :
then let me hair air-dry and then straighten it at night.
(my hair takes an hour to straighten because its naturally very curly and thick)
So, some ideas of what I can do thats EASY and doesn't take too long.
& please don't send me to a website, because I could just do that. I want somebodys personal opionion.
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Well my hair is wavy but it poofs badly because I damaged my hair a lot like dying it red, white, green, and everything.
I usually get the hair dryer and dry it then do it with the straightner but the trick is my hair is so short (Just like rihanna's hair) so it doesn't take me forever.
My opinion is to dry it with a hair dryer and then see what you can do.
Good Luck =]
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15/F
okay , so I really need a job and I'm all out of idea's.
i've applied at McDonalds twice :
once in August of last year.
and the second just 3 days ago .
i never got a call from the first time ?
i know i'm a little young,
but i'll be 16 in July..
my family doesnt have much spare money to hand out lately,
so i want a job so i can have some extra cash for whatever & also so i can begin saving up for a car.
if you know anyother places that hire my age,
or any good money making ideas are would be greatly appreciated :)
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Besides fast food chains or supermarkets.
You can do something yourself. Like, washing cars. Put up flyers and wash cars for people. Or cleaning houses for your neighboors like doing their garden. Or you can definitely babysit. Put up flyers and you can lie about your age.
I did that once, babysitting for three weeks, 4 hours a day except fridays and I lied about my age.
Good Luck =]=]
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16/ f
okay , sorry if this is reallllly long & confusing.
so me & this girl named Ally became really good friends last summer.
But, when we started to hang out a lot in the beginning, her current bestfriend (Sally) like just got ignored by Ally.
But once me and Ally became really good friends,
then Sally and me started to become pretty close too.
then, soooo much drama occured like SO much.
Ally is the one who caused probably 90% of all the drama. She'd tell me one thing about Sally, and tell Sally something about me. She constantly tried to get me and Sally to hate each other. Sooner or later, it worked. We both fell for Allys lies, ally is such a good liar its hard to tell when she is or isnt.
But one day, Sally and I got tired of Ally's crap and decided we didnt want ANYTHING to do with her .
we simply : befriended her ?
but , instead of accepting that fact :
she made it into a lot bigger deal then it should've been. she tried getting people at school mad at us , which didnt work. because at that time everyone disliked ally alot , because she lies & makes up shit all the time .
its ridiculous.
but monthes passed ,
and i finally forgave her
( i cannnot hold a grudge to save my life )
so , then Sally decided to might as well forgive her to.
then now, all the same crap that happened at the beginning, is replaying.
its insane .
i jusst dont know what to do ?
i dont want to not be friends with either of them because it'd be pointless and cause even more drama.
gah , dont you just loooove high school ? (link)
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If you and Sally know that she is lying and whatever she is going to say, you guys won't beileve her.
You can forgive her for what she did but that doesn't completely mean you have to talk to her. Just ignore her and tell Sally to do so too.
You guys have your life and let her go spread lies and lie as much as she likes. Let her be like that.
When she comes up to you and talks about Sally simply tell her "Ok" and ignore her. Tell Sally to do the same thing, I guess she'll eventually get tired and leave you guys alone.
But don't let a simple lying bitch ruin your friendship, talk through it so no complications or drama.
Good Luck =]
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