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Ex boyfriend
My ex boyfriend still wants to talk to me? I dont know what to do! Im still in love with him so i think it will hurt me being friends with him :( when he asked me i said i wasnt sure, and he seemed pretty p!ssed about that because he said "we've been through a lot together" should i decline the offer of friends and move on with my life?
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Well I can't really answer that question for you. Because you need to do what really makes you comfortable.
What's he doing by getting pissed is not reasonable but it does have a reason. You see, it's pretty normal when you break up with someone you love, you can't get over them easily and then you want them badly more than you did before and that's what's happening with him.
But one thing, this break up and friends thing never works.
Why? Because relationships start with a friendship and then takes another step which becomes a relationship but it can never go back to friendship.
You have to considerit, it might get you confused you guys hanging out. Or him calling you. Or whatever. Trust me, I have been there for a whole 2 years.
You will feel the temption of speaking to him, but space and distance helps.
Good Luck =]
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if you still love him and want him to be in your life then try and be friends with him and see how it works out if your finding that its to hard to be around him because you still love him a lot then let him no this is just to hard for me right now and then maybe after a period of time away from him thinks will work out and you guys can be friends. but like i said if he really means a lot and you want him to be in your life then at least try and keep him in your life
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Hey there..sorry to hear okay..
well that all depends was it a bad break up in general?did he break up with you..how did he do it if so? ask your self theese things.
can you see yourself being able to be JUST friends with this guy?
If you can..you should ask him for a little space first to clear your head come to terms with things and get rid of any feelings as hard as that can be..then once you feel truely ready (youl know trust me when you can look at him and feel nothing)you could be friends.
If however you don't think you can see that or want that happening then id say definately move on.
If this guy is someone who caused you alot of hurt..consider is it even worth being friends?will he just continue to knock you?
consider all of this and you should be able to make a decision! :)
your heart already knows the right answer.Trust it and your instinct.
hope this helped best of luck and
much <3
Jess 16/f
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