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I went to my gyno a week or two ago becuase i have had irregular periods for about 5 years so she decided the best thing to regulate my periods and help with my acne, was to put me on the pill..so today i started my period which means tomorrow (since its sunday) will be my first day to take the pill..anyway my question is...i have heard from many people that the pill since it deals with your hormones and such it causes you to gain weight..i am very self contious and a little heavier than i would like to be as it is now..so will it cause me to gain inevitable weight??????? please does anyone know???? (link)
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hey there. I'm a bit heavier then i would like to be, and i've been on the pill for 6 monthes now. it causes little weight gain. it totally depends on her eating habits in my opinion.
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well, Im super scared for my friend. She asked me thia question. "If you're giving a guy a hand job, and he whipes some of the stuff away, and then fingers you, can you get pregnate?"
I have no clue, and i wanna help her and be there for me! Please help me (well, i guess it would be my friend)
If you don't know dont answer, because I only want to tell her the real truth!
thanks! (link)
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yes, she could get pregnant. Sperm is still entering her body, so she could get pregnant.
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ok me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months and weve knnown eachother for a year and we havent really done anything yet...i go to his house every wednesday and we are home all alone..and we just havent done anything...hes not the innocent boy i mean hes not a virgin and neither am i (only once) lol....but i dont knw...weve done handjobs, fingering etc..but not oral or intercourse....he says he doesnt want to rush me into anything because he loves and respects me and my body...im really ready though too and i think he is too...we are only 16...the only fear im having is PREGNANCY! what is the best type of condom, how can you prevent it to break, etc? (link)
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hey there. its great u found a guy like that. they are rare. lol, neways ... just in the heat of the moment, tell him, your ready,and you know he wants it, and you want it real bad, and it will make you closer. lol. Um, personally, I dont think you should be having sex until you think you can handle a baby, but any condom except the glow in the dark ones is good. It's not often that it breaks, and they only way you can prevent it is putting it on right ... you have to squeeze the tip of the condom to get the air out of it. lol. Have fun
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theres this guy that ive liked for about a year or so hes going out with my friend and about a weeek ago we made out and yesterday the girl hes goin out wiht found out he made out with another girl about 5 weeks ago. so i guess id say hes a playerrr . wt do i do? try to get over him or wait till they break up? (link)
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i think you should get over him, because if you wait till they break up, and you two start dating, then there is a chance that he will play you too.
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like a week ago my boyfriend and i were messing around and i gave him a hand job (he put a condom on) and while i was giving him a hand job he was holding his penis and then when i was done he fingered me and my period hasnt started yet but ive been having cramps lately and i usually get cramps but could i be pregnant? (link)
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there's a very small, slight chance you could get pregnant. i mean, when he took the condom off, stuff could have spilled on to his fingers, and when they go into you, you could get pregnant. you can get cramps b4 your period too.
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is it safe to have sex with my wife when she is pregnant? (link)
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yeah, it is totally safe. Actuallyin the ninth month, if she is late, having sex will bring the baby faster and not only would it feel good for your wife, but it will reduce pain when having the baby.
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Hey...im a 14 year old bisexual and i want to have intercourse with the same sex...and i also want to tell my parents but i dont know how they will act... :( im kinda worried..
Signed..14 year old bi guy (link)
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i dont blame you for being worried. Well, i think you should just march right up to them and tell them. Dont wait to think. My boyfriend did that when he told his parents me and him were having sex, and it didn't go so bad. Don't tell them you want to have intercourse with another male ... just tell them your attracted to both males and females, and hopefully they will understand.
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Well, I really don't know where to begin... the problem is, i am helplessly in love with this guy in Year 11 (I'm in Year 9). And whats the problem, you might ask? I have never said a single word to this guy. He is so totally HOT, and, when i look at him, i just want to do everything sexually with him. Another problem is that he is my brothers best friend, so he comes over like, every day. He sometimes smiles at me, and then i do stupid things, like drop the dishes, or trip over my own shoes or something. HELP!!!!!!!! It is getting to the point where i just want to jump on him like an animal or something! What should i do?? (link)
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well, im very sure your not in love with the guy, you don't even know him. Your lusting him, definality. I think you should talk to him. Become friends with him. You never know what could happen when you get to be friends with a guy ... you would be talking on a couch watching a movie, flirting with each other and in a few monthes be having sex on that couch. lol. Time and patience are a key factor dear.
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For my health class we are suppossed to find out if guys mostly prefer virgins or sluts, what do you think? (link)
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hmmm ... i think it depends on the guy. Not to stereotype, but all those guys who are, well "gangster" style, trying to be cool and everything, prefer ... women who have been around the block. lol. Now the other kind of guys, the classy ones for instance, i think are more into the virgins, because they are classy enough to not degrade themself like that
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ok im a girl and i get turned on very easily i guess because anytime i guy touches me in the right way or kisses me or sometimes holds my hand i get really wet "down there".. is that normal for girls to get really wet at the smallest things an to even get wet?! (link)
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yup. that is normal. Horomones are stonger in some women then others. I'm the same way. It's not a bad thing though, it's good for us, and our partners, lol.
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A few months ago, I started masturbating. Last month I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. Now, I looked somewhat inflammed "down there" and it doesnt look the same. Is something wrong with me? And if so whats a quick fix? Is it okay for my boyfriend to still give me oral? Pleasee help me!
Kasey, 20 female (link)
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um, well, i think you should go to your family doctor, or a gynocoligist to get checked out. After you have sex your suppossed to get checked out yearly anyways. You probley have an infection of some sort. There isn't really a quick fix ... just go to your doctor and get checked out, if there is anything wrong he/she can tell you and give you medicine ... and it should be still okay for your bf to give you oral ... i'd get checked out first though.
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i shave my vagina almost every other day..i was wondering if its bad for me to shave so often.. but i like to be completely clean..ppl say that i shouldnt ( im 22yrs old ) shave there so often but i dont mind if alot of hair grows back coz life is short and i dont want my bf seeing me hairy there. please help.. (link)
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if ur boyfriend really loves you then he won't mind seeing a little stubble there. lol. It's not a bad thing really to shave that often, and yes, waxing hurts like a bitch. don't do it. lol.
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Hey it's me again the 14/f that is pregnate..For those of you that don't remember or know me, I had a boyfriend in jail and the side relationship where I got pregnate and found out from a test. Pierre is his name..not mike..but anyway pierre wants this baby aborted..he said he's not going to lose his football career over me or the baby..i`m already 6 weeks and I love this baby more than anything now. Telling my boyfriend was hard.. even harder then telling my father! My boyfriend was really mad since he just got out of jail and everything and wanted to kill the crap out of pierre..well my boyfriend really loves me and you can tell..since he said he'll be the father since pierre won't....but what should i do..should i still consider abortion? because I really want this child... (link)
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Hey there. Well, don't get the baby aborted, because you will regret it. And i'm glad your mother is supporting you, but why would she send Mike to jail for rape when he is not the real father?
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i shaved my ...yea and it itches sooo bad wt can i do to minimize or even eliminate the itching (its also starting to rash!) (link)
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Okay, don't use any lotions, unless it's a moisterizing after shave cream. The best thing you can do is use baby powder, or Vaginal powder. When that used to happen to me all the time, i took a long, warm bath, and that usually took the itching away. NExt time you do it, don't shave against the hairs. First shave with the hairs, to get rid of most of it, then with the stubble that is left, go against the hairs, but no more then once or twice. Doing so causes the itching and rashy look. Better luck next time
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I'm painting my room next weekend. A few years ago when I put up pictures and stuff like that I used glue and nail polish to hold them up. (don't ask) so how will I get the stuff off I tried like dish soap and water but it doesn't work (link)
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sandpaper, crackfiller and some nail polish remover?
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i realy like this guy but he is 5yrs older than me but i dont know why i like him (link)
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Well, if you really like him, go out with him ... unless it's illegal, because you can get him in a lot of trouble.
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people never ask me questions in my inbox. how do i get them to? (link)
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just keep giving A LOT advice on the topic boards ... people read through the amswers and if they like your advice, they will ask you for the advice instead of everybody else
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you suppossed to shave all the hair off down there ? alllllllllll of it?? (link)
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yeah all of it. Well, some girls like to shave just to shape the hair, or make funky designs like smiley faces.
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Ok, I recently picked up a couple subwoofers for my car (2 350W 10" Zebras powered by an 800W amp) and now I was looking at my gravy on my plate.. And it seems to be bouncing.. It never did this kind of thing before I got the subs, and I was wondering if they might be the cause? (link)
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gravy bounces ... maybe the table was shaking from someone else ....
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my doctor told me i was anemic, but i have no idea what that means. can anyone exaplain it to me? (link)
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it means you have low hemoglobin in your blood, which means not enough oxygen is getting to the tissues of your body. Hemoglobin carries oxygen. So he probley told you to eat iron supplements, because iron will build up your hemoglobin
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