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Hey, please help.
Right there are these two guys I know and really like!!! One of them lives in France and is 16; he came to our school as way to improve his English and we really clicked!!! I miss him loads but we e-mail. Also there is another guy I know who is 21 and we have loads in common ad he has completely stolen my heart with poetry! I told Tom (French guy)that I was going out with this other guy and that I am in love. The thing is I love them both and I now feel guilty and I just don't know what to do!!!

Extra:I'm 15 and in Yr11.

Please help me I will rate, but i'm really confused!!!!

first of all do what ever your heart wants. or listen to your heart i know it sounds corney but it works. if you can stand long distance relation ships then date tom(your french cutie. but if you can't really hold a long distance thing. then go out with the guy that is 21 years old. dont let your self be confused with two diffrent guys.

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hi. my dad is a ass hole. he yells at me and i can never do any thing right. how can i tell him that i do not want to work with him.

just tell him to fuck off. sure he maybe your flesh and blood. but he has no right making you feel useless.

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My boyfriend and I are going to seperate schools next year and I think its going to be hard to stay in touch alot but we both really want to stay together because we love each other alot.. does anyone have any tips that will keep us from drifting apart?

you guys wont drift apart. you'll just not be seeing each other for that much. but anyways e-mail, phone, and really specil nights out work.

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How do I make a picture black && white? I tryed it on paint but it turns completly black. Thanks!
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put this html code in front of the picture on your website that you want to turn black and white.

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you see iv liked this girl for a few weeks and she means the world to me..she knows i like her A LOT but i mean iv never felt this way about someone but the problem is like i dont really think we EVER have a chance going out because shes like more a friend and she doesnt like me anymore than a friend can someone tell me what to do ?

just let her know how you feel. let her know if that she doesnt feel the same way that you'll still care for her no matter what.

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Ever since I was a little kid, for some reason, no one respected me. From 3rd-8th grade people made fun of me non stop. My 3rd and 5th grade teachers hated me, and many of my 7th and 8th grade teachers hated me too. From 9th-11th grade, people made fun of me "just kidding around" whenever I am with my friends they don't treat me with respect. The only real friend I have right now is my sister, and tonight for some reason she didn't want to hang out with me tonight, but she did want to hang out with her other friend. That is the last straw. I really don't know what to do. I am so lonely, and I am such a nice person! I have never had a boyfriend and I just feel like my childhood is being flushed down the drain. Due to people constantly making fun of me, I have ABSOLUTELY no confidence to go out and meet new people. I just don't know what to do anymore, I can't go on like this. I need to be a normal 17 year old girl. Can someone help?

ha i went through the same. the only time any one liked me was in kindergarden. except for a few girl friends i had in the past. need some one to talk to you can always e-mail me. salem_22_@hotmail.com

ps im 14/f and my name is joe

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okay. i need to talk to someone and none of my friends can really help. my parents are divorced and i dont see my dad very often. i live with my mother who is an alcoholic and gets pissed off easliy. today my brother and mom got into a huge fight. she is now gone, i mean she just left. i called her and she said that she just needed to be alone. she hasnt returned yet, and i dont know what to do. i am only 14 and my brother 11. she is most likely going to come home incredibly drunk and when she is drunk life just sucks... i dont know what to do anymore because i am just sick of it. this isnt the first time she has just left......

i know what its like to have an alcoholic parent. exsept its my dad. hes bad enogh to come home drunk on my birthday. if you need someone to talk to just e-mail me at salem_22_@hotmail.com dont be shy i'll be there to talk. I'm online everyday just about.

im 14/f
my name is joe

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My roots get greasy really fast, like within 5-6 hours after I take a shower. Is there any way I can keep my hair cleaner for longer without taking 2 showers daily? Is there a shampoo that prevents your hair roots from being greasy? I rate.

use head and shoulders shampoo no dandruff and your hair stays shiny up to 3 days. you could get it at safe way.

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ok well this might be long but please stay with me.

in the beginning of last year i made a knew friend. he was popular and so funny. we got close.and then at the end we got in a argument about the stupidest thing. and now he hates me and even if i tell him sorry it doesnt even work. and hes just so mean to me like always talking behide my back and i cant stand it cause i never talk about him.and like he'll even comment my myspace pictures and go EWW or something and if im in my friends he'll do the same thing cause im friends with a alot of people who he is friends with except for some and like i cant delete the comment either =[ and its not like im ugly, im really not. like i had boyfriends and i have alot of friends and now like he is turning everyone against me and when i try and talk to him .. like you just cant..hes just so friggin mean and i dont kno wat to do. like hes close with my friends and all and when he hangs out with them and im invited i wont go just cause i kno how mean he'll be to me and its embrassing.

please help..and please dont leave mean advice..i hate when people do that and i already had that done to me on myspac =[

thanks

this is pruff that popular people are just plain ass holes. dont waist your breath on this guy. he'll find out sooner or later that you're not there to hear him insalt you around his friends. he's probably just doing this to become more popular. i also had the same thing happen to me back in grade 6 she said the fucking shitiest things. but i fucking beat the shit out of her because of it. it could also be in his zodiac sigh. is he a sagitarius? well if he is inbox me please.

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ok i wrote before about my mums friend and everything how he wanted me to stay at his house and stuff well now he said to my mum if only he was 20 years younger he would go out with me. My mum got very angry at him and shouted at him for saying this! To be honest with you i don't know what to think. He keeps telling my mum i am so lovely,he asks me to come to his house and stay there. He is in his 30s and i am 17! and recently he has been phoneing my mum more since he met me! is he a pedo? i don't know what to do i am becoming quite scared of him.please advice me. Thanx

what you should do first of all is not start living with that guy. you're only 17 and him being like 30 that is really sick. if he trys anything you have the law on your side you're still minor and that fact that he fells this way about is elegal and well thats only if he acts apon it. dont be like on of thoes big breasted blonds living with an old guy for the money. even though i dont know why he would as you to live with him. he must be one sick old man.

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Hey! Right now I have a Revlon hair straightener but it doesn't work that well. I want to get a new one that works really good but I have no clue what I should look for. Can you please tell me what kind of straighteners works good, the price range of these straighteners, and where I can buy them. Thanks in advance. I will rate you.

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the suramic pro works really well but its not something that you can buy at stores. watch paid programing you might be lucky and get the phone number to order it. the true suramic pro isnt that much.

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I just got back from a two 1/2 week vacation to california. Me and my best friend hung out so much before I left. When I got home I called her immeaditly and she was like Hi. I told her i wus home and i missed her and she said Uh-Huh. *not in a sarcastic way* Shes busy hangin out with all of her other friends right now, i dont mind that she hangs out with them, but Ive been home for a week and she never calls me or anything and she didnt act like she cared I came home! Whats going on?

what could be going on is maybe you've bin gone so long that she's tired of missing you and moved on. you should sit her down no matter what is happening. demand that you to need to talk. ask her what is the deal with not missing you. except be a little more gental

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17/f
Alright, i feel silly asking this question but sometimes i feel weird that my boyfriend is a bit shorter then me. I love him very much and he loves me back even more and a feel like this could last for a long time. Should i talk to him about this (but i guess its not like this is going to change it) or what should i do? Am i stupid for feeling like this?

your not stupid. i've felt that way when i dated shorter guys. well i can only get shorter guys because they always seem to be the kindest to me and im so tall that almost everyone is shorter than me. just be open with him and tell him how you feel. if he truly loves you he'll understand.

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I have been thinking of becoming vegetarian for quite some time now. I was wondering if anyone knew of any websites about being vegetarian so i can decide. Also Do you think it would be ok to ease into becoming one? Not just all at once?
Thanks

trust me it's really easy becoming a vegitarian if you think it wrong to eat something with a face. for me i will not even eat fish even though it's not considered mean. It's still an animal. If you want to get the nutrision of meat but not eat it. try sunrise tofu. heres the website. http://www.sunrise-soya.com/English/home.cfm

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ok... when ever i go on vacations i meet/see really cute guys but im really shy so we barely talk. Then the day to leave comes and i get all emotional about it and i barely even know them. But im really hard on myself over it and i get mad that i didnt get any contact information and stuff. So how do i over come the shyness and get the courage to go talk to them more???

maybe you never will. it might be in your zodica sign personality and that you cant alter. but if its just a thing then all you have to do is go for it. if you have a couple of crazy, fun, roudy friends that dont give a shit what people think of them. then you can ask them for help with your shyness.

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Okay well.. weird question to ask. I'm getting over SI. Like I'm still trying to stop. And I'm not suicidal anymore. Sometimes tho just my emotions come back from SI at the wrong time. I will be all like ya you don't care. And I know they do. And I know how it feels for that to be said to...

But does anyone have any idea to help me get away from being this way like I am?

im sorry i cant really help. im suidile too i slit my wrists from time to time.

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well im 14 and my parents got divorced a few years ago and my dad married this person i hate! she is seriously like the wicked step mother and it blows. She always talks bad about my mom too and my mom is the sweetest person in the world. How can i tell her to shut the hell up without getting grounded forever. help! P.S. sorry its so long!

heres a few things that might work.
1. leave a skate bord infront of the stairs(if you got stairs at your dads place)
2.if look in her room when shes gone out and find some emaracing stuff like sexy gross photos, sex toys, maybe find the granny pantys that she weres. and when you find that stuff. tie it to a rope/ strong sting and nail it to the out side of her window.
3.heres a good one if you have a fire pit or your just a fire bug. burn her personal stuff like old love letters or what ever you can think of.
4.call her names behind her back(like slut, vergin no more) make sure she hears it.
5.fine out the littlest things that'll bug her and do them all you can and act inectent. If she starts yelling at you for it then your dad will think she's insane.

WARNING: IF YOU ARE GOING TO DO THIS STUFF MAKE SURE YOU DONT GET COUGHT

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ok
ive known liam for about 3 years now and he is soo great! we are like best friends but my feelings have grown for him. hes moving away soon to live in australia. i really want to be with him. has any one got any advice on how to hint or tell him that i want to be with him?
please help me!
thanks

well that can be pretty confusing. What i would do is just come out and say that i like him/her. but if they go weird on you or just walk away. you could always just say that you where just kidding. or if you want you can do a hypethedical. sometimes when people do that they get the hint.

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I'm 17 and i started going out with this boy who was 15 and i was 16 at the time. we went out for a month then i dumped him bc i didnt think i liked him anymore. We remained friends and started to become friends with benefits. Now i really regret breaking up with him i think about him alot. He started liking this other girl an we stopped talking. now over the summer we have drivers ed together and he kind of flirts with me and his gf is leaving for college this year. i dont know what i should do or what i should think...im really confused right now. any help would be great!! thanks.

Ok. what i think you should do is. tell his girl friend he's a two timing freak and beat the shit out of him for hitting on you while he has a girl friend.(or let his girl friend beat him up if and when she finds out).

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my b/f called while me and my fam were away this weekend. he left a message it said stuff like, "i miss u so much, i lve u babe, we have to get together and do it again some time." i was so embarressed than i listen to it again it didn't sound like him. I never "did" anything with him. he kissed me like once but that was it. i know i should call but i don't want to cause i'm waaaaaaaaaaaaay to shy. somebody please!. i'm soooooo upset cause it might have been a prank call, my parents are freaking out, i'm freaking out and i've goptten myself soooo upset i've throwen up. I have no way to trase the call cause my grandma called after. I'M ONLY 13! my parents won't even LET me date yet!please some one.

just phone the ass hole back and freak him out.
1.leave a message on his phone saying oh sure i'ed love to have sex with you some time(i not saying that you have to mean it)
2. sneak into his house and got into his room with red lip stick. write on the wall. I need you.
3.Leave get a please report file for herassment from the message on the phone.(that'll make him shit his pants.)
4. sit back and relax he might phone back but if he does you can get a nother herassment file.
5. have fun with this and laugh your ass off.
this may not be good advise but i did this once when i was 12. someone phoned my house and said hey lets get together and all that sick crap.

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