i guess this might be a stupid question, but something kind of depresses me. my boyfriend asked me last night would it be okay if he spent new years with his guys this year. he said that him and i spent the last 2 new years together and he wants to hang with his friends. ofcourse i said yeah, because im not the controling type. well, even though i said yes, it makes me a little sad knowing that he doesnt want to spend it with me. its like, why cant i chill with his friends too? its not like i never had. do any of you guys think i should tell him how i feel? or do any of you think that im wrong for feeling the way i feel?
thanks for your time.
18/f
i think you should tell him how you feel
you guys have been together for 2 years so you probably already have an understanding for each other.. and who knows? maybe he will let you chill wit his friends. go for it. good luck.
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i got this discibility that physically shows and i have a hard time getting to know girls and asking them out because i dont want to be the butt of the jokes because of my discibility and people staring at me what should i do?
go for it anyway. if you like a girl don't let your physical features scare you. they should like you for your insides... and if they don't they are just shallow losers and there are better people for you.
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Do you ever feel like breaking down.. DO you ever feel out out place.. ANd somehow you just don't fit in and no one understands me... I've been kiked... hurt.. well I'm just like him.. and the rest of the song.. and sometimes i just wanna curl up and give up! the kids at my school are so mean to me. And a lot of my friends think they're to "cool" to hang out with me. I've been pushed down and kids kicked me and I've been in 5 fights with a bunch of kids and always get beet up picked on. And i don't belong.. I think i should just run away. no one would miss me. I'm just a loser in the way! I just wish i was a little cooler and people would be nicer to me. like the other day i was over my "friends" house and him and his neighbors made fun of me and 1 kid punched me so i fell and then they threw things at me. I've broken down.. ok and I'm young and hopeless and going no where fast is what they say.And the girls... forget about it... i mean the only reason most them don't like me is becuse the cool kids don't like me. I mean I'm not ugly..but you get my point. And some kids just pretend to be friends with me and then stab me in the beack like it's a game. And my gf just played me. Well you kinda get my idea of my life. that's not the details though. It's a lot worse. Well is there anything i can do? Or should i run away becuase no one would miss me!
Signed,
A loser!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You shouldn't run away. Life can't be THAT bad.. can it?? well, if it is, just try your best to find other people who to be friends with. Outcast's should stick together. and i'm not saying you're an outcast, maybe you're just misunderstood, but.. just find some other lonely people who neeed a friend.. and be their friend. hopefully, they won't let you down.
heck, i'll be your friend. IM me.. oxcloolessx0.. just don't run away, k?? whatever you're running away from is not gonna be fixed by leaving it.
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What age would you let your Child date?? What would you allow them to do with Him or Her?
i don't have a child haha but i think i would let them date at like 12
but, i'd only let them hold hands and hug and kiss .. NO MORE until they're like 16
... but thats just my opinion
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iight annie .. i jus' read your advice column thing today so idk when it was you replied to the song lyrics i sent you .. anways- don't hook me up wiht john c. cause i don't like him like that and i think he's goin out with carolyn .. don't hook me up with cute butt either, you're putting all these thoughts into the girls that sit near me in german and they're really pissing me off
okay just thought of a question::
iight here it goes, these three girls that sit near me in german piss me of like crazy. they think i like sexy b(lol the nickname) and i don't and we had the october fest today and they kept trying to get me to dance with him with the polka shit .. and these girls are driving me insane .. i sit next to the main girl who pisses me off in math which is the period after german and all she ever writes is "(my name) and (his name) forever" in a giant heart and that bitch UGH what should i do about em? because i told the main girl who pisses me off many times that i don't like him like that .. soo yeah
--i think this is the first time i asked for advice from you on your website--
iight lata xo (hugs rule but kisses are cool) lol
yeah right, you don't like him. thats bull. but ok.
tell the main girl that she is starting to piss you off and you will get your gangsta (eb) to beat her up. ok jp.. by the way thats gonna be so funny.. but really, tell her that its pissing you off and you really don't like him and if she doesn't stop, find some dirt on her and do the same exact thing to her. that'll give her a piece of her own medicine
yeah, hope that helped.. if not, sucks for you.
much love xo annie
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y is that every guy that i like ends up breakin up with me b.c all the want is sex and i won't give it i end up gettin hurt and i feel bad b.c i think that in order to go out with them i have to give it up and i dk what to do
HELP PLZ.... RATE U 5'S IF U ANSWER
you shouldn't give it up if you don't want to. and these guys that you're going out with are little slimeballs and need to be dumped in the river. if all your boys want is sex, just move on to something//someone better. i'm sure you can get something better than the sex freaks. someone sincere. don't let them hurt you like that. if that's all the want, end it, and move on. you're worth more than that. and you have great morals. keep it like that.
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so i just started this play and my friend is in it but it seems she doesnt even like to talk to me in the play she always is talking to someone else besides me and i am thinking shes ignoring me or doesnt really like me. i dont know what to do.
i think you should try to talk to her more. Maybe she feels the same way. sometimes its just hard to go up and talk to someone if you think they are ignoring you. and that's probably how you feel too, but i think you should go ahead and try it. and if she doesn't talk back much to you, then you'll know whether or not shes ignoring you. i hope i helped..
by the way.. what play ya in??
i'll come see it ;) .. haha
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so me and this kid have been friends for a long time and last year he said he really liked me and now we just dont talk like he always ignores me. he knows i like him but he always starts talking about other girls. what can i do to make my self better or to make him like me.... i really like him its just he seems he doesnt even want to be my friend
you shouldn't change yourself for him. or any boy. if you want him to like you, just be yourself around him, try to spend as much time with him as possible.
he probably does want to be your friend since he is always talking to you about other girls. it seems like he trusts you. or maybe he's just being a jerk and rubbing it in your face, but you'll have to decide which one.
i think you should just try to talk to him more. if you've been friends for a long time, ask him why things changed and why you're not as close as you used to be. maybe he'll wanna change that too.
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During ur period if u had sex would you be able to get pregnant???
yes, you could
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on a minimum, how much are u supossed to drink daily?
6 cups? i think
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my best friend seems to cut herself alot wen she gets really mad or stressed and alot of the times i tell her not 2 do it and some of the times it works but others it fails and she does it shes gotten alot better but it still scares me wen she does it but now her boyfriend says that she has 2 promise on ther relationship that she doesnt do it and they have been goino ut 4 7 months but idont no i want 2 help her but it seems like her boyfriend has it all under control and i feel helpless and that im lettin her down do u have any advice!?
ps sometimes she comes 2 me becasue i use 2 cut myself but i learned 2 stop
there is not much i can tell you to help. i don't really know much about this subject, but i just say, try to find her alternative ways to express her pain. journals n such. or there is a rubberband method i mentioned in an earlier question.
the idea is instead of cutting yourself, snap the rubberband on your wrist. my friend does it, and it helps her.
but anyways, how did you stop? you can try to encourage her with that and let her know she's gotta keep pushing.
im so sorry, i really wish i could help. if you want me to look up some more stuff about it, IM me. oxcloolessx0 or puppyx3xlove
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everytime i have sex with my boyfriend, he tells me he's too big to fit "in there" is it my fault...or should i just break up with him and go out with a man whose dick is smaller?
hmmm, you could masterbate and try to make it bigger
or you could have sex with a whole bunch of people to stretch it out.. but then you'd be a whore..
it's not your fault that its too big. if you like him that much dont break up with him because of it.. but if it really bothers you that much find someone whos smaller or just more comfortable with you. hope i helped x3 puppy
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when I think of what i've done all the pain that I brung baby you should've walked out on me and when I turned away from you whenever there were hard times how could you still be with me and there is no mistake when I hurt you that day ans when I was somebody new I should've been mad at you baby it breaks my heart to think that lovin' me is not easy to do and I don't mean to make it hard sorry for all the changes I put you through
and it's hard to believe after everything you're still right beside me
awwww!! thats my song.. cute lyrics. anyhoo, gi, lol, i'll give you advice anyhow since you didn't ask and never will...
aight well, my advice is that you should go out with John C. or Cute Butt bcuz i like them for you and either one would make a cute couple with you.. you'll have biracial children.. awww!! cute.. anyhoo yeah, or else i'll just hook you up with someone ugly like James Burkholder and he will call you a sexual harasser. kk? much love 1x3 puppy
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hi i just got my 3rd to last filling and im numb!! ive had novocaine before btu this time its relay bothering me!! does ne1 no how to make the numness go away because my mom just cooked a really good dinner and last tie i tried eating i chewed half of my lip up lol. and he always has to double on my novocaine because i have sensitive gums or whatsoever. i want to eat!! duz neone no how to get rid of the numbness or at least make it go away faster?? kthnx
keep slapping yourself over and over.
well, kinda weird, but it workd for me
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hey ok i play volleyball and we want some warn up music 2 listen 2 kuz other skools have it and we thought it was a good idea does en1 have en ideas of wut songs 2 use like upbeat music and no cussing
hmm.. when my brother wanna get hype for bball he usually plays some Jock Jamz remixxez n stuff.
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*I rate*!ok... the like 2nd week of school my friend in 7th (im in 8th) tells me that this guy told her that he likes me (hes in 9th) and he told her my first and last name and said he really wanted to go out with me but he wouldnt tell her his name... now of course after she tells me this im curious so she looks in my yearbook and says i think its him... and im like omg! cuz he is really hott and nice cuz i had p.e. and swimming the same time as him and i had a huge crush on him and i kinda still do... and i want to go out with him really bad! wut should i do?
(sry so long) i rate! haha
~Beccah~
start talking to him. a lot. flirt. a lot. let him know that you are interested.
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ok.. Ive been going out with this guy for a while and i just talked to his best friend and told me hes been cheating on this other girl with me.. I have heard her name b4 from his brother and i asked his best friend if that was the name and he said yeah, i really dont wanna lose him, but the bad part about it is i lost my virginity to him and he said he lost it to me, well his best friend told me out of the blue that he wasnt a virgin.. I don't know what to do, i actually fell for him and i know he is going to give me an excuse or make up a lie when i go and try to break up with him !! I dont know what to do!!!I will rate 5's for the effort!!!
just go on and break up with him
if he makes up excuses, tell him you don't wanna hear it. and just go through with what u think is best.
you shouldn't stay with him if he's gonna lie to you
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how do i know if i need a bra?
wow .. ummm ... you can kinda tell, if you notice ur chest is growing out
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im in 8th grade and i havent got mi period yet. what time am i supposed to get it?
most girls get it around 6th or 7th grade. but don't worry, it all depends on the girl. everyone is different. so you can't really predict when it'll come
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How can I keep my eyeshadow on all day? It's powder eyeshadow that I love but it always fades away during the day. I don't want to keep reapplying it. Any tips so my eyeshadow stays on longer?
try putting vasaline or foundation on and then put on the eyeshadow. it should work.
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