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I'm in a fight with my friend
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I just met a new friend this year. I thought she was amazing. Except she is kinda strange b/c she dresses emo and goth but says she's not. She also is OBSESSED with tokio hotel and hellboy. And it gets sooooooo anoying b/c she talks about them all the time. So she also told me in the beginning of the year that alot of ppl turn on her b/c they think she's wierd and gets really mean. And I was like "that could never happen with us. Well be friends forever." boy was I wrong. We always had fights. One day we'd be friends and then the next we'd be enemies. So one day I was walking home with my friend and he asked to have her number. I told him I'd have to ask her first. So the next day I was joking around and told her I gave him her number. So then she said.....and I quote....."so I don't care" so then I gave it to him. Then the next day she was all mad at me. Cussing me out, talking about me behind my back, pushing me out of her way in the halls. She just is such a jerk. Then one time....since she's obsessed with tokio hotel I was telling her that bill looked like a girl. So then she says "OMG NO HE DOESNT!!!!! If he looks like a girl then that means you look like a boy." so then our friend Mariah told her the EXACT SAME THING. And then she replies "I kno seriously. He needs to change his image" and I was standing there lik WTF So what should I do???????should I stay friends with the basterd or try to fix the friendship??????
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A person who cusses you out, talks behind your back and pushs out in the halls and calls themselves your friend is most definitely not worth your time.
Plus you need to stand up for yourself. Don't let her push you around. Screw her! you need to tell to back off, you need to yell in her face telling her that she has issues and needs a life and also to find somewhere else to obsesses over bill kaultez.
Good Luck =]
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You could find better friends. Friends that will treat you right. First try talking to her and explain everything without arguing. If you don't think you can do it without getting into another fight, just don't do it. If you do talk to her and nothing changes, go find better friends. If you decide not to talk to her at all, then do the same thing. Don't be a total jerk to her, you can keep her in your life if you want but keep distance. Find some better friends that you'll be happy with.
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mabe you should try explaining to her how you feel. an if she gets mean or ignores what your saying you should break off the friendship because honestly real friends dont act like that.
hope this helps dear =]
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end it shes obviously not nice and seems a little bitchy so i think you should just let her be and move on and meet new friends i meant why fight all the time when you could spend your time having friend with your real friends. Besides if she was a true friend she wouldnt be doing all that she does to you. So end it now before it gets worse which it can. Good luck :D
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