Well, my friends are always asking me for advice, and they say it helps them. So I hope I can help you! When people ask for advice they kinda have an idea of what the answer will be, but they need to make sure! Anyways I relate to so many of the problems, so I can answer things knowing what will come out in the end! I mostly know all about relationship problems...I hope I can help you! Yes, it is true that I am only 15, and I haven't experienced eVeRyThInG so don't expect me to be able to know everything! So, yeah I will tell you straight up how I feel and what I think you should do, so I hope you take my advice! Just holla at your gurl, and leave one in my inbox!
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well lets see there is this guy i know and i think he flirts with me but i dont know he talks to me and he always lays on me and you know is really touchy..like sometimes he will rub my arm and i dont know if he is like flirting or just being a guy.. (link)
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lol, same w/me, but lets just say it is flirting! Gurl, he likes u...good luck w/this guy. Hope it works out 4 the better. Hope I helped ya!
*+*Becky*+*
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well i have this friend lets call him fred well fred and i have known eachother for hmm 6 years or so and hes 2 years older than me so hes 15 and a sophmore and im 13 in 8th grade anyways fred used to hate me but now he wants to get with me there are two problems..
1) he has told me himself he cant keep a girl for longer than 3 days, but those 3 days cud be the best 3 days of my life since i've liked him for 6 years
2) he told me he does weed now im not sure if he still does but he told me he quit and im not sure if i shud believe him
3) i smoke and he's okay with that but i dont want to get him addicted by bein w. me
4) we live 30 mins away from eachother but im movin to his town this summer so when im a freshman he'll be a junior... (link)
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Follow ur heart!! I think it would be fine 2 go out w/him, but it's ur decision, I can't tell u what 2 do. Well, I'm not here 2 tell u what 2 do, just tell u what u can do. So, just follow ur heart, but if u really like him then that's what counts. I think it's really bad that u smoke, but yea again I can't tell u what 2 do...but u should stop. Hope I have helped u!
-*^Becky^*-
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There is this girl that I really like, and she likes another guy. How do I get her 2 like me 4 me, and not like the other guy? (link)
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Well, just be urself, and if it was meant 2 be then she will see. Let her like the other guy, but u just keep being friends w/her, and she will see how good of a friend u r. Then she might "like like" u, but u never know what will happen. Just let nature play it's course. And just 4 me...be urself, and not some1 else, trust me, ok! Believe me I know how the girl will act b-c I know who she is, and I know who wrote this, so yea trust me...hope I have helped u!
-**-..Becky..-**-
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so is it okay 4 your boyfriend to call you baby but you wanna call him something other than "babe" but not like hunny, hunnybun, or other corney names?! like call him baby too or would that just be weird?? (link)
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Call him anything u want...its ur bf! Hope I helped.
-Becky-
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My best friend was flirting with the guy i really like. What should I do? (link)
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Tell her off, say that's my man I saw him first!...lol just having some fun, but that's what I would do. The NICE thing 2 do would be 2 ask her y she was doing it when she knows u like him. But let me warn u, flirting is very easy, and sometimes, u can't even tell u were flirting w/some1 until some1 gets mad @ u...hope I was of some help.
..::**Becky**::..
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My pencil sharpener broke! how do i sharpen my mechanical pencil? Please help me cuz i cant write without it! (link)
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hey kathryn and mallory! U should get some lead...haha good 1 girly girls! I'll make sure I get u guys a pencil sharpener 4 ur mechanical pencil!
-bEcKy-
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I like this guy and I've liked him for a year now. At the beginning we both loved eachother but we didn't go out. then he lost feelings for me and 'fell in love' with another girl. he went out with the girl and hes extremley sad because she broke up with him. I'm always there for him, i talk to him when i can and try to make him happy. I love him but he doesn't know. And if he knows that I love him he'll tell me that 'i need to move on because we can't have nothing together' or he'll tell me 'good-bye forever then'...and then that has me depressed. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!!!!!!!! :( (link)
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hey, well same has happened 2 me...but eventually he will come crawling back 2 u, just give it time. He will see that he can't live w/out u, so he will beg u 2 go out w/him...trust me it's sweet revenge...lol if u know what I mean! Just keep on making him happy when he is sad and he will soon see...hope I have helped ya!
[[**^^Becky^^**]]
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I am totally in love w/this boy...
Well, we flirt all the time, but there is another guy that I flirt with, and he asked me out!! I want 2 say yes, but I'm still in love w/the other guy...
What should I do?? Please help me! I rate 5's!!
*-*-**cOnFuSeD oVeR gUyS**-*-* (link)
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hey, omg...SAME W/ME!! neways, follow ur heart b-c it will alwyas know what 2 do. If u like both of them then thats a real hard thing 2 deal with, but chose the guy u like the most and go out w/him. I would go out w/the 1 u like b-c the guy u luv flirts w/u, but if he hasn't asked u out yet then he isn't going 2...so go w/the other 1. Hope I helped u!
**Becky:)
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I've known this guy for like 3 years, and liked him on and off for a while. I like him, and just found out he's going to ask me out. What should I do? (link)
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If u like him, then say yes!! This can be a dream come true 4 u, if u really like him, but if u had 2 ask ppl what 2 do, then u might not like like u say u do. Just follow ur heart...it's always right! Hope I helped ya out!
>>Becky
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i need ur help my boyfriend i think is cheating with my best friend and i dont know what to do when i talk to my friend about it she denies ever talking to my boyfriend but like the next day i see her hugging my boyfriend and kissing him on the cheek it gets me irritated and i dont kno what to do and if i go up to my boyfriend and ask him about it he says he never talks to my friend signed confused??:-/ (link)
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Get both of them in a room w/u and just tell them wut u think is going on. U might get some news u don't like, but since u r doing this then be prepared. Hope I have helped.
xoxo-bEckY-xoxo
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OMG I NEED SOMEONES HELP!!! my boyfriend just proposed to me and we been together for 5 years and im only 17 now but i dont know what to say i told him i needed to think about it and when i said that i saw his face and omg i just felt sooo freakin bad so im just wondering should i say yes or no?!?! please answer asap i rates 5 (link)
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Well, ask urself...do u love him? Even if u do u might be 2 young 2 get married. U can say that u want 2 be w/him, but ur not sure about marraige b-c ur only 17. Say that and if he has a sad look on his face, say I do luv u it's just I dunno if I want 2 get married b-c I'm only 17...do you get me babe? But I want to be with you for a long time! I hope I helped u...if u need more help on this and u feel better talking just the 2 of us, instead of every1 seeing it then IM me @ AzianChick143 or CamLoverForever or iluvcamcoleman15.
LoVe yA,
-bEcKy-
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i feel so young all my friends are turning 15 this year and i just turned 14!! were all in the same grade though. i just want to grow up to where in 16 so i can party and drive. my parents are so protective because im there only child and they dont want to lose me with all the murders and kidnappers and shit in the world. it upsets me. they think im still a little kid still and they treat me like im a little kid. does anyone feel this way what should i do?? (link)
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Yea, I do all of my freinds r turning 15, but I'll just be 14 next week...it sux. Neways, talk 2 ur parents, and tell them u want 2 be able 2 hang out w/ur friends, and just be a teenager. Hope this helps.
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Ok, technically, this SHOULD be under some sort of Technology thing, but they didnt have a sub-category for it.
Ok, the last couple days, someone will leave me a voice mail, but I can't access it, because when I dial my voice mail I get a busy signal and the screen says "Call Failed: Network Busy"
Last night at almost midnight I was able to finally get through after shutting my phone off then on again. Today, however I have no such luck.
Any suggestions? (link)
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Ask the ppl that work @ the place u got ur phone. Hope I have helped.
..==Becky==..
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my girlfriend and i are sort of drifting apart... so its getting harder to like her when i dont see her too much... but my best friend and i have been hanging out a lot and im starting to like her... but i cant break my girlfriends heart but i dont want to be dishonest with her???? (link)
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U need 2 be honest w/ur gf, if not she could find out and things would get worse. Hope I have helped.
-bEcKy-
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ok im 5'4 and 124 pounds! i know fat butt but o well i wanna lose 11 pounds! any excercises / diets that will help?! please help! i cant stand being th " GIANT " any more! i rate 5s! (link)
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U R NOT FAT! OMG, u shouldn't say that about urself. U should be happy the way u look, I'm need 2 gain weight, I'm only 102 and im a freshman!! Please don't try 2 lose weight it's a bad thing!
..==Becky==..
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well..i just went to the movies with alot of people last night (friday) and i was there with the person i like..and we were holding hands and stuff.. then right befor the movie ended..he made out with me..i didnt know what to do..is it true that it comes naturally to you? cause it didnt to me..i know i did terrible..and he is much more advanced than me..this was my first kiss..it was so embarrising cause i know i did a very bad job.. will i ever learn? and why didnt i know what to do right away like everyone told me i would? please help me.. (link)
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Well, how do u know u did a bad job? He could have thought u did great...and neways of course u will learn it takes time!
-bEcKy-
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Hi. My name is Toni and i'm a girl. My friend has been putting things about me on her profile and they are really mean things. I saw them and they made me feel bad and when i was alone, i cried for hours. I can be a dramaqueen, but who isn't one at one time or another?
Also people in her guestbook were calling me a bitch and saying that i was immature and they dont even know me! Should i tell my friend? Thanks in advance!
Toni
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hey, OMG u should talk 2 ur freind, and tell her that those things she put in there hurt ur feelings. If she was a real friend then she wouldn't have put hose things on her profile. M-b u should friend a different friend that would never say mean things about u...hope I have helped.
*BECKY*
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Ok I love my boyfriend to death but the problem is that some girls come up to me and tell me stuff that he might have done. The thing is i dont kno who to believe. I mean i trust him but he has cheated on me in the past so that kinda makes me think twice. I just dont want to accuse him too much b.c i dont want him to break up with me. Sumone please help me i really need advice.
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Ask him if he is cheating on u. If he says no then believe him, don't spy on him 2 find out if he is lying. If u do and he wasn't cheating on u, and he catches u then he will brake up w/u. So, just ask him, and trust that he will tell u the truth. Hope I have helped.
*/\Becky/\*
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i went out wit this kid for 5 months nd i was like totally in love wit him but his best friend who im pretty tight wit that hes feelin this otha chick so i dumped that bitch on the curve! i was really pissed.. but that was in june nd' ive gone out wit like two otha ppl since (nutin serious) but im still madly in love wit him.. when eva i see him in school we dont even talk no more like at all.. we jus walk right passed each otha. but he says that hes still feelin me when i talked to him once the whole time since the beginning of september. some people jus tell me to talk bout otha guys when im near him to like one of mah friends to get him pissed but i dont htink that'll work..i dont know though. now he's telling this kid to ask me out so i dont know if he really wants me to go out with someome else or if hes just being stuborn like he always is just to see what i would do. i called him today to see why he tole that kid to ask me but he was sleeping so i didnt want to wake him up. wat do you think i should do??? o ya im 15!!!!! (link)
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I think u should talk 2 the guy, and tell him how u feel. U could talk 2 him in person(that's probably the best 2 do), on the phone, or in a letter. And ask him how he feels about u, if he likes u then go out w/him. Hope I have helped u.
~*~Becky~*~
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i have a Sony Psyche walkman. it's about a year old and it worked great. well just recently the music only started coming out of the left ear. i thought the batteries could be going, so i put new ones in and it's still the same. so whats wrong or how do i fix it? im pissed off cause it was a $50 walkman. (link)
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U should get some new headphones b-c that's probably the problem...hope I helped ya!
LoVe yA,
-bEcKy-
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