I'm 16 years old , Female . Well I fell in love at the age of 14 [ don't care if anyone thinks it's too young ] . Me and my first love Dated for a year and 3 months . We broke up summer of O8' June 1st , and best believe it was the hardest thing I thinkk i've had to go through . Well In November I started dating this guy named Jason , treats me better than any guy ever has ... Well I do love him and believe I am in love with him. Problem though , It's so hard getting over Justin [ first love ] & it sucks because i'm the first girl Jason [ current bf ] has ever been " in " love with . Y'all it's almost been a year since the break up with Justin & I really need to get over him but I know it takes time ... But I feel horrible bc I can't give my whole heart to Jason when I still feel as if Justin has some of it but I have all of Jason's heart ... It would'nt be that hard if Justin did'nt go to the same school abd I see him everyday . But Jason said he'd wait because i'm worth it but honestly no guy wants to stick around when ur stuck on someone else .. Help me get over Justin , I need to give my all , 100% to Jason , he's the greatest boyfriend i've had .
You say that you really were in Love... If so.. then you will never be able to give 100% of your heart to another man. You will always have your 1st love in your heart forever. You need to know that and move on by dating someone new. You will relize that it wasn't ever going to work between you and the first guy. Take it slow Good Luck!
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17/f
Is it possible to build a worthwhile relationship with a "ladies' man?" What typically goes wrong with this type of guy? He seems to know all of the right things to say and do but sometimes doesn't seem genuine. Thanks!
Well, if he dosn't seem genuine then don't even bother! They tend to be full of them self and put others on the back burner. It is possible to have a good relationship but it is hard. Remember you wanted to be treated like a queen not a maid. If you know what I mean. Good Luck!
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I have these bras and they are/were white. I've had them for almost a year and in the beginning i never really took the time or care to wash properly.
I don't want to put them in the washer because right now they are some of my favs and i'd rather not ruin them.
They're a little cream/yellow/white. I mean there are white parts but parts aren't totally white as well. I bleached them in some water and soaked for about 5 hours...but they stil look the same.
What can i do? Do i put them in a pot and boil with bleach or something?
Ok not sure what it is called but it is by Oxi Clean and you put in a bucket of water wiht your cloths and make them WOW whiter then white or Cleaner then Clean So go to your local store and go to the oxiclean products. It is a poweder. good Luck!!
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I am having trouble making friends, so i invited someone over for later this week. the problem is my house is pretty boring and i dont know what we should do. i dont want to come off boring and lose the possibility of friendship. what should i do?
Find stuff to do, watch a movie have some fun snacks, try to find out what kind of music they like and have music playing, don't be odvious though, um... suggust doing something like shoot pool or bowling. those are always really fun pass by time get to know eachother type of activities. Be yourself. don't be someone your not!! Relax and just have fun! Good Luck!
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well so im 14, turning 15 really soon. i do not look my age at all. i look atleast 17. anyways theres this guy. i met him and he said he was 19, and i really started liking him and stuff, but later on i did find out that he really is 27, he has his reasons to lie about his age but i dont want to get into it. and i just found out his real age the other day, it shocked me to death the first day, second day pretty weird, but today im totally over it and still really like him. and we had a talk last night about us being together and me soon moving in with him when im able to move out. he still doesnt know that i know hes 27, he cant know i know, long story. but is it wrong to be in love with a 27 year old when your only 14 years old? =/
Your messing with fire!! There are a ton of other men out there and to be 14 wiht a 27yr old is well wasting your life. You are starting something on lies and it will never work. Not to be mean or anything but it is the truth. Tell him you know and be honest about it. Please don't mess with him it can be dangerous!!!!!!!!!! Good Luck and please make the right desicion.
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We're all in our early twenties. This is kind of a weird question...
My boyfriend has a few close friends (male), and they all have this really rapid-fire way of talking where there's never a break in conversation. They have all these inside jokes and stories they laugh about with each other constantly, and when I hang out with them, I just clam up because some of the stuff they talk about would never even cross my mind.
I'm a very introverted person. My boyfriend sees a side of me no one else does, and he knows this. He also knows that his friends make me uncomfortable, but he's expressed concern that he feels like they're ignoring me and I'm not even trying to contribute to the conversation. It upsets him.
Problem is, I don't know how to talk with them. It's like they have their own language - I've talked to him about all of this. I'm including his brother in this group, and his brother's not my biggest fan, to say the least. Needless to say, I get quiet around people I know don't like me.
So, I don't fit in. I can't converse with them. How do I get better at this?
Alright, ask him when you are all hanging out to bring up a couple of subjects that you could easily talk about. Also, ask him if everyonce in a while you could just hang out with one or two of his friends rather then all so you can get to know them better and are able to hang out. Also, you could let him go hang out wiht the guys and you could have a girls night. If your b/f says well what do I say if they ask why your not there, just tell him to say that your having a girls night, and end at that. Good Luck!
Yes I do understand that..in that case I would do what I said above which is tell him to brin up certain subjects that are easy for you to join in. Good Luck!
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so i gave my boyfriend a blowjob for the first time last weekend. i gagged a little bit. but then when i did it again last night, i gagged a lot more and couldn't breathe at some point. i'm not grossed out or anything, i'm just gagging because of my reflex. are there any ways to stop doing this? should he just not go as deep in my mouth/throat or what? please help! thanks
jen
Alright, so one thing you could try is using your hand. While giving him the blowjob stay toward the top and cup your hand around the bottom like your giving him a handjob. Then when you ready put it all in your mouth then when you feel that major gaging comming on go back to the top and use your hand. Don't be afraid to stop and only use your hand to catch your breath. another thing he may love is if you know that he has taken a shower and is clean right under his balls there is a sensitive spot, use your tounge and stroke that area. It is right under the balls. Do it for a few seconds and then go right to giving him the blowjob. It will drive him crazy, guys love it! It will also add a little spice and may shock him. Good Luck!!!
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So about 2 years ago i was basically best friends with this one girl and i would talk to all the time, but we didnt become friends until i asked her out, it was on of those things where the girl says, oh i think we should just be friends, and now that i look back upon it, it was sort of true cuz i never talked to her before that. Well I havnt seen her in almost 6 months now which was at this small party i had at my house, and i dont talk to her as much anymore mainly because i go to a different school now and its an all boys school so it rly sucks, but now i feel kinda weird if i were to ask her if she would want to do something because i havnt seen her or talked to her in a while, but i rly want to see her. how do i go about asking her to hangout or somthin?
Just go to her and be honest, say I would love to get together and do something. Already have an idea on what to do. Do something in public. Like say, Would you like to go shoot some pool, or go bowling. Those are always good activities to do. You want to stay busy and able to talk and laugh. So... No movie. Movies is a bad idea if you want to hang out and patch the past. Good Luck!!!
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Well i have a slight conpusion with my sexuality and feel really attracted to me best friend who is a girl. Problem is i am a girl, her best friend, and she has a bf. wat do i do? she told me after i realized i liked her, that she was bisexual. this suprised me but she just doesn't feel the same way. should i tell her about my feelings
I would be honest with her. If she says she is bisexual then she should be fine with you telling her about yourself. Good Luck and just be honest!
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what is the cheapest and easiest way to tell if me or my fiance are sterile?
We've been having unprotected sex for 3 years, not trying to intentionally have a baby, but we want to eventually. we thinks its wierd that after 3 years im still not pregnant
I would call and ask your doctor. They can refear you from there. GOOD LUCK!!! Hope you will someday have that bundle of joy!
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I broke up with my crazy boyfriend for a really nice guy. I'm 17, about to be 18. I do school online and got laid off from my job and it seems like i'm never happy. My boyfriend is soo great but he dated my good friend so now her and her best friend hate me and i was good friends with them both so that makes me really upset.
Usually we just hang out in my room and i yell at him about EVERY little thing he does and i can't even help it. IDK what to do! i'm ALWAYS bored even if he's here and i won't even go to his house anymore because i get too bored. I feel so bad because he treats me soooo good and im mean to him a lot and yell at him for everything.
What can i do to be happy? How can i stop being mean to him?
You have to make a subconcious decision to stop yelling at him. If you really don't want to yell at him then you can make yourself stop. It is hard I would know. I use to yell at my husband for EVERYTHING!!!!! No lie. As far as the friend thing, it is high school drama and you need to face them and say guess what I am happy, even though truly you may not be, and say I am sorry it didn't work out between you to but we are great together. I hope you understand, and say that you are really sorry to be losing her as a freind and if she is a true freind she will understand. Open the shades, get dress, do your hair and makeup, clean a little and trust me that right there will make the world of a difference on how your feeling. Good Luck and don't stress to much tends to only make it worse. GOOD LUCK!!
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15/f
alright, well i always seem to go for older guys and they go for me. i dont even fuck around, we just talk and like eachother and date. but its gettin difficult.
i like this guy, who is yes, too old for me according to society and law. but we've been talkin for a while but im just too scared to date him because i dont want him to get in trouble or my parents to flip. (i never tell them when i date someone but i want to start!)
so what the hell do i do!?
Well..... Let me say b/c I know from experiance that you need to be carefull when it comes to older guys. I have been hurt many times. I know everyone says they only have 1 thing on there mind and I know I never listened but TRUST ME it is true. It really depends on the age...18/19 yes older but can make some room.. older then that, watch yourself. You shouldn't be dating a man that older. You need someone who relates and someone that much older isn't going to. Not untill you grow up some more and are more mature. That is why women who are older and I mean much older then you can make it work with someone who is much older then her. So, honestly to sum up... I wouldn't date an older guy, try dating someone your age, you may be surprised. Good Luck!
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so im 15 talking to a "school" counslor for my first time. she comes out for me on fridays and we talk. well i dont know what to say. i mean i requested her for my cutting and family crap and my doing things that i dont know im doing. so what should i do? thank all help is needed!
Talk about what ever is on your mind. Problems wiht family, personal problems, friends anything that might be on your mind at that moment. Trust me counslors can put stuff together. I talk to one, I just talked for like 1hr and then she put all pieces together and well helped me. Sooo... relax, and don't be afraid to say anything. They are there to help!!! Good Luck!
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So, I live in NY and I have an interview for a summer job soon. I have NEVER been on any kind of interview, and I am SOOO the nervous type. What should i be prepared for? What are the do's and dont's? All kinds of tips are appreciated! And if it helps, the job I'm applying to is for a summer camp daycare type thing for toddlers. Thanks in advance!
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Be Yourself! Don't lie about anything like persoanllity or don't go out of your way to say you are really organized and a hard working if your not. Don't stress your weak points. Always make eye contact! Firm hand shake, always wear a smile, and have fun with it. Act like you have done this a million times before even if you havn't! Now what to expect... Lots of questions.. What do you think your weakness are, your strenghts, how do you work under pressure, those types of things. Good Luck and relax!!!!
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13/f
sorry to add another relationship question, but i need help. i like this guy i ski with, but he doesnnt seem interested in me. whenever i try to flirt w. him he gets uncomfortable and will never tell us about the girls hes liked or play truth or dare when me and my friends do on the chairlift. we have a lot in common. is there any way i can make him like me or tell if he does?
Just talk to him normal. No games don't try to see who he likes nothing. Just be yourslef!! He may like you but you are putting him under pressure and guys don't always do great under pressure. So, no games just talk to him normally! BE YOURSELF!! Good Luck!
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I am 28y old I am not that much fat. but face is very big. I want to reduce it and have a model like face so that I look beautiful.I have chubby cheeks & double chin.Please help me to out.thanks
Mahrina
Do a regualr exerice workout and your face is usually the last place fat goes so it will be the first to go. Also, try to play wiht makeup, shadowing and lighten some spots really helps. Good Luck!!!
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im a girl 14, and i recently madeout with this kid that told people i was bad at it and not only was that embaressing but i wanna show the next person i makeout with that the kid is wrong. so is there any tips on makingout good that you can give me?
Alrighty, you are 14 you are new at it. Also, guys can be mean, it prob. wasn't even you. Some guys blame the girl or make the girl look dumb and inexperianced when really it isn't the truth at all and he really enjoyed it. Don't take it personally! If it was really you which i doubt it was, it will come naturally especially when you meet the right guy. Good Luck!
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i am a fit 14/f. i was wondering if there is anything i can do to make my waist smaller.. like exercises or cut down on certain foods ?!
Ok nice and simple, eat healthier and exercise!
Go to youtube.com and search Mel B on ellen. There is a clip of the spice girl Mel B on the Ellen show doing exercises. Do those plus through in 10 leg lifts per leg. Do this 1hr a day or 1/2hr 2 times a day. I perfear the 2 times a day. Good Luck and do it the HEALTHY WAY!!!!
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Has anyone ever used a pedegg before?? If so, I was wondering if it actually works. You know, if it would make you feet nice, smooth, and soft instead of other products like it that make your feet scratchy and hard.
Ok I have one to and if you get one start by soaking your feet then doing it. It seemed to help me. Also, it dosn't all stay in the egg, all the foot stuff so paper towel under your feet. Good Luck! Yes it does but it may take a couple of times of doing it. Doing weekly or else it will catch up to ya!!
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im 15/ female
ok this is just a little akward...my boyfriend and i had sex 5 times yesterday and yeah i like it really rough and hard but this morning and today my vag has been really sensitive and sore is this normal? im sure it is but i really don't know.Please help me...
Let me start off by saying yes it is normal. On the other hand BE CAREFULL!!!! You are only 15 and really think about what you are doing. Use two types of birth control. Birth control and condoms!!!! Trust me! You are young and don't want to be having to wake up to a child every 2 hrs when you are 16. I got pregnent at 17 so please take it from some one who knows. Please don't take this the wrong way I just want to look out for people younger then me to not make the same mistake I did. Good Luck and BE CAREFULL!!!
That is good...about the birth control. Like i said don't take this message the wrong way!! Just be careful!
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