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Lost trust
My good friend is really mad at me I asked her what she thought of one of our guy friends and I thought she said she liked him. But we were in the hallway and I guess I didnt hear right. I told this guy friend because he likes her somewhat. well it turned out that i was wrong and he told her that i told him and she immed me and was cursing me out and stuff. I tired to explain to her that i missunderstood and that i was sorry. She then told me that even if she had i had no right to tell him and that she wont ever tell me anything again. She wont even talk to me. I feel really bad about the whole thing. What shud I do?
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well .. i think you should IM her or Call her and be like listen i know your mad at me in all but i didn't hear you correctly and i know that i didn't have to right to tell him that you liked andd.. i just wanted you to to get together because i thought you liked him but turns out you didn't and i don't want us to be fighting like this .. i mean right now is when you need a friend the most .. and i don't want you cutting again and i can be that friend that tell's all those people off for you .. because they obviously are too immature to handle anything and can't stop spreading it around to everyone.. ( if i were you i would slap all ) but anyways hope i helped <3
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well let her cool off and then explain to her you misunderstood and i mean you must of told him for a reason not to just be a big mouth about it.. explain to her why you might have told him... and dont blame yourself for her cutting.. i use to be a cutter we cant blame it on ppl its our decision we make it on our own no one forces us to do it... but i can tell shes a good friend of urs and i think once you get her not mad at you for saying that help her out on her cutting it could get bad.. and something bad coudl happen i mean she needs help trust me i needed help because i got too carried away sometimes and it was crazy... but yeah everything will be ohkay sooner or later
hope i helped
Halee
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Tell your friend that you are really sorry for hurting her and it was a mistake. Also, say the she is scaring you and that she is too much of a good friend to lose.
Hope I helped!
Ke
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Aww, don't blame it on you. You misunderstood what she said! She shouldn't get mad at you over that. That is stupid stuff. There are better things in life to argue over. Just give her time to cool off, she needs it. Maybe she is doing it for attention, because she is being a little over dramatic about the whole thing. All you can do is apologize, which I don't think you should need to since you have already done so. I mean she will forgive you eventually, it was a dumb thing to even get mad at you over to begin with!
-Brianna
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Just like with any other argument, you should give her time to cool off. Don't pointedly avoid her because that might offend her even more. Just be careful what you do and say around her.
After she's cooled off a little bit, sit her down somewhere where it's just the two of you and talk. The ONLY way to solve a misunderstanding is to talk it out. Explain yourself and the situation and tell her how sorry you are and that you want to help her.
I do think that you should talk to her about her cutting herself and explain to her how dangerous it is but make it clear to her that you're just worried about her. This will show her that you ARE a good friend.
Eventually, this will all blow over. These things don't last long. People will find something new to talk about.
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Just wait it over, she'll get over it eventually, and you guys will go back to being friends. Plus, things will probably work out for the best with this guy of hers.
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I think you should give her a couple days to cool down... and then ask her if you could talk to her. If she doesn't want to just say that you are extremely sorry and say that you hope you can be friends still! Just tell her that you really care about her. Hope i helped!
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