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So, I'm a sixteen year old girl, and I live in Ontario, Canada. I LOVE giving out advice. All my friends come to me for advice because:-I tell them the whole truth and nothing but the truth.
-I don't sugarcoat things. If your relationship is doomed, I'll tell you. I won't say "just talk to him" or stuff like that.
-I don't judge. Well, I do judge a little bit, but who doesn't. But, you can tell me you just had sex with 309573458346934584357 different people, and I'll still love you none the less.
-I'm just a normal person, and I probably go through the same everyday crap that the rest of you go through.
So yeah, feel free to drop me a line. As far as I know, I've never screwed someone over with my advice!
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SO ONE FRIDay i was playing around with my bff's and on propse i opned that the bathroom door on one of them 9 don't ask me why i did it) & it was kinda funny, so i laughed. then i went to the bathroom and they diched me. it didn't make me mad cause thy do it all te time. i figued they were mad & figured that they would be over it by monay.they didn't. today is friday that was a week ago. i tried to write an apoige letter before i sent it she sent me a letter. it was really mean the called me a "no longerer" & cused me out.so someone went an talked to them & told them that wrote a letter but didn't send it( do u blame me) so they she worte me another letter saying they didn't want to be mad and sayed should apoliged at the beginning not know. so i still haven't sent the letter yet & i don't do. i'm really hurt & want to be their frirnd agian. they are some of their best friends i have ever had so what should i do any body have an idea please help, ask your friends,I'm desprite!!!!!
That was a stupid thing to do.
There's a guy-let's call him Rick. Rick and my brother, Tim, are friends and after Rick found out that i was Tim's little sister (he's a senior and i'm a soph.- "rick" is a junior) he started like yelling hi to me and all that jazz. Today, my brother's other friend asked if i knew Rick and I said yeah, and he said that we should hang out sometime. So here's my question. I'm not sure if this is like a joke or something- like saying hi to your friend's little sister. So my question is, does he like me or is he just messing around?
ps..Soo on saturday i went to the icecream store that I guess he works at and he gave my friend and I free icecream.
Aw. He's definatly digging you. If his friends were asking you about him, Rick more than likely talks about you to them. Next time you talk to him, bring up the idea of hanging out together sometime.
Good luck!
My mom gave me a pair of earrings a while ago. I wore them all the time and I loved them. The problem is, I lost one of them somewhere in school. It was a total accident and it must have came off while I was running/playing sports. I have still have one of them, but I don't know whether to tell my mom. I have alot of other earrings and the lost earring is probably already stolen. Should I just let it go or fess up to my mom? If they were expensive, I would be in deep trouble. Also, my mom would think I was very irresponsible and wouldn't trust me with anything anymore.
You weren't being irresponsible, it was just an accident. Your mother is probably going to realize that you aren't wearing them anymore and will probably question it, so you'll have to fess up sooner or later. You might as well do it on your own, so she'll realize that you feel bad about it, and that you were being honest.
well there is this boy that lives up the street from me and i like him alot and i really want to get to know him... but i am not sure how tho... i want to meet him and get to really know him becuz he seems real nice and cool but i dont want to be obviouse that i am in to him. please help me!!
Does this guy go to your school? Because if he does, and you both walk to school or take the bus, try to walk/bus with him, and start up a conversation.
hi i've been with my boyfriend for quite a few years now, but unfortunately, everyday i start to think to myself that i should leave him. why is because every single time we get into fights, he never is willing to stay and work it out. he either hangs up the phone and ignores my phone calls/messages or says "just drop it" with an attitude. he also calls me names like bitch when he loses his temper, and personally, i've had enough.
but as you can imagine, i have grown emotionally attached to this guy. i fell in love with who he once was, a sweet, considerate, man. but now it's like i don't know who he is anymore and lately it's just the only thing i can think about is how the quality of our relationship is slowly crumbling beneath us.
i personally do want to call it quits, or at least take a break from each other for a little while, but he refuses. he says things like he can't live without me, and if i leave him he'll kill himself. in a sense i feel that i'm forced to stay in this relationship because i don't want to live knowing i made someone commit suicide over me.
it's a really sticky situation, and i don't know what to do anymore. i do love this guy, but i feel as though i'm falling out of love with him for the person he has become.
please help...
What you just described is an abusive relationship. He's not physically abusing you, but emotionally. He put you in a situation where you want to leave him, but you can't because he's threatened to do something horrible if you do. That's his sick little way of keeping you.
As hard as it is, you're going to have to leave him. I know you don't want to be 'responsible' (even thought it's not your fault) in case he isn't bluffing, but you just have to do what's best.
I suggest telling someone who can do something about it... a guidance counsellor or a parent or anything. Try not to tell your friends, as gossip about that kind of thing spreads fast.
I wish you luck.
My friends and I are trying to get this one boy from my classical music class to start to appreciate rock music and rap music, pop music etc. He isn't responding to most of it and is giving answers to rap music like, "You don't know what he's saying!!" Is there an easy way to introduce him to this type of music?
If it ain't broke, don't fix it. There's nothing wrong with classical, just leave the boy be.
My good friend is really mad at me I asked her what she thought of one of our guy friends and I thought she said she liked him. But we were in the hallway and I guess I didnt hear right. I told this guy friend because he likes her somewhat. well it turned out that i was wrong and he told her that i told him and she immed me and was cursing me out and stuff. I tired to explain to her that i missunderstood and that i was sorry. She then told me that even if she had i had no right to tell him and that she wont ever tell me anything again. She wont even talk to me. I feel really bad about the whole thing. What shud I do?
Just wait it over, she'll get over it eventually, and you guys will go back to being friends. Plus, things will probably work out for the best with this guy of hers.
ok i have a friend and she's been involved in drugs and drinking and all that stuff because she's had a really hard life her father beat her and step brothers used to rape her. she ran away from home so that they couldn't hurt her anymore but she got involved in selling drugs and now if the cops find her she'll probably go to jail i know where she is and i want to get her some help but i don't want her to get in trouble either what should i do?
I'm really sorry about your friend, and I know this advice is gonna sound mega cliche, but you just gotta let someone know. Obviously she's going to get in some trouble, because what she's done is wrong, and she probably knows that. She also realy needs your help right now, and the best thing you can do for her right now is get her the help she needs, even if it means her going to jail for a while. If she doesn't get that help now, she could end up dead in a ditch, and that's the truth.
Good luck.
Well, ive taken all the advice, and i havent had soda and I feel great! Ive been doin regular exercises, but my thighs look fatter then ever same with my upper arms ! Whut can i do??
Obviously you must throw up everything you eat, which you shouldn't be doing anyways.
Don't worry about your thighs or anything, I'm sure your body's fine. I hate how girls always think they have to get all skinny and stuff.
I have a really great singing voice, but I'm so embarassed to sing in front of anyone, even my mom. Can someone please give me tips to overcome my shyness? I RATE HIGH. Someone pelase help
If you start taking lessons to really train your already great voice, you get really comfortable singing in front of your vocal coach, and then it's not so hard singing in front of others. Your vocal coach won't judge the way you sing, he's there to improve it, that's how you can feel comfortable around your coach, and then eventually you'll feel comfortable in front of 3594730687356903476 people.
Good luck!
For the last few days a bunch of boys in my class have been looking at me funny. At first I thought that I mite have had somthing weird on my face or maybe my outfir looked redicules to them. Then they all started talking to me. Not at once, but boys would come up to me all threw out the day and talk to me. This one boy even said that his best friend (one of the boys who wouldn't leave me alone) had a crush on me. I didn't belive him. Another one, was always trying to make me laugh, anouther one was always starring at me. The boy I have a crush on is really cool and always talking to me too. I can tell he has a crush on me. I think all the other boys have crushes on, and it really freaks me out!!!!!! A bunch of girls have been giving me the cold shoulder, or being really mean. My crush is my best friend too, and we are always together, some stupid boy calls us the love birds. I really don't know what to do. Should I just stay away from all boys in general.
Is this just all of a sudden that all these boys are starting to notice you? Because if this type of thing hasn't really happened before, I'd hate to say, but there's probably some sort of rumour going around about you. I know that sucks, but that's pretty much the only reason a guy will REALLY be interested in you, when he knows you'll put out. It's sad, but true.
I've realized how alot of girls are asking how to loose weight and such. Everyone wants a flat, toned tummy, and it really bothers me because we think we have to be like all of these models and stars so guys will like us. Guys, honestly, do you want a stick for a girlfriend or a little cusion for the pushin? I mean back in the 70s and 80s people werent so judgmental and didn't look at someone and say, "your fat". I mean can i get an AMEN! Im sick of people saying they are fat, and saying they need to loose weight when they dont. Think about it! Leave comments and explain why you want to be a stick.
Right on, sistah. I'm a bigger one myself, but I've learnt to love it and everything. I walk down the street with confidence, and I still get guys looking at me. A lot of guys do care about the size that you are, but if you think about it, why would you want to be with someone like that anyways? There's plenty of guys who don't even notice a girls weight when they meet them. I think it's all in the face and personality.
Ok, I've been seeing this guy for almost 4 years (I know, quite a long time!) I met him at uni and now I am in my final year at uni and he is working miles away. We have never been apart like this before as we were always together at uni.
I have mixed feelings about how much longer I want the relationship to go on for. Whenever we speak on the phone he says something stupid or puts me in a bad mood and makes me unhappy.
I feel I want some time to be young free and single especially as I have been witht the same guy for such a long time. Surely these signs mean it won't last??
Also, I went for dinner with some friends of my flatmate and I met this guy who I found really attractive.
I would never ever cheat on my boyfriend but why am I thinking of this other guy all the time when I should be thinking about my boyfriend?
We all went out last night to a club and he was there. He walked me home. Nothing happened but it was so nice to have some attention from someone else and for some reason he made me feel more wanted than my boyfriend does.
Help!! I am so frustrated I don't know what to do! Even if anything did happen, this guy goes back to Australia at the end of May.
Thank you so much if u do reply - i really appreciate it and will give you all 5's! x
I think you know the answer yourself, it's time to split.
Ok, so I've really liked this guy for 3 years but I've never talked to him. *Everytime I have it's been like my friend (she has known him all her life) talking to him and me just kinda standing there. And that was about 2 years ago* How would you just like start talking to him or what would I say? I know the most obvious answer is to start talking to him when my friend does but they dont talk really anymore. Please help.
When you see him walking down the halls, ask him for the time or something, and then throw a compliment at him, like "i like your shirt" or something.
okay..this is going to be long, but i really need help. Ok, my (old) best friend is bipolar. She is really a hard-to-handle person. I dont know what to do cuz lately weve been getting into fights because im so sick of her bitchy-ness. I have no clue on what to do with her, shes like, starting stuff with her one other friend (cuz thats all she has) with me, so now were fighting too. This girl also walks around and shes all quiet and she thinks shes ugly and EVERYONE is out to get her-when really nobody knows her. If she were louder and had more friends-i think shed be happier. What should i do? PLEASE HELPP!!
I know you said that she's hard to handle, and you're sick of her being bitchy, but I think you need to just stick with her, because It's probably not easy for her.
If you want her to get more outgoing, when you're around her, just be in a happy, cheery mood and be very eccentric and outgoing, hopefully she'll realize what she's missing out on by being quiet and shy. You should introduce her to some of your friends, or encourage her to just start talking to people when you go out.
Good luck!
I go to a drama school every week, once a week, and I have lots of friends there, both boys and girls. Some of my best friends are a boy called *Sam* and a girl called *Lisa*. When it was Lisa's birthday, we all went to the cinema. Sam came too. When Sam left later, we all agreed that it was obvious he fancied Lisa. I was a little disapointed as I used like Sam, and I suppose I still like him a little. The next week, somebody brought in a box of chocolates for Lisa and she let us all dip in. When I reached over, she gave me a look that told me to 'get lost'. But that next second, Sam reached over and took about 3 chocolates. When I asked could I have one, Lisa said no. Then a few weeks later at the performance, backstage we had a real argument in which she said I liked another boy at drama. I denied it as I don't like him. I told Lisa that 'you could talk - you think the world revolves around Sam!' and she went and told everyone to get them on her side. I can say something the exact as what she says, but I'm the one who gets in trouble for it!! I know two wrongs don't make a right, but you know how it goes. We are friends again now, but I'm not sure if we were as good with each other as we were. 14/f.
In this type of situation, there's nothing you can really do but have a good honest chat with Lisa. She might not realize how she's acting. If the two want to go out with each other, you can't stop them.
ok, here's the story: i liked this guy (let's call him Bob) and my friend likes (or liked) this other guy (let's call him Bill). well, we told each other during spring break about who we liked. and we promised not to tell. and neither of us did.
But now i don't like Bob and i think she still likes Bill, because it's really obvious (she flirts with him and stuff), but now that i say i don't like Bob, she acts like she doens't like Bill and if i tell her it's really obvious, she threatens to say that i still like Bob to one of the school's blabbermouths.
i know she still likes Bill and i'm getting sick of agreeing that she doesn't like him.
(by the way, we're only in junior high)
Just try not to bring it up, because she's clearly defensive about it. Maybe she's embarrassed about you knowing who she likes when she has no idea who you like now. You can occassionally make a joke about it, or just let her know that you really don't care about who she likes and stuff, and just have her know that she can trust you and you won't go blabbing about her liking Bill.
Okay, so one of my friends is having a B-Day party on Friday. She's inviting a bunch of people. She claims that she is my BFF, and she loves me as a friend so much. The problem is that whenever i go to her parties, she ignores me and hangs around with her other friends, and NEVER talks to me. Should i go ?
I go through the same thing with my friends. She probably values your friendship a lot, but she doesn't want to be with you ALL the time, she wants to socialize with others, since you guys aer probably together a lot. But she also needs to know that you feel neglected, so maybe casually bring it up sometime.
As for the party, I say you go. It's her birthday, and I'm sure she'll really appreciate having her best friend there, even if she doesn't show it.
I like to joke around a lot and be funny but overall I'm a really sensitive person. When someone says something hurtful I think about it over and over and feel worthless and depressed. Things get to me so easily it's pathetic. Other times I get like obsessed with things until I get it. Like I wanted a cell phone really bad, and that's all that I thought about until I got it. I can't help being this way and it really bothers me. Please only answer seriously...
What should I do?
I have the exact same problem. When I want something I can't get it out of my head, and when someone says something jerky to me, I keep thinking about it over and over until I can't think about it anymore. You just got to let it go, and not take things so seriously I guess.
I know, it's so much harder than it sounds.
Good luck!
I was very intruiged by a previous question about the world ending. It got me thinking, many people have alterior motives. Such as Andrew Jackson, did he put the cherokees through the Trail of Tears becasue he wanted to save them from the Georgians, or did he move them because he was racist. Also, im sure many other people had alterior motives toward what they did, like Hitler, Stalin, Martin Luther King Jr. I'm not attempting to be biases here, so don't immediatly assume that i think hitler is a racist bastard, because im a Jewe. And don't i hate Stalin because he's a communist bastard, because im Russian. Im not black though, that would just be weird. A black, jewish, russian guy? Anyway, back to the question, many people chose alterior motives, but why is that? Is it for self-benefit (which is whati beleive is the main reason), is it for society, or is it just so they can have something for themselves and only themselves? Take as long as you want to answer, ill read it all.
I think it's a power thing. They start off with a little bit of power, get drunk off it, being the easy drunks that they are, and then they get greedy, and want more. They quickly become alcoholics, and do whatever they have to get more of it, in their specific tastes. Example, Hitler wanted a 'pure' race, so he was probably addicted to Absinthe or something, and he'd do whatever he had to to get it, even if it involved enilating an entire race.
Pretty simple. I think. I hope that my little theory made sense.