Question Posted Wednesday January 19 2005, 1:45 pm
A few months ago, I started masturbating. Last month I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. Now, I looked somewhat inflammed "down there" and it doesnt look the same. Is something wrong with me? And if so whats a quick fix? Is it okay for my boyfriend to still give me oral? Pleasee help me!
snitches6945 answered Thursday January 20 2005, 12:05 pm: a gynocologist would the best. they are trained to help you wit problems "down there". i dunno whats wrong wit you. you should go to a doctor and ask. [ snitches6945's advice column | Ask snitches6945 A Question ]
snowwalker69 answered Thursday January 20 2005, 10:06 am: um, well, i think you should go to your family doctor, or a gynocoligist to get checked out. After you have sex your suppossed to get checked out yearly anyways. You probley have an infection of some sort. There isn't really a quick fix ... just go to your doctor and get checked out, if there is anything wrong he/she can tell you and give you medicine ... and it should be still okay for your bf to give you oral ... i'd get checked out first though. [ snowwalker69's advice column | Ask snowwalker69 A Question ]
NEVERLETG00 answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 4:20 pm: i would say go to the gynocologist, they know everything that has to do with 'down there', hopefully its nothing bad, but wait until you do go there until you do anything else with your boyfriend. xox [ NEVERLETG00's advice column | Ask NEVERLETG00 A Question ]
Shelbyjune answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 3:13 pm: See a gynecologist, just to be sure. It probably isn't much, but could be a bacterial infection or a yeast infection, which often happens when first having sex.
Also, how clean were you when masturbating? As simple as it may sound, it is a bit necessary. Personally, I wouldn't allow oral until you check with your doctor. Yeast infections are messy and ugly (tasting) until they are cleared up. They don't always hurt, but can itch. Hope I helped. [ Shelbyjune's advice column | Ask Shelbyjune A Question ]
thisorthat answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 2:12 pm: Wow that's a lot to happen in a couple of months. I'd need to know what you mean by inflammed. How long has it been since you've had sex? Is is painful? How many times have you been having relations? It could be that your using something that hasn't been used before and it is simply irritation. If you take it slow and stop for awhile and then gradually start up again, the problem may clear up. If it's not simply irritation, then you need to go to a doctor. If you are embarrased to go to your regular doctor for this there are plenty of clinics that deal with venerial diseases and the like. The doctors at those clinics are usually pros at stuff like this. They can take one look usually and figure out if you have anything and if you do what it is. Most are curable so not to worry. AIDS which is not does not show in this way. Herpes most likely wouldn't show up this fast. I have a friend who recently had soreness and puss in that region. She got all worked up about it only to find that it was an ingrown hair follicle. It caused a sist which she had removed, so you never really know with these things. So it's probably nothing to get to worried about but you should definately stop your sexual activity immediately and go see a doctor. Hope I was helpful. That's my advice. [ thisorthat's advice column | Ask thisorthat A Question ]
jbdreamer answered Wednesday January 19 2005, 2:01 pm: You may have a bactiral infection. I would make a visit to your gynocologist. If you do have an infection, you don't want to spread it to your boyfriend. [ jbdreamer's advice column | Ask jbdreamer A Question ]
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