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gag reflex...
so i gave my boyfriend a blowjob for the first time last weekend. i gagged a little bit. but then when i did it again last night, i gagged a lot more and couldn't breathe at some point. i'm not grossed out or anything, i'm just gagging because of my reflex. are there any ways to stop doing this? should he just not go as deep in my mouth/throat or what? please help! thanks
jen
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Nobody wants and Emergency Response Team sent to your house because you started to sufficate when.. Well, you get the idea.
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However, I can say you're going about it all wrong if you are repeatedly gagging. That's not supposed to happen and would turn off your partner if you were to throw up or pass out because you couldn't breathe properly.
All this boils down to is that you're taking in far too much here and need to figure out another approach not to. That way you won't gag and will not have further problems. You should never be hitting that gag reflex regardless of technique.
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I have a sensitive gag reflex and my boyfriend had a large penis. Basically, poor him. Theres nothing wrong with it, but there are ways to try and prevent it. You need to learn how to relax your throat. When you're giving him a blowjob, dont think you're going to gag, just relax and breathe and hopefully you wont gag as bad. Either that or just dont deep throat him.
Another thing i have learnt is that if you put the penis in your mouth as far as you can without gagging and then put your hand where your moouth is, you wont go too far and wont gag.
Not sure if i made sense...
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It is a medical fact that all of the most sensitive parts of the penis are around the head. The shaft doesn't have the nerves to sense anything other than a vauge sense of pleasurable contact.
Think about that.
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Alright, so one thing you could try is using your hand. While giving him the blowjob stay toward the top and cup your hand around the bottom like your giving him a handjob. Then when you ready put it all in your mouth then when you feel that major gaging comming on go back to the top and use your hand. Don't be afraid to stop and only use your hand to catch your breath. another thing he may love is if you know that he has taken a shower and is clean right under his balls there is a sensitive spot, use your tounge and stroke that area. It is right under the balls. Do it for a few seconds and then go right to giving him the blowjob. It will drive him crazy, guys love it! It will also add a little spice and may shock him. Good Luck!!!
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