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i feel so young all my friends are turning 15 this year and i just turned 14!! were all in the same grade though. i just want to grow up to where in 16 so i can party and drive. my parents are so protective because im there only child and they dont want to lose me with all the murders and kidnappers and shit in the world. it upsets me. they think im still a little kid still and they treat me like im a little kid. does anyone feel this way what should i do??
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I know that this is going to sound really cliche, but enjoy life as you have it, because it really does go by quickly. I grew up too fast, and I am being completely honest when I tell you that it gets you nowhere. Dont get caught up in partying until you are really ready. I fucked up my life so much, and I really regret alot of things Ive done.
As for the way your parents treat you, kiss ass! If you do something that they think is "bad" then act like you are really really sorry.. Because remorse causes them to feel guilty and yeah.
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Yea, I do all of my freinds r turning 15, but I'll just be 14 next week...it sux. Neways, talk 2 ur parents, and tell them u want 2 be able 2 hang out w/ur friends, and just be a teenager. Hope this helps.
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this also makes me really mad.......i am about to turn 14 and i get treated that way too. you see, i am in the eight grade, but i am taking Algebra1 which is a highschool subject, and they treat me so differently. my advice to you is just ignore them, they are not that much older than you! and if they dont stop then just shrug it off!
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take it easy im have the same problem and i love it. Cuz im 12 and all my frends are turnin 13 or 14 but im happy & u should be to. There turnin 15 which also means there hormones are 2 high and they wanna have sex and to have babies and wanna go throo pregnancy and want 2 be kiked out of the house b.c there moms wont take care of there babies.
Mo :p
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I learned about that the hard way. It all has to do with your maturity level and the age you act. When I was 14 and I would ask my mom if I could go to a party, she would say no. Instead of acting my age and having a nice mature conversation about it, I would say MOM!!!!!!! WHY NOT!!!!! THATS NOT FAIR!!!
Eventually, I learned to show my mom that she could trust me, and I had to show her that she could trust me. The best thing you could do is just sit your parents down and let them know that you arent theyre little girl anymore, and that your ready to go out and see the things that the world has to offer. Let them know that they can trust you. Hey you can even offer to be home by like 10 ( better than nothing right) If they still say no, then just back off and give it time.
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I've never felt that way - but my parents feel the same way and I have a bunch of friends that parents are the same way. You just have to show them that your capable of taking care of yourself in a hazardous situation. It might take awhile but soon your parents will get it. Try talking to your parents about it, explain why you want to do this or that and blah blah. If they don't get and refuse to let you do anything then keep pushing it, show them that its something you really really want. Hope I helped.:) Good luck xox
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i feel the same way.. for my parents if i say "but mom! everyone else is going and im gunna miss out! then i wont be able to show my face!" or something along those lines...
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yep, parents are like that, theres nothing really to do hun. you can't change your age, and you sure as hell can't change your parents. sorry.
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Well first off, dont rush your life by. When your older you'll be upset you weren't enjoying every moment. Not trying to scare you but really none of us know how long we'll be here on earth so we better live like we were dying! Enjoy every second, cherish every moment. I know you wanna be 16 and party and drive and all that but you need to focus on 14 and just enjoy your life now. When you become 16 it will be reallly reallly exciting b/c its the age you wanna be at. But trust me with driving and partying comes tons of responsibility. As for your parents, tell them you feel you want some more privelages. Prove how mature you are! Talk to them about deeper situations, how you feel on life, friends, issues.... they'll start to see a change. Idk, it totally worked with my parents. Good luck!
You could also tell your 'rents how you feel.
GL!
XOXO
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